After my boyfriend proposed to break up, shouldn t I go to him?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-24
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Why not let it go now! Wouldn't it be foolish to hold on to it if you already knew that you would not go back to the way you were? I can understand your mood right now, for most people, there will be emotional "setbacks", which is why people call it "finding" love, since it is searching, it is unlikely to be achieved overnight.

    Therefore, letting go of the past is the right choice for you, entanglement is very scary, the road ahead of you is still very long, when you look back on the past, you will face your past with a smile, because although the emotional experience is sour, but at the same time it is beautiful.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There's no need, it's hard to recover if there's already a rift, and let's talk about it after a long time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Love is not child's play.

    Do you think you can just say break up and get back together?

    I've thought about starting over before, but it's really hard to hurt each other like before.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What if it proves that I'm more hurt, forget it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When you are together, you are very clear, and if you are separated, you must also be clear! You must go! If you don't want to let go of him, you have to work hard, if two people don't compromise when they break up, they're all like that, and someone will regret it when they break up, but then it's too late!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you break up, don't go to each other without self-esteem, the other party doesn't love you anymore, is it useful to do anything else? The most important thing is to treat yourself well and love yourself!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't go to him. It's not worth it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love is not something that can be done by wishful thinking. You should ask them for clarification. If your love has come to an end.

    Let it go for so long! But you said it was strange to you. I can't explain any reason.

    Let's go ask for it! ~

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    After the breakup, the boyfriend said that he would not find someone else anymore, but it was only a temporary statement, maybe he was very sad at the time, and it will be fine after a while, and the man will not never find a partner.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After the breakup, the boyfriend said that he would not find anyone else, which is to show you his love, indicating that he loves you very much, and he only has you in his heart, so he can't tolerate others, in fact, he just doesn't want to break up with you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After the breakup, if the boyfriend says that he will not find someone else again, it means that the boyfriend still can't let go of this relationship, and then there will be a lot of unwillingness in his heart and a lot of nostalgia.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After the breakup, the boyfriend said that he would not find someone else again, maybe he was just talking, because after the breakup, many people will find someone else again, and it is impossible to have such a long-term relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After the breakup, my boyfriend said he wouldn't go to anyone else. It shows that he loves you very much in his heart. Because of the breakup, he was very sad. So I won't look for anyone else.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In this life, all people want is a person who truly loves each other, and even this simplest wish is not fulfilled by everyone.

    The most regrettable thing is that if you love each other but can't be together, there may be practical reasons, and you may find that the two people are not suitable later, etc., but after two people separate, they don't necessarily let go of this relationship immediately.

    If you have a person in your heart, how can you say that you forget and forget? Even if you let go, it will take a process, a difficult time, so that you can completely delete that person from the bottom of your heart, and stop thinking about him and thinking about him.

    And before that, you may toss and turn, thinking about him all the time, you may still be reflexively excited when you hear his name, and you may want to contact him again to know how he is doing.

    Maybe you shouldn't do this, but before you completely let go of a person, this practice is really normal, how can a person who puts it in his heart say that he will let go?

    If that person has ever walked into your heart, you will not let go of him so easily, as soon as he appears in front of you again, your heart will be disrupted, as long as he says to start over, you will rekindle hope.

    If you are still persistent and refuse to let go, that is your problem, in the face of a love that does not belong to you, you have to wait stupidly, this is your stupidity.

    Although that person has been in your heart and you haven't forgotten him so quickly, it doesn't mean that you won't let go of him, let go of that past, as long as you think about it, you can do it.

    You can't let go, it's just because the past is too good, or you love him too much, and you always feel that breaking up is like a dream, and you will still get back together, or you will be together again.

    But the reality is not a TV series, even if it is reunited, the existing problems will still exist, and they will still be separated, if you are not fully sure, it is better not to do this, be brave and look forward.

    Perhaps, when each has its own happiness, when you finally find that everything is in the past, that longing will fade over time and eventually be forgotten.

    Don't feel sorry, don't feel sorry, if there is no fate, then say goodbye!

    Some people, after coming for a while, you have been thinking about it for a lifetime, and no matter how deep the love is, there will be no result.

    If two people are destined to only accompany each other for a ride, it is better to let yourself try to let go, learn to forget, and don't keep dwelling on this past and refuse to let go, which is not good for each other.

    Forget it, not all love will have results, and not all people who love each other can be together, since fate is so arranged, then accept it.

    It's better to miss each other than to see each other, and it may be difficult to forget it, but you must learn to forget, and those who have missed it, let it go!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After the breakup, the boy said that he would not contact him again in the future, and whether he would contact him or not in the future mainly depends on how the relationship between the two of you develops. If your breakup is already on the verge of breaking up, then it will be impossible to contact each other in the future. If you break up and still become friends, then you will definitely keep in touch in the future.

