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no, sometimes , just talk to yourself ...... yourself
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It's a matter of personality, but personality can also be changed! I'm like that too, I'm very introverted, I hate talking, and sometimes I can't say a lot of things to others... Hehe, I understand your feelings very well, don't be afraid, it will get better slowly, make more friends, communicate with them more, it doesn't matter if you dry your brain, slowly and slowly, it will get better! I have a younger brother who is the same age as you, and he doesn't like to talk, he doesn't talk when he's happy, he doesn't talk when he's happy, in fact, the people around him are so anxious and worried, try to change himself, for himself, for the people around him!
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Yes, if there is no one around you who can talk and vent at any time, then life will be too sad.
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Everyone will have a confidant, when you need help the most, the first thing you think of is ta, you are happy together, when you are sad, this person will relieve your worries, the relationship between ta and you is not stronger than husband and wife, but it is stronger than the love of husband and wife! This person is not born with it, you need to discover and cultivate, there may be some troubles between you, but it will definitely be solved, cherish the one around you!
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People who are at the same level as themselves, who are willing to lend you money and can help you for free when they encounter something, are the ones who can talk to them at any time.
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In all fairness, there are no such people around me at the moment. I'm a girl who looks cheerful and laughs, but I've always been lonely. Although I have girlfriends, good friends and good brothers, but not even one of them really understands and pays attention to me, they are using their way of doing things to change my thinking, but they never say to really understand me, even if they know what I have been through, they can't empathize, in their eyes, it may be just a small thing, but they don't care about the hurt and impact of this incident on me.
A lot of the time, I rely on them, I want to share everything with them, I can come to comfort when I'm unhappy, however, they don't want to listen, they feel annoyed. I woke up suddenly, and found that they were just like everyone else, and I told myself, don't bother others, because they all have their own things to do, and I don't dare to bother me anymore for fear that they will say why are you so annoying, so I am still the lonely person, there is no one who can chat with me all the time, I can chat without any defense, I understand everything with one look. I can't find it, but I'm eager to do it, because in this world, I'm not happy, I don't have anyone to talk to, if I can, I wish I could change places, I don't want to be a person, I want to be a mayfly, I want to die in the twilight of life, only happiness, no pain.
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Three views and similar interests. With such a person, you will have endless words to talk about, and you can also confide in each other's troubles, because you can understand each other.
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People who genuinely care about themselves. Only people who really care about themselves know how to listen to you, comfort you, and can talk to you at any time.
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People who treat themselves sincerely can speak at any time. Because they know how to listen to their own hearts and know how to communicate with themselves!
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I think that the people who can talk at any time are my brothers and sisters, and I can't ask for others casually between friends, but only the people closest to me can help me.
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In fact, I think this person should be his wife, only his wife is the one who can talk at any time, because his wife understands herself and knows what she wants to express.
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Who is someone you can talk to at any time?
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My sister, because my sister is similar to me, has a lot of common language, and her views are very consistent. On top of that, it's relatively close, so feel free to say anything.
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Parents, because they grew up with them, can talk to them a lot, and they are always willing to listen to you.
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My good friend. My best friend is my confidant, and we can talk to each other at any time.
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The way people communicate is constantly evolving, but the loneliness in their hearts caused by the difficulty of finding soulmates has never changed. Perhaps that's why it's so important to have real friends to chat with at any time. It must be known that in ancient times, Yu Boya broke the piano due to the death of Zhong Zi and stopped playing the piano for the rest of his life.
When Mr. Jin met Qu Qiubai, he sighed: "It is enough to have a confidant in life, and the world should treat it with the same heart." ”
In Wong Kar-wai's movie "Chongqing Forest", the policeman Ah Wu played by Takeshi Kaneshiro fell out of love, and after trying to contact his ex-girlfriend Ah May and his family to no avail, he began to desperately call ** to his friends, hoping to chat a few words, or simply ask out for a run or something. It turned out that everyone seemed to be busy with their own things, and the worst thing was that these so-called friends were all ex-girlfriends.
Perhaps, everyone will go through such a stage in their life: no one listens to you, and you feel abandoned by the whole world. I remember before I graduated from college, it was like that.
It was really a chaotic time, the girlfriend was shouting to fly solo, the roommates were ready to go their separate ways, the graduation ** seesaw stalemate, and the job prospects were confused.
The years are verdant, and after many years, it seems to be better now, and I still have three or two confidants and four or five close friends. But it's hardly any better, because my friends at work don't know that I'm writing, and my comrades on the way to writing barely know about my work—there are very few friends who really cross paths and can talk to each other.
But then again, in each of our lives, we will more or less meet 1-2 people who can speak at any time.
It's just that, because of the relationship between the origin and extinction of life circumstances, some people will accompany you for a long time, the so-called "confidant in the sea, if the end of the world is next to each other"; Some people can only intersect with you for a moment in life, and then leave in a hurry, leaving behind a sigh of "I want to play the piano, I hate not to appreciate the music"; Some people can, or maybe say, are willing to try, and grow with you all the way until they are old. Let me ask such a person, once we meet it, do we have any reason to hesitate?
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I don't think there is anyone in the world who you can talk to at any time, and if you have to, then it can only be yourself, because you are the only one in this world who can be with you at all times.
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I think your family is the one you can talk to at any time, because your family will not harm you, but they are worried that what you say will be used by people with bad intentions. That's family.
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I feel that my parents are people who I can talk to at any time, they will listen, they will analyze, they will help me, and if they are someone else's words, they are generally hypocritical.
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Not surprisingly, it should be you who grew up and grew up, or buddies and girlfriends who have a good relationship. You don't have to care about being embarrassed by your privacy being discovered, and you don't have to care about your negative energy causing the other person to be unhappy.
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Your parents. You can tell your parents about the injustices you have suffered at work. There are things that make you sad and sad, and you can also tell your parents that they will always be on your side.
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I think it's a good friend, because sometimes there are some things that can't be said to my parents, I don't want my parents to worry, and I don't want my parents to worry about us because of some small things, because we have grown up after all, so at this time there are things that can only be said to friends, whenever I encounter this kind of thing, there are many trivial things in life that I will say to my good friends.
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Sometimes, we would rather tell ourselves a thousand times and ten thousand times in our hearts than reveal a single word to the people around us, some distress and boredom, some mood and circumstances. Maybe you have a good relationship, you know a lot of people, and you have a good relationship with a lot of people, but even if you get along with your family day and night, or even a close lover, you may not be able to talk to him whenever you want, and you can say whatever you want.
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Isn't it easy? Yes, I've often experienced the deep indescribability in this sentence, and it's really hard to find someone who can talk to you anytime, anywhere. The vast sea of people, the red dust of Qianmo, the name on the address book.
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I think it's supposed to be my boyfriend, but I want to talk to him when I'm bored, or when I'm upset, or when I'm helpless.
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I want to know this too, hehehe.
I think you have to Chinese if you don't speak in tongues!! Otherwise, how can foreigners learn well!!
You have to learn to choose to be able to speak the old.