What do you think has to do with good looks?

I think there is a certain relationship between appearance and people, but it is not a decisive relationship, why? Because in fact, you will find that we all know that it starts with appearance, is loyal to talent, and falls into character. So in fact, your good looks have something to do with your popularity, but it doesn't have a lot to do with it, after all, your character and your talent are the decisive factors for others to decide whether they can become good friends with you, or whether they can get along with you well and get along with your heart.

Between appearance and popularity. It can be said to be proportional or inversely proportional, these are two different concepts. They can't be put into one category. Different people have different opinions, so it is necessary to be specific according to the specific person and event. <>

I think if you can link your appearance to your people, the premise is because you look at this problem as a very superficial, or very superficial problem, why? Because in fact, everyone has a love for beauty, and each of us will have a liking for good-looking people, or think they are good-looking and want to be friends with them, so maybe good-looking people will be more popular.

There is a little bit of a relationship Generally good-looking, it is easier to get close to and make friends, if it is a sharp-beaked monkey gills, it is not very likable, but whether the popularity is good or not depends on whether you treat others with a sincere heart.

There is no relationship between appearance and popularity, appearance is just the external manifestation of a person. It will affect the evaluation of other people's first impressions, but popularity is the performance of a person's inner quality, and a person's good popularity means that he has many excellent qualities.

There is a relationship, in fact, it is your appearance that affects your character, and your personality determines your popularity, because you pay more attention to your appearance, and at the same time care about other people's evaluation of your appearance, which is equivalent to giving yourself a psychological hint, and slowly begin to doubt that you are the kind of person others say.

There is no direct relationship between appearance and popularity, appearance is only objective, a person's ideological quality is good, peaceful, cheerful personality and many other external factors have a certain relationship with popularity. People who really know how to make friends won't care about how you look.

I don't think there's a relationship between good looks and popularity, and I can't judge a person's length based on their appearance. Some people dress up and dress in a high-sounding manner, but they don't actually have a few friends. Although some people are not good-looking, they do a good job of getting along with people and dealing with people, so they have a lot of friends.

Popularity has nothing to do with appearance, and generally girls with good popularity have the following types:

The first type: enthusiastic and bold. A person who treats people warmly and has a bold personality.

There is a kind of person who has a bold personality and is very aggressive. Very warm to people. Whatever others ask him for, as long as he can do it, he will answer it.

The article is illustrated. This kind of person treats others sincerely, there is no turning around, he does things in a hurry, he needs to be resolute, most of them are extroverted personalities, joy, anger and sorrow are overflowing, love and hate are clear and undisguised, and when dealing with people, he is straight to the point, he is the "warm-hearted" in the eyes of his neighbors, and he is the "iron buddy" and "good big sister" in the hearts of his friends. Most people are happy to associate with this kind of person.

The second type: hidden and hidden. A person who is as righteous as "timely rain".

Some people usually don't like to join in the fun, and they don't like to show their heads very much, but they let everyone follow them in the circle of friends.

This kind of person generally has a certain strength, or in terms of financial resources, or in terms of momentum, or in some aspect of uniqueness.

The article is illustrated. When someone asks him (her) for help when they encounter difficulties, he (she) always lends a helping hand in a timely manner, and can always resolve others' difficulties. Others thank him (her), but they don't want to reciprocate at all, they don't care about personal gains and losses, and always do what others entrust as their own things, because they have the ability to help people and solve practical problems, and they are liked by everyone like "timely rain".

The third type: the ancient road hot intestine type, like a street aunt who helps others.

There is a kind of person who seems to be very ordinary, but cannot ignore his or her energy. Like a little bee, he diligently collects honey everywhere and sows sweet deeds everywhere.

Although this kind of person is in an ordinary situation, he has the character of helping others. He (she) is enthusiastic about the short things in the neighborhood parents. As long as someone needs help, he or she will come forward.

The article is illustrated. This kind of person often has a good reputation and popularity among the local people, and is a know-it-all in the eyes of the local people.

The fourth type: the evil type is like the hateful type, and loves to fight for others.

There is a kind of person who often has a chivalrous heart and courage, and always likes to see unevenness on the road and draw a sword to help. This kind of person is full of righteousness and likes to hoe the strong and help the weak.

If someone is bullied, he will stand up for justice and justice. It has a high prestige among the local people.

The fifth type: selfless, enthusiastic about public welfare, willing to invest in public welfare.

There is a kind of person who is highly respected in the local area. They are often successful and generous. Willing to invest in public welfare undertakings and seek benefits for the people.

The article is illustrated. This kind of person often sets up a business in the local area, and after making money, he does not hesitate to repay the society, take the lead in building roads and bridges, or benefit the local people, are enthusiastic about public welfare, are respected by the local people, and become local celebrities, which is very appealing.

Of course, there are not only those with good popularity and good reputation, but there are many more around us, and they behave in a variety of ways and have their own styles.

The impact of growth on interpersonal relationships is relatively large.

Everyone knows the importance of first impressions, and the quality of looks is precisely the evaluation criterion for a person's first impression. Appearance is easy to make others have a "halo effect". The so-called halo effect is that if we think that a person is good in one aspect, we usually think that the person is good in other aspects.

For example, if a person looks good and gives us a good feeling, we will tend to think that this person is good in terms of character, academic performance, and style of acting.

As long as it's not because of a serious problem, such as a person with poor moral character and frighteningly low emotional intelligence, then we usually maintain a good opinion of this person. It can be said that in other conditions that are average, good looks will give a person a first-mover advantage in interpersonal relationships, so as to take the initiative in interpersonal relationships.

During the Three Kingdoms period, two people were given a cold reception because they were ugly.

