Is it my fault that my husband and ex girlfriend are entangled

Updated on psychology 2024-05-06
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    How can a man not forget his old lover, one day he will understand that only his wife will always wait for him to eat at home, since they are already like this, you should be indifferent, you don't have to ask about the two of them, they can't forget each other's past things, why keep staying for a man who has changed his mind, you don't want to quarrel with him all day long for the two of them, it's not necessary, why make yourself so miserable, you should live better, women should be well-dressed, be smart, Of course, it's not good to be too smart, when to look at the timing, he doesn't care about the relationship between you when he has a child, he has to teach the child well, the child is your future dependence, haven't you communicated with her husband about that woman? This must be, you have to beat the woman who failed, you have to be better than her, and you have to make yourself beautiful every day!

    You're not weak or worse than her, keep up your good work! You have more opportunities to see your husband than her, you have to win back his heart, don't quarrel with him anymore, he will only think you are annoying when you quarrel with him every day, and over time, there will be no love at all, if you want a man to stay on you, you have to be a perfect woman.

    I don't know if this will help you, you have to do your best! I think you are a very amazing woman, you haven't divorced him yet, you can see that you love your husband very much, no matter how the man who has changed his mind relies on himself, why didn't you tell your mother-in-law? Of course, you also have to treat your mother-in-law well, your mother-in-law is also an important person, if your mother-in-law is on your side, it will be very easy, be filial!

    Even if he wants to divorce you without your mother-in-law's consent, he can't help it! I'm sure you'll succeed.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Divorce, you can ask for as much as you want, and you can't lose a penny! Asking you to have more property is just to make it better for you to have a better time with your children in the future... Even if you don't get divorced, living like this every day will have a great impact on your children.

    You are divorced with children, and in the future find a man who can accept you and your children to live with, even if you can't find you, you will get out of this painful marriage and live with your children wholeheartedly. Race through your current miserable days, not to mention that there is no reason to live with him now.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Be strong, it's better for such a man to leave as soon as possible. You bring the child, and when you divorce, he asked him to give you all the money in alimony and compensation, and he was at fault first. The law will sentence him to pay 40% of his monthly salary as child support.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How can there be such a man? I don't understand the specific benefits. It is recommended to find a lawyer for consultation. Finally, I wish you happiness, no matter what the result is, life is too short, don't suppress yourself too much!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Take your child away from him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After getting married, I found that my husband and my ex-girlfriend were entangled, and at this time, I could directly tell my husband's true thoughts, hoping that the other party could pay attention to his behavior and be serious and responsible for the family.

    Since two people have entered into marriage, then don't hide it when something happens, let alone sulk in one person, so that the other party will never know what they think. You can take the initiative to tell your husband your thoughts and attitudes, hoping that the other party can handle the matter with your ex-girlfriend and not bring it to your current marriage, which will make you sad.

    There must be a reason for the husband and his ex-girlfriend to be entangled, as the wife of the other party, she should understand the ins and outs of the matter, and don't characterize the matter at once. Since you are married to the other party, you hope that the other party can restrain your behavior, no matter what happens with your ex, you should tell yourself in advance to avoid thinking nonsense, which will affect the marriage of the two people. I believe that women are sensitive animals, and only if the other party can eliminate their own thoughts, will they better accept the other party and this marriage.

    Marriage should be mutual respect and honesty, so that in exchange for a happy ending, the husband should pay attention to his own behavior, avoid making himself and others think too much, ex-girlfriend is already a thing of the past.

    Then don't disturb each other's lives. If the husband loves himself enough, he will give himself a sense of security and will not contact his ex-girlfriend alone, so that he will be completely reassured.

    When I found out that my husband was entangled with my ex-girlfriend, I first didn't mess up, let alone put too much pressure on my husband. Many times it is not really a very important thing, and it only takes two people to say the thing, so that the other person will know what he thinks and pay attention to the relationship with his ex.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can communicate directly with your husband, since you are married, you should focus on the family, you should no longer entangle with your ex-girlfriend, say your thoughts directly, if he still doesn't change, you can tell your in-laws and let them talk.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You should choose divorce, because such a husband does not have any sense of responsibility, and he does not respect marriage very much, and divorce is better for him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Communicate directly with the other party, say what you think about him, ask him not to contact the other party in the future, and if he doesn't agree, you can divorce him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You should have a good talk with your husband, ask your husband what his opinion is, and if you want to live a good life, you should let your husband and your ex-girlfriend break up. If your husband is still entangled, you should be brave enough to choose divorce.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You should choose a decisive breakup, which means that your husband doesn't love you at all, and if your husband loves you, it is impossible to be entangled with your ex-girlfriend all the time, so you should stop the loss in time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You should try to communicate with your husband to understand the emotional state between your husband and your ex-girlfriend before making the right choice.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. Hello dear, glad to answer for you. Boyfriend's ex-wife is entangled.

