What should your best friend do if he tells you that he likes you and you already have a boyfriend

Updated on psychology 2024-05-26
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    First of all, you have to tell him what you really think in your heart and make him give up.

    Maybe he won't agree right away, but tell him to learn to adapt; If he genuinely likes you, I'm sure he'll accept the reality.

    Second, comfort him in the way of a friend in his lost days.

    In the end, it is better to let him regain his confidence and find another love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Stay with whomever you like, though, if you give up your current boyfriend, it's really cruel. Also, maybe you and your so-called very good friend will be together soon.

    If you can't tell your good friend clearly, you can't leave him, what do you want to do, you, eat in the bowl and look at the pot, I really don't understand.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Make it clear to him, reality is the fairest thing for him, sometimes some things are better to be direct, "men and women can be pure and good friends, but if you join love, it's a different matter" Goethe said, so if you lose a friend of him, it won't be a pity, face it, I support you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Then you don't have to think so much! Cherish the present!

    Now that you already have a boyfriend, look no further! You can tell him that he has always been your brother! So it doesn't feel that way! ~

    Love can't be forced to come together! Love without feelings is not perfect love! And you're just another kind of liking for him! Be clear with him! He'll always understand! Don't force it!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let it be, haven't you already made it clear, that's it, there is no other way, anyone's heart can only be controlled by themselves, and others can't control it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you continue like this, it will hurt him, so you should try to enlighten him, and if you can't do it, stay away from him

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't feel it, you refuse.

    Don't force yourself and hurt him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Landlord, we are in a similar situation! What's the best way, just let me know by the way! Depressed.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Give up your current boyfriend, after all, it was the best friend you used to be.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's a difficult question, and it's not that the parties will certainly not be embarrassed.

    Think about it, persuade him, you can still be good friends.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't make a decision lightly.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because the person you like tells you that he has a boyfriend, how will you reply, then just reply normally, since you have a boyfriend, then we don't have to, unless I can fight for you If you want to agree, we can compete on an equal footing.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If someone you like tells you. She has a boyfriend. What you want to reply to is:

    Just say it's okay. You can get along with him, and I can be your general friend. If.

    If the girl gets along well with her boyfriend, try to stay away from the girl. If I don't have a good relationship with her boyfriend, you can. Please comfort the girl.

    Let the girl choose for herself whether or not to be your boyfriend.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think that I can restore your happiness, because the other party already has a boyfriend, and now confessing may lose the qualification to be a friend, it is better to bless it from the perspective of a friend.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Everyone has said that she has a boyfriend, and she wants you to give up, if you are willing to give up, then be free and easy, and say a word of blessing. If you don't want to, then just say, I like you, I won't give up, I'll wait for you or something. So, how to reply still depends on how you choose.

    Also, don't lick it hard, it looks so pitiful.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Ask someone you like and tell you that he already has a boyfriend and you like him, then I think all you can do is bless them, because if you bother them again, then it's your fault.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think that since the other party already has a boyfriend, I wish her happiness, but this is the only way, otherwise it will be even more uncomfortable to say too much to cause girls to be disgusted.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't worry, I won't harass you, but I love you, it has nothing to do with you, it's my business to be good to you, I'll be there when I need me, but I won't bother you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I will reply to him, congratulations, I have finally found my own happiness, you must be happy, you are happy and happy, this is my greatest comfort.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    First of all, it's a blessing, even if you like it again, this time is not a suitable time to show your heart, adjust your emotions and hug.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If someone I like tells me that she already has a boyfriend, then I will wish her happiness in the future, but I will tell her that I will not give up on her and I will continue to wait for her.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If someone you like tells you that she has a boyfriend, I think in my personality I would wish her happiness because she has found her own happiness and you should be happy for him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You first have to know whether she really has a boyfriend, if she doesn't have a boyfriend but says yes, this is a euphemism to reject you, if she does, you can bless her and be an ordinary friend with her.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    People say she has a boyfriend, I think you should reply and say bless them. I wish you all happiness!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you are still reluctant to give up on her, then you can ask him if you have no chance, if you feel that you can let go, you can wish you happiness.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Then you will say to her eyes, "Who is so lucky, am I?" "If you get her approval or no answer, give her a warm hug.