First, it was Zhang Song, a subordinate of Liu Zhang, who wanted to dedicate the map of Xichuan to Cao Cao, but before that, he wanted to see if Cao Cao was like the legendary Corporal Lixian. But Cao Cao didn't know if he was in a bad mood that day, and when he saw the ugly-looking Zhang Song, he was angry and treated him coldly, and the angry Zhang Song dedicated the map to Liu Bei.

Second, Pang Tong, who had just joined Liu Bei's account, was also treated coldly because of his ugliness. If it weren't for Pang Tong's own passive slacking off, deliberately attracting Liu Bei's attention, and taking the opportunity to show his talent, I'm afraid Pang Tong would have been a small county official for the rest of his life.

To sum up, your appearance will directly affect the first impression that others have of you, and good looks will have an advantage. But it's not without opportunities to look ordinary, and by constantly displaying your talents and highlighting your character, you will still receive everyone's support and support, but not so quickly.

The impact of growth on interpersonal relationships is still very large.

People are visual creatures, and we can't help but look twice when we see beautiful women and handsome guys. When we first come into contact with someone, if the other person is good-looking, we will naturally have a sense of closeness to him and want to associate with him.

If the other person is very ugly, we will inevitably have a sense of alienation in our hearts when we first come into contact. Just look at Jack Ma, although Jack Ma is now a huge success, he also suffered a lot of setbacks because of his appearance when he first debuted. We now think he is ugly and handsome because his success has influenced our perception of him.

If you look at him alone, I don't think many people will choose to trust him very much when they meet him for the first time.

There is a 262 rule that says this when someone comes into contact with us for the first time. 20% of people like you as soon as they see you. You don't do anything, and he likes you very much.

And there are the other 20% of people who don't like you very much when they see you for the first time. No matter what you do later, he hates you very much, and it is difficult to change his impression of you.

The remaining 60% of people tend to be in the middle, and they will decide whether they like you or not, depending on their next relationship with you. Good looks can undoubtedly increase the goodwill of others towards you, and can help you win the 60% of people faster. Of course, although appearance can affect our interpersonal relationships, it ultimately determines our interpersonal relationships or character.

Over time, the people's hearts have been seen, and the eternal truth has not changed

Of course, the influence of longevity on interpersonal relationships is greater, people are visual creatures, and they always prefer to socialize with good-looking people. That's why we often talk about the importance of first impressions, because first impressions can often make the other person decide whether or not to engage with you in a second. There is a popular saying on the Internet called:

Yan is justice, although it is a bit exaggerated to say this, but it also shows from the side that good-looking people often have a certain advantage.

Imagine a handsome guy who looks very nice and attractive stops you on the road and asks you to borrow some money for a taxi, and you might be more than happy to lend him it. If a very down-and-out, cold-looking person stops you on the road and borrows you some money to take a taxi, maybe you don't even have the interest in talking, so you turn around and leave. We tend to be more tolerant of good-looking people, not only in life, but even in the workplace, if two candidates with similar conditions, one of them is below average, and the other is very good-looking, if both of them have the same question about shortcomings, the interviewer will often unconsciously defend the good-looking candidate, and tend to lead the topic to the positive side.

Therefore, we must pay more attention to our image, even if our appearance can only be considered medium, but the inner temperament, good dress and dress can also add a lot of points to the external conditions.

Personally, I think the impact is quite significant.

Some time ago, while watching TV, I inadvertently switched to a different station, and it was a girl giving a speech. She is a very beautiful girl, and she feels very fashionable when she dresses up, and she doesn't feel anything. But I was bored and had nothing to do, so I just watched it for a while.

I was really stunned after listening to her speech because she said she had plastic surgery and had several surgeries on her face. She said that she turned out to be a very ugly girl and had a very fat body. She also said a lot, a lot because she was ugly, so she was treated a lot, a lot unfairly:

When she was still in kindergarten, although she wiped the table very clean, the teacher's little red flower and praise were always given to the little girl who did not wipe the table but looked beautiful; When she was in school, she was always excluded and even bullied by her classmates, and the boy she liked was particularly rejected and hated because she knew that she liked him. But the beautiful girl always has a lot of good friends and boys' likes, and she is the only one by herself. She also said that at that time, because she didn't want to go to school, because she knew that eating laundry detergent would cause a fever, so she ate laundry detergent just to not go to school, and even in order not to be bullied by her classmates at school, she also did some self-harming things, such as banging her head on the table and hitting her nose hard.

In the end, she chose to go for plastic surgery, which she said was her compromise with the world of face-seeing. But she doesn't regret it, because every knife she suffers in order to become beautiful, and every drop of sweat she sheds for ** is her confidence. Some people may think that her approach is a bit extreme, but I think how much ridicule and bullying a person has to be to do such a thing?

Now, she has become very beautiful, and the boys she used to like are now with her, and there are often many boys who confess to her. There is no longer a reason why no one wants to be friends with her because she is ugly. She gained friendship and love, and although it may not be very real, she felt more content than before.

Actually, that's how it is a lot of the time. We also have to admit that if a person does not have the same appearance, no one may care about your inside at all, and no one wants to know your inside. When I was in school, my classmates were always willing to play with those who were beautiful, and those who were ugly would be excluded by everyone, and some teachers would also favor those who were good-looking.

After entering the society, those who are beautiful will always have a lot of friends, a wide range of contacts, and always seem to be able to get a lot of opportunities. It seems that from childhood to adulthood, those who are beautiful are easily favored and liked by people, and even if they do something wrong, they will be easily forgiven.

So, I think the impact of growth on interpersonal relationships is quite large. People are always willing to make friends with those who are good-looking. However, this does not mean that appearance is the only determining element of a relationship, it just has a big impact, but sometimes an individual's ability is also important, and it is not just the appearance alone.