Do you care if your ex is doing well or not? If you don t have a good time, will you feel distressed

Updated on society 2024-05-04
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I don't care, since they are all exes, even if he rises to the top or falls to the bottom, it's none of my business. The two of us are like parallel lines that no longer intersect, so there is no question of whether to help or not.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No, although he may have heard it himself if someone talked about it, but he didn't care about it.

    Even if he is not doing well, it is not something I need to worry about, if he is really difficult to find me for help, I will also lend a hand, after all, I also know and love each other, but I will not take the initiative to help him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm sure I'll care about it.,After all, I left at the beginning.,I really want to see how bad her life will be in the future.,If she doesn't have a good time, I won't feel distressed.,But I'll help.,After all.。。 I can't make it up anymore, I still love her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I promise not to care, I don't care about it, my ex should be more irrelevant than a stranger. It won't do any good to meddle in the other person's life again, and no matter how much he needs help, it will not be his ex's turn to lend him a hand. I don't want to disgust myself and forget about this person is the last thing I did for him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Definitely not, I hate ** air conditioning the most, not to mention my ex, what does it matter to me whether it is good or bad? This may hurt your own people again, the farther away you are, the better, if you can't get along with each other, just forget about each other!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I'm sorry, I'm not a philanthropist, even if I were, then I wouldn't, after all, I'm human, emotional, we're separated, we're separated, the relationship is broken, you're doing well, I won't touch, you're not doing well, I'm not going to laugh, and as for helping, it's even more impossible.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Ha, a scumbag like this, who cares if he is doing well or not, if he is doing well, I will add to my heart. If he is not doing well, he is in harmony with me, and I just wish him all kinds of illnesses, bad luck, no fixed place, and a lifetime of splitting legs.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This is a kind of revenge psychology, your ex has left you, you see that she is not doing well, you will be happy, it means that you have never loved her, but you can't get her psychological imbalance, she is not doing well, you feel that the psychology is more balanced, so you will be happy, your ex is doing well has nothing to do with you, so there is no need to have this kind of psychology.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because it's useless to be happy or distressed! Why bother to find yourself uncomfortable? Your ex is a passerby, and you got off early in your life, and normally you will be a stranger in the future, so why should you have any mood swings with your ex in your heart?

    Unless some people are holding and want to get back together with their ex!

    There must be a reason for a love to end. No matter how much reluctance my heart was filled with at the beginning, or I wanted to talk about my ex's skin and blood. It will turn into self-mockery after time has passed!

    laughed at why he was so naïve in the first place, why did he always think of so many impossible comforts in his mind since he broke up. This shows that you have matured! Whether it's good or bad doesn't really matter to me anymore.

    Because I have lost some kind of identity, I will not feel distressed or happy, at most I will be light and light.

    In my opinion, if there are two contrasting moods, either they have not let go of him, or they have truly loved each other. But as far as I'm concerned, the two of them have separated, I feel distressed, and in the end it's myself who gets hurt, I'm happy, it's a kind of luck, I think he didn't have a good life without me, it's not. There is a fate for two people to be together, and after separation, it can only mean that this fate is over.

    Being good for yourself is the best way for your ex and yourself.

    Whether you are happy or sad, in fact, I think the right thing to do is to treat it with a normal heart, just be a friend or acquaintance. If you can, you can help. I have a girlfriend who has been with me for five years, and in the end because her family has to buy a house at that time, and my father is sick and needs treatment, her parents think this is not good, and my mother is forced to die, and finally we separated, I don't dare to look at her when I leave, I always feel sorry for her.

    Later, she also got married, and I got married, and once her husband had an accident while driving, and she told me that I helped her. Life is good, life is good, no one is right or wrong, in fact, I don't believe in fate or believe in it, no one knows if tomorrow will be the same as today, meeting is fate, knowing is fate, this life is very short, why bother to dwell on the past ......

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you really love your ex, then you must hope that the other person is doing well. When I heard the news of my ex by chance and learned that he was not doing well, I would feel a moment of loss in my heart.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I heard that my ex was not good, I will feel uncomfortable, this is because my ex and me, after all, I still had a relationship before, I also know her better, I hope she can live a little better, if it is not good, I will also feel uncomfortable.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I won't feel bad, because when I broke up, I made a wish, hoping that he would not have a good time after leaving me, so that I would feel more comfortable, and I wouldn't be so sad if I didn't love me, he chose to live up to my trust and betray our relationship. I can't let go, so I don't want him to be well.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, for the ex, the relationship between the two people has ended, so whether he is doing well or not has nothing to do with him at all, and don't invest too much energy in caring about each other.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I won't be sad and I'm not too happy. Because it has nothing to do with me anymore, it doesn't matter to me how she lives.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No, because I've let go and I don't have any contact with him, so I don't feel bad.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    He's not doing well, and if he's not doing well, he's not having a good time. He's doing well, I don't have to worry about it at all.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No, because it's all in the past, and there's no intersection with him. Don't worry about him anymore.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    2. Unless you are already disgusted with each other, unless you have not loved each other before, unless you have no feelings for him at all, unless he has never entered your heart.

    3. It's normal to understand and spy on your ex's current life, and you have that curiosity, but if you want to completely get out of the previous relationship, you should try to minimize the peeping into your ex's life and let time dilute the memories of him, because if you keep spying on it, it will have a very big impact on your psychology and make it more difficult for you to get out of the shadow of the previous relationship.

    4. Generally, people who are more deeply invested are more difficult to come out, and obviously, you are more deeply invested than him.

    5. If you want to completely go out of Tuanliang, you can start a new relationship, and you must stop spying on his life, find Kaiqiao to get busy with some things, let yourself slowly forget him, give yourself a little time, and you will definitely have a day of forgetting.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Most of them are not sad, they are unbalanced, they are angry, and they feel that he should not live so well.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No! Because he doesn't have anything to do with me anymore!

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