    The boy said not to contact him again in the future, maybe it was just an angry word.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    After the breakup, your boyfriend said that he would not find someone else again, which means that your boyfriend's feelings for you are unforgettable, and his mind is full of your advantages.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Your boyfriend is only saying this temporarily, and he won't really stop looking for someone, so you don't have to take it seriously.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, after the breakup, the boyfriend said that he would not find someone else to talk about it in the future, because he would still be moved when he met a better and more suitable one.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This is actually not certain, it may mean that when you just break up, the other party will think that the relationship between the two of you will accompany you for a lifetime, but when you are separated for a long time, the other party may still change more or less.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After the breakup, the boyfriend says that he will not find someone else again, which is actually a hint that he wants you to return to him, but this guarantee is pale and does not necessarily last long.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    After the breakup, the boyfriend said that he would not find anyone else, which means that the boyfriend loves you very much, except for you in the future. He doesn't love anyone else.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Because the boyfriend is in a bad mood, he feels very disappointed and lost, so he will say that he will not find someone else after the breakup, and time can dilute this pain as time passes.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It shows that he has deep feelings for you, and he can't accept the fact of breaking up with you for a while, so he can only let the other party digest it by himself and let time come to the other party.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In the past, when I broke up with a boy, he also swore that he would not find someone else, and when I went out to work, he would often call me **, but I didn't mean to reconcile, after a while, I heard that he got married and had children, so the boy's words are sometimes not credible.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If a boy says that he will never find someone else after breaking up, it means that this boy still has you in his heart, which means that he wants to be good to you for the rest of his life, but there is no way.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Just listen to this kind of thing, and don't take it seriously, because even if your boyfriend is sincere when he says it now, there is no guarantee that he will not change his mind in the future.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Don't listen to your boyfriend after the breakup, the reason why he says this is to imply that he may find you again, he doesn't want you to find a boyfriend, and if he can't find it, he may come to you, deliberately.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    After the breakup, her boyfriend said that she would not find someone else, and that was because she had been frightened by love, so she didn't dare to love others easily, so she said so.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Because he cares about you and loves you very much, and thinks that you are the best, no one can compare to you, so he will say this.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    This may have been his true state of mind at the time. However, for you, if the true feeling is not suitable, you should still divide it, and you can't let yourself be swayed by certain emotions and let yourself fall into torment again. As for his so-called not going to find others again, I believe it is only for a while, and you must understand that time may not make memories forget, but it will definitely fade away.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This sentence can't be believed or trusted, and there is no need to believe it, it's like saying it now, but it's like that when you make it in the future, after breaking up, you will go your own way, as for whether he wants to find someone else again, that's his own business, no matter what, in short, it doesn't matter who he loves.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    This statement of the boyfriend is definitely inaccurate, because men will easily start their new feelings after breaking up, and they will also find the girl they love the most, so this statement of the man must be very inaccurate, or he is fooling you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    After the breakup, he is not your boyfriend, he is a free body, he has just broken up and has not let go, after a while, he will start a new life again, and he will find a new partner, and you will do the same. So don't dwell on that, just give each other a chance to start over if you like it. If it's not suitable, it's good to get together and disperse, and it's useless to think too much.

    No one can leave anyone else, everyone is an adult.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It may be that he really likes you and loves you, and then he will say this kind of thing to you, which means that he doesn't want to break up either!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Deceptive !!Maybe when you say it, you think that you won't look for someone else, and you may like someone else in a blink of an eye!! Don't believe !! Don't believe !! Don't believe !!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Your boyfriend may think that you are the best, and you can't let go of it, and you feel that there is no longer suitable for him, so he will say this, maybe he will be sad when you mention breaking up, and he doesn't want to end it or give up, and he wants you to change his mind before saying this, because he recognizes you as his true love, and he can't think of it for a while.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Don't take the initiative to find him, you must control yourself, participate in more activities, go out to play with friends more, change your mood If he doesn't take the initiative to find you, it's not that he loves you, it's not your dish, you must give up when you give up Since you want to test him and want to be together, you have to manage enough at one time, so that he is afraid that you will be afraid of your long-term worship and worship of the reading valve sister-in-law, and once you take the initiative in awe of you, I am afraid that in the future you will be endless again and again, come on, adjust your mood, and can't let men see you clearly.

    Hold on, you can't go to him specifically, if you miss him so much, just pretend to pass by or do something that happens to run into him, don't let him see that you are looking for him specifically.

    The reason, because of what is the division, so that it is reasonable to retain.

    Beg. Breaking up with your boyfriend is angry with him, but you love him very much, and he loves you very much, and you don't really want to break up, so you will go to him when you are angry.

    It's good to go, after all, it's your own big thing, and you can't just wait for the result to be sent to your door. If you work hard, you won't have regrets. When to send, and what to send, you have to grasp it yourself, you recall the leader's life preferences, sending things is an artistic job, to send to his heart.

    If you don't have a good idea, just follow the general routine, tobacco and alcohol shopping card.

    If there is love, go to find it, you have to know whether she loves you now, what are you looking for her for, and if someone else is happy now, you don't have to do that.

    Good horses don't eat back grass.

    Look at what he means, send him a blessing text message, if he responds, he still loves you, he goes, if he doesn't love you, why do you still go?

    Let's do it for a week! If there is no emotional foundation, I think you two are finished!

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