How boys and girls, how to teach children boys and girls?

Biological boys and girls can't decide on their own, they can only go with the flow.

From your question, I understand that you may want to know how to educate children in Shantai to understand gender concepts, including the differences and similarities between boys and girls, and how to cultivate gender equality in children in the process. Here are some strategies and recommendations:

1.Correct recognition of gender.

Parents should first understand that gender is not only a biological difference, but also involves social and cultural understanding. Children need to be taught to understand that boys and girls can have many similarities beyond some physical characteristics.

2.Avoid gender stereotypes.

Try to avoid defining boys and girls with stereotypical gender roles, such as "boys like blue, girls like pink" or "boys should be strong and girls should be gentle." These stereotypes can limit a child's self-development.

3.Offering a wide range of toys and activities.

Don't choose toys or activities based on gender alone. For example, don't think that dolls are just toys for girls, or that little trains are just toys for boys. Give your child the freedom to choose the toys and activities they are interested in.

4.Encourage the expression of feelings.

Teach children to express their feelings and needs and not limit their emotional expression according to their gender. For example, don't tell a boy "boys don't cry."

5.Explain biological differences.

As the child grows older and asks questions about gender differences, some of the biological differences can be explained simply. Use easy-to-understand language and avoid complications and awkwardness.

6.Emphasize the commonalities of people.

Through stories, games, and everyday conversations, children are taught to understand that everyone has their own feelings, interests, and talents.

7.Persona models that demonstrate diversity.

Through books, TV shows, and real-life characters, a variety of careers and interests are showcased to help children understand that there is no such thing as a "boy's job" or a "girl's job."

8.Talk to your child.

Have a conversation with your child about gender, understand their thoughts and feelings, and provide guidance and explanations if necessary.

9.Be a role model.

Parents' own words and actions are important role models for children to learn about gender roles and gender equality. Interaction and division of labor in the family can demonstrate the value of gender equality.

10.Flexible bootstrapping.

According to the child's age and stage of development, flexible guidance ensures that the information and education methods match the child's cognitive and psychological development.

Summary. Educating children to understand gender is not only to explain the difference between boys and girls, but more importantly, to cultivate children's gender equality and respect for diversity. By avoiding stereotypes, providing diverse choices, encouraging free expression, and displaying diverse role models, parents can shape a more open and inclusive gender mindset for their children.

1. It is not possible to subjectively think that the gender is good, and the gender difference is unconsciously exposed in the contact with the baby, the interaction and his upbringing and education, which has a negative impact on the growth of the baby.

2. There are expectations for babies that are in line with the role of gender, and they are treated differently according to gender.

If you insist on dressing your baby in a dress that suits his gender, and give him some gender-based toys, you can talk to him and deal with problems in different ways, so that your baby can gradually form a correct concept of gender roles in our expectations, hints and guidance.

3. The baby boy learns the behavior suitable for men from the father of the old jujube, and the baby girl who maintains a good father-son relationship with the mother learns the behavior suitable for women from the mother, and at the same time maintains a harmonious relationship with the father. This helps a lot in the masculinization of boys and the feminization of girls.

Try to let your baby have more contact with relatives of the same gender in the family and do more activities together.

4. Use selective encouragement.

Boys love to cry. Why do boys like to cry so much?

If he is brave, you praise him and encourage him. This approach makes the baby naturally aware of the relationship between gender and behaviour during the learning process.

5. There are many opportunities for the gender roles that guide the baby to interact with the gender partner to participate in the game, and guide the baby to set up the role of a gender hero as a role model, and continue to learn the characteristics that meet their own gender role.

What can't a child do?

1. Pants under the crotch.

Pants under the crotch can only be worn until about one year old. Parents don't have to be simple.

At the age of three, if you go out wearing pants under your crotch, the baby will feel that she can be exposed, the gender is easily blurred, and the bacteria are not healthy.

The harm of going on like this is that you don't know that it's privacy, and it's easy to give opportunities to bad people, and now young children have committed so many crimes, which is very dangerous.

2. Toilet toilet.

Feeling that the child is small and doesn't understand? No, think about how good you were when you were a child, although you don't know the nature of men and women, but you also know the difference between ignorance.

We are not allowed to take our baby into a place that is not his gender from an early age.

I knew that there was a boy who had a family, and he always followed his mother, and finally went to elementary school, and he went to the women's toilet to go to the toilet, and the teacher was very surprised. That's why my mother always takes it into the women's toilet, and when she gets older, she is still gender conscious.

