It felt like I was back to the painful feeling I had when we first broke up

You still love him, don't you? If he wants to get back together with you, think about it, if you don't want to be with him anymore, don't pay attention to him, don't let yourself be so miserable, life is your own, and making yourself happy is the most important thing

Prove that you are truly in love.

What a wonderful thing!

Whatever the outcome, it's better to go with the flow.

If it's painful, then take a break. Keep yourself busy.

In general, there is only time to hurt a breakup.

If you really can't let it go, try to ask him out and think of some ways to get him to meet you and have a good chat.

You still have him in your heart.

I would feel the same way I broke up a month ago.

I feel like the two of them have been entangled, but I know in my heart that I love him, but he doesn't want to talk about it, so I can fulfill him and not talk about it.

I feel like I've let go, but when it comes to the depths, my heart still hurts, and he can't completely let go of me......are all tangled.

So, what you're going to figure out now is how you feel about him. And does he care about you?

Once you know that, you'll have the answer.

Answer: Because you have really loved each other, and the other party may not like you, only for the other party to pay for the person, the more will feel that the feelings are precious, and do not know how to give, will only gladly accept everything from others, but feel indifferent, but also you are like this, then how to get out of such a state, the following is for you to go into the analysis, I hope to help you, as follows:

Clause. 1. He doesn't love you and wants to stay away from you, so he will feel that he is very happy. When you meet such a person, you can only say that you are unlucky, because you meet someone unladylike, waste your feelings in vain, take your feelings too seriously, in the eyes of the other party is indeed insignificant, you love him deeply and have no reservations about him, but the other party does not take it to heart, so after the breakup, you will always think that you are so good to him, why does he have to break up desperately, making you sad, but he does not feel a little unhappy, even happy.

Clause. Second, he is playing with your feelings, now many people are riding donkeys to find horses, looking for the other half, also have to prepare a few spare tires around, when he finds the person he needs, the person he loves, he will not hesitate to kick you away, go to their two-person world, and you, the spare tire that pays for the feelings, can only be abandoned, and they are sad and crying.

Clause. 3. Because you love the other person too much, he can't breathe, the pressure is too great, and he doesn't feel love, but is full of possessiveness. When such a person leaves you, he will feel much more relaxed, he doesn't need to think about your feelings, he doesn't have to be called by you, just like a wild horse, as free, so it may be your reason, let him propose to break up, and the last happy is of course him, and you feel pain because of the breakup.

Clause. Fourth, after a peaceful breakup, the other party thinks about how to start over, but you are still in deep memories, because the other party has learned to look forward to meet a new life, and you are still sad about the pain caused by the loss of love, which is why he can be happy and you are sad.

If you feel that you are only in pain after breaking up, and the other party is very happy, then in fact, the meaning is very obvious, the other party has long stopped loving you, if you have you in your heart, and still love you, it will not behave like this, so if you give up a person who does not love you, you also have to be happy, think about it in your heart, don't let your life be too painful, the other party is happy, it is because the other party does not love you.

If he feels that he is only in pain after the breakup, and then he is very happy, it means that he is not sincere in this relationship, and then he is very relieved about the end of this relationship.

Because you still love each other, and you are right and the other party doesn't love you anymore, so the other party is very happy after breaking up, because you will naturally be happy after ending a relationship that you don't want and recovering your free life, and you are very sad and painful, which means that you still love each other very much.

Because when you break up, you can feel your pain more clearly, but you can't feel his pain, and you will feel that he is very happy.

You feel that you are the only one who is very painful after the breakup, but the other party is very happy, it may be that you are more sensitive, because generally after the breakup, both parties will be more painful.

You are suffering because you still love him, and your heart is full of reluctance. And he is happy because he doesn't love you, and without your constraints, he is free to find his new purpose. So no matter how painful you are, it won't help, it's better to put it down and start over.

Because everyone's contribution in the relationship is different, when you attach great importance to the relationship between the two of you, and the other party doesn't really care, so even if the separation has a great impact on him, it is not particularly big.

In fact, there is no need to dwell on this, you have already broken up, what is the point of dwelling on whether he is sad or not, and it will not alleviate your pain. It's good to think clearly, I like him to be his own thing, I pay willingly, and I am willing to accept the result, time will dilute the sadness.

This shows that he didn't take it seriously in this relationship at all, and didn't give a little sincerity, then you shouldn't be sad and should be happy for the wise decision you made.

If his happiness is real, it can only mean that he may have wanted to break up for a long time, and he has endured it for a long time, and breaking up is a relief for him.

Because in your relationship, it has always been your unilateral giving, you have given everything, and you are very good to each other, so when you break up, you will be sad and painful.

And the other party has nothing to do in this relationship. So if he breaks up, he naturally won't have any sadness.

Because after the breakup, your own pain, I am because you like each other very much, so there is such a pain, she doesn't like you, and she doesn't suffer.

I feel that after I break up, only if I am in pain, the other half will be very happy, I think this may be your delusion, if it is normal, two people break up, whether men and women talk about it is more sad, but the degree of sadness is different. Generally speaking, even if a boy is sad, he will hold it in his heart, and he will not expose it outside, they are all better faced.