    You should first determine what your boyfriend's opinion is, he will be with you if he has time, and you should stand firm and not refuse. Because a man who truly loves you will not make you worry or fear. After all, this is your boyfriend's ex-wife and your boyfriend's business, and you have to let your boyfriend solve it and tell his ex-wife not to pester you again.

    What is your attitude towards your boyfriend, you can make it clear to his ex-wife. and clearly told him that her boyfriend is divorced and has no relationship anymore, and hopes that he will not come back to entanglement in the future. Hope mine can help you.

    My boyfriend's ex-wife is entangled, what should I do.

    Hello dear, glad to answer for you. Boyfriend's ex-wife is entangled. You should first determine what your boyfriend's opinion is, he will be with you if he has time, and you should stand firm and not refuse.

    Because a man who truly loves you will not make you worry and be afraid. After all, this is your boyfriend's ex-wife and your boyfriend's business, and you have to let your boyfriend solve it and tell his ex-wife not to pester you again. What is your attitude towards your boyfriend, you can tease and make it clear to his ex-wife.

    and clearly told him that her boyfriend is divorced and has no relationship anymore, and hopes that he will not be entangled in the future. Hope mine can help you.

    Dear, is your boyfriend entangled with his ex-wife? Or is it just his ex-wife who is entangled with you?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello, dear. I am very happy to answer your <>

    Boyfriend's ex-girlfriend has been pestering him like this, his boyfriend had a girlfriend before, but he broke up with his girlfriend and found you again, and he was a little embarrassed between the two relationships. Actually, it's not the woman's fault, it's just that some men have a habit, that is, eating from the bowl and seeing the pot, in addition, there are some women, she wants to entangle the man she likes, even if the other party clearly wants to break up, it is entangled. As a woman, if your boyfriend has been in contact with his ex-girlfriend, or his ex-girlfriend has been in contact with him, then there is no doubt that the problem is with your boyfriend, who has not solved the matter of his ex-girlfriend.

    Perhaps, in his heart, he is thinking about taking advantage of both sides. Therefore, at this time, if you want him to break up with his ex-girlfriend, you have to seriously tell your boyfriend that he must cut off the relationship with his ex-girlfriend, or he will break up. If your boyfriend really loves you, then he will definitely break off with his ex-girlfriend, and if he doesn't love you, then of course he won't listen to you easily.

    In short, you still need to tie the bell to the bell, and you must make sure that your boyfriend really wants to be with you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    A slap doesn't make a sound, if your husband's ex-wife keeps pestering your husband, as long as your husband doesn't pay attention to her, it's useless for his ex-wife to pester him! The key depends on how your husband faces this matter.

    I don't know what is the reason why your husband's ex-wife always pesters him, is there something that has not been handled well? Problems that should be solved, always have to be solved. If there is something between them that has not been dealt with well, then ask them to handle the matter well and not continue to interact in the future.

    After all, they are already divorced, and there is no point in dwelling on them. Each has its own life, and each is well.

    If your husband has been disconnected and entangled with his ex-wife, it can only mean that your man has made the wrong choice and should not have married this man from the beginning.

    As long as your husband doesn't take care of his ex-wife, even if his ex-wife keeps pestering him, after a long time, their relationship will gradually become estranged and fade. Unless your husband always likes to take care of his ex-wife, your husband is also responsible for things like this. In the face of this kind of thing, you have to communicate with your husband slowly, and your husband has to listen to you to solve it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Warn her, I think your husband is also responsible, if it weren't for his indecisiveness, his ex-wife wouldn't have been able to pestering him and let him deal with it himself, why would he be entangled, because someone didn't say no, didn't refuse, or didn't refuse thoroughly!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    After the two divorced, the ex-wife has been pestering her husband, and she should have chosen to call the police to deal with the dispute between you.

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