We need to reinforce gender identity through the different behaviors of men and women.

3. Parental preference.

Very early, boys were added, and some families wore skirts and pretended to be girls in order to raise them well, but they didn't know that these affected the children's gender cognition, and some of them also affected normal marriage and love when they were older, and many reports proved this.

Some parents like to dress up neutrally, but they have to dress their children according to their own preferences, or for the purpose of helping their children understand gender differences.

Good thing I don't have one at home.

In the previous era, this kind of thinking was indeed very common, and this phenomenon was everywhere, but with the development of society now, it should slowly decrease, but this phenomenon will still exist more or less, and I think there are two reasons:

1. Traditional concepts are deeply rooted.

First of all, it is the cause of traditional ideas. Tradition tells us that the daughter is the daughter who marries out of the water, only by raising a son, can the family be passed on, although we have emancipated the mind, in the society to destroy God and make progress, but this concept still exists, special fiber and loss is in some backward areas where the phenomenon of preference for sons over daughters is more serious.

2. Many people mainly rely on their sons to support their old age.

In addition, there is a very real reason that many elderly people do not have a pension. In his later years, he basically relied on his son to support his old age. Once a daughter marries far away, she can't count on her daughter. It is for this reason that many families favor boys over girls.

As a parent, you should properly handle the relationship between your children:

1. Don't judge two children by genderDon't judge two children by gender, give birth to a boy or girl, the son can support the elderly, and the daughter can also support the elderly. They are all children of their own, and the palms and backs of their hands are meat.

2. Don't distinguish right from wrong by age, and don't distinguish between right and wrong by age. Many parents always take "you are the elder sister, let the younger brother" and "you are the elder brother, let the younger sister" as the first sentence, which is not only easy to hurt the child's heart, but also is not conducive to the formation of the child's correct values.

As the living conditions of the whole society are getting better and better, almost every parent wants to give their children the best material comforts.

In the eyes of parents, children are the crystallization of the happiness of the whole family, and they cannot be overly pampered, but they do not know that this kind of thinking is harmful to children.

As the saying goes, "Spoiling a child is like killing a child." "If a child is not disciplined by his parents as a child, he will be disciplined more harshly by society when he grows up. If a child has these behaviors, it means that they are spoiled!

1. Ignoring the feelings of others Because after the birth of the child, the whole family regards the child as the center of the family, revolves around the child every day, and tries their best to meet any conditions put forward by the child, resulting in some children being self-centered and ignoring the feelings of others. No matter how old these children are, they feel that anyone in the world should be of service to them, but they never think about what others think, so they only know what to ask for, but they don't know what to reciprocate.

These self-centered children, once their parents do not meet their requirements, may yell at their parents and love to "command" their parents in their daily lives. When they grow up and enter society, it is difficult for these children, who have been highly praised since childhood, to make friends. Their behavior often makes those around them feel uncomfortable and may be ostracized by those around them.

2.Without independence, some parents always feel that their children are still young and can't withstand the wind and rain, so they have to kiss everything, and they don't even let their children do simple housework. Some children are not able to dress themselves until they are in elementary school.

In the TV show "Metamorphosis", a 16-year-old child needs to be fed by his parents, which is the embodiment of being spoiled by his parents. Children who have lived in this environment for a long time are generally less independent and rely heavily on their parents to do things. When they do anything, their first reaction is to hope that their parents can do it for them, and if they can't do it, they will shift the responsibility to others.

After entering society, children who grow up in "arranged families" will waver in dealing with problems, have no decision-making ability, and want to ask their parents for help over trivial matters.

3.Impolite.

Everyone probably encounters a "bully" at school when they go to school. These children never greet their elders when they see them. They like to bully other children at school and take other children's play pure reed utensils as their own.

It is precisely because the parents of these "little overlords" listen to their children for everything at home, and the children do what they say, and do not teach their children how to be polite people, which leads them to lose their temper with their elders and yell at other children casually.

Educating children is not an easy task. Although for many families, the child is the treasure of the whole family, which is "hidden in the mouth", there must be a certain degree of family affection.

Li Meijin, a parenting expert, once said in "Round Table Pie" that in order for children to develop good habits, families must make rules. These rules are best enforced around the age of 3 because the younger the child, the better it is to develop habits. The most important thing about "having a baby" is not just having a baby.

If you only have children and do not educate them, you are not fulfilling your parental responsibilities, which will also hurt your children's lives.