He felt that he was the only one who was in pain after the breakup, and he was very happy. It's probably because you're restraining him too much, and he's feeling free now, that's why it's like this. Or maybe it's because you're feeling wrong, and he's just not putting the pain on the surface.

This may only be your own opinion, because both parties are in pain after the breakup, but you don't see the sad look of others.

In the relationship, most men and women will suffer after breaking up with girls, and men are more open-minded, which is a normal phenomenon.

If the two of you have a good relationship and he loves you very much, he won't be very happy, maybe just pretending, if he is actually very uncomfortable and he is really happy, it means that he doesn't care about your feelings, he hasn't loved you, he just perfunctory your feelings, not treating you sincerely, and it doesn't matter to him if you break up.

After a breakup, you feel miserable because you still love each other, and you feel happy after a breakup because you feel that you have finally gotten rid of it, and you may no longer like you, or you may feel unhappy together.

I felt miserable after the breakup, but he was happy, it may be that he wanted to break up in the first place, so after the breakup, he was very happy, but it was very painful, and it was because you gave more in the relationship.

It may be that he doesn't like you in the first place, so after the breakup, he will only feel relieved and finally free, so you should feel happy after the breakup, because you see clearly what kind of person he is

He must have had a hard time after the breakup, if he was sincere to you, you used to love each other too. He treats you sincerely, there is no hypocrisy, he must be very uncomfortable, just pretending to be very happy, but in fact he is very painful inside, but he doesn't want outsiders to see it, and he is more responsible.

It is possible that he will not show his pain on his face, but will bury it in his heart. So you're very happy to see the appearance. It doesn't matter who is after the breakup, if it is.

If you love each other deeply before, you will be very sad and sad after the breakup, and some people are not good at expressing their emotions, so there will be such problems.

<> reason is obvious, that is, he doesn't really love you, and you broke up, which is exactly what he intended. Maybe he didn't want to be with you in the first place, or maybe it was for some other reason, for example, money, work.

Since you have broken up, don't dwell on the past, the past is the past, even if you are in pain all day long, and wash your face with tears every day, he will not know that he is filial. In fact, from his expression, you should understand that he doesn't really love you, and why should you bother yourself for him? Be brave and say goodbye to the past, you still have a long way to go, and maybe the person who truly loves you is waiting for you not far away.

There are many such men in reality, they will do everything possible to chase you down, treat you well for a few days, and then throw you aside. In fact, you may not know that this kind of man is having an affair with other women while dating you.

I advise all women, love is not everything, there are more worthwhile things waiting for you to do, go to your parents' house to accompany them, and go shopping and travel with three or five friends. Don't give up more for love, you can find it again if you don't have love, and you can't find it back if you want to find family affection.

In a good relationship, it is the result of both parties running to each other, not that one party loves hard and the other party still thinks so, and it is only a matter of time before such a love disintegrates. In a relationship, a woman is always the humble party, and in the face of the man she loves, a woman will do whatever it takes to meet any of his requirements. But men, they think this is what women should do, so they do nothing all day long, do not do their jobs, and sometimes even ask women for money.

Therefore, the process of falling in love is the process of choosing, and if you find that it is not suitable, you should stop the loss in time, so as not to give it to your future married life.

Unnecessary trouble, woman, please be kind to yourself, for yourself and for your family.

Maybe he can afford to let go of his feelings better than Chunqiao. Or he forces himself to live better than you on the outside, because boys love face more, even if they are more depressed and lost, they will still choose to disguise their strong side.

Because he feels that he is free, but for a period of time when he is very happy, he will be very miserable.

Maybe it's because he feels that he is free, and he is happier inside, like a wild horse on the loose.

If you have broken up, but you may feel very painful, your boyfriend will not be particularly painful, mainly because you have invested a lot in this relationship life, and the other person no longer loves you, so the other person will not be painful at all. So you must be a smart person, if the other party no longer loves you, everyone must leave each other quickly at this time. Demolition or absolute.

If you are very involved in a relationship and you take the relationship very seriously, if you break up, you will feel very painful at this time, because you feel that you have put in a lot of effort, and now the relationship is not having a good ending, so you will feel very sad, but the other person will not think so. Because the other party is not so devoted, so the other party may feel very happy, and the other party will not feel very painful, so everyone must also be smart, if you don't feel love, at this time you will definitely leave each other.

We must be rational in our love life, and feel that we don't need to invest too much, otherwise you will find yourself in special pain, so these problems need to be paid attention to, so that you can become better, and you will not let yourself be so miserable. If the other person doesn't love you anymore, you must leave the other person at this time, because in this relationship, you will become very miserable, and you may also feel very uncomfortable.

These problems are necessary to attract everyone's attention, so everyone must care more about themselves in life, and they must also care more about their other half. If the other person doesn't love you anymore, you don't need to do it at this time. So you must persevere, and if you don't feel love, you must leave quickly at this time.

This is because I can't see the pain of the other party at all, so I feel that only I am in pain, and it is also because I can't let go of the other party.