    Let me talk about the sweet words you know. If she denies that you are, then you should also act generously. I immediately expressed regret and.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Pretending to be casual, she "like this" silently blessed her afterwards, and if she was patient, she would wait for someone to confess after they broke up, but this kind of opportunity is rare and long.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you like a girl and she tells you that she already has a boyfriend, try not to bother anymore because it will affect her relationship with her boyfriend.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If the person you like tells you that she has a boyfriend, then you should keep in touch with him, after all, she is a person who has a boyfriend, and it is not good to develop too much.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I would ask her how her boyfriend treated her? Isn't it good for her? If things are good to her, and she still likes her very much, then I can only bless, and it is also a very good thing to see that the person I like is also happy.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Okay, I wish you happiness, and then I won't bother them anymore, after all, morality does not allow us to spoil other people's feelings, and we will be condemned.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Summary. Probably all the men whose girlfriends are beautiful are very proud.

    Are you still there?

    Your boyfriend's friends have taken a liking to you, too. It's nothing, it means that you are good enough to attract men's eyes, dear. Mess up your boyfriend with socks and proud of you!

    Probably all the men whose girlfriends are beautiful are very proud.

    Hehe. Dress up the body with wealth and beautify the soul with faith.

    That's all your boyfriend can say! Kiss. Because it's not a big deal, Qiao Yuanzi, pay attention to the crack. Things on the Internet were meant to get everyone's attention. The more people who pay attention, the better.

    People wish that someone would pay more attention to it, so that there will be more traffic.

    You might as well be bold in life! Kiss.

    Uh-huh. The world is never equal, and how hard you work, how special you are. Live and work hard, dear!

    Do you have any new questions?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Why do you want to be sure of such a thing, if you are sure that your boyfriend's friend likes you, then I feel that it will be very awkward to meet and get along with each other every day. However, since you asked, I would like to give a few suggestions of my own.

    I've always felt that love is selfish if he.

    really likes you, so even if he usually hides that liking very deeply because of your boyfriend's face, he will still explode immediately when something happens. Like, if he knew.

    Your boyfriend is not good to you in some way, and he must think about the problem from your point of view and then think about you, not from his brother's side. For the person you like, generally men will have a strong desire to protect, so you can test him from this aspect.

    Like a person, many things can show this, as long as you usually observe more details of his behavior, you can know whether he likes you or not. For example, if you find that his eyes are chasing you all the time, always staring at you from time to time, and then when you look at him, he avoids your gaze. Well, I feel like he likes you, and it's the kind of thing that likes you silently and doesn't want to be known by you and your boyfriend.

    Also, he will comfort you and accompany you when you are unhappy or sad.

    by your side.

    It's almost when you need company, as long as your boyfriend can't be with you, he will be with you. Well, I think he must care about you.

    In fact, whether a person likes another person or not, as long as you pay more attention to observation, then it is easy to perceive. For a group of girls who are so emotional, I think this is not difficult to do, because girls still have a strong sense of detail, so you just need to ask your heart, then you can easily come to a conclusion. As for what you want to do after you come to a conclusion, then it's entirely up to you.

    My feeling is that this kind of thing is best to pretend to be stupid, and I usually have to pay attention to keeping a certain distance from my boyfriend's friends, since I have a boyfriend, then how can I be half-hearted!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    There are many kinds of friends

    One: If it is the kind of friend you think is very good and very confidant, then I think a friend is very important, because she may be your lifelong friend, a friend that no boy can replace, don't ruin the friendship between you for a boy, even if you like his boyfriend very much, of course, it's better if you don't like it, there are thousands of handsome guys in the world, and we will change it if there is one less.

    Two: If you think it's a dispensable friend, of course, her boyfriend likes you, if you also like him, you don't have to care about other people's eyes, just follow your feelings, after all, happiness is to fight for yourself. If you don't like that guy, then you don't need me to say what to do... Hehe.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Don't tell. I think even the best friend, your friend when he proposed to break up. No matter how you say it, it is a painful parting that needs your company and comfort.

    If this is the time you tell her. will give her a certain amount of harm. It's better to confess after a while, or when she already has her next relationship.

    Since you don't like your best friend's boyfriend. It really doesn't matter. Don't see this guy alone.

    They haven't broken up yet.

    Sometimes, even a good friend has to think about how to confess to her without hurting her. Because you care about your friendship

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Belle. I've had this happen to me before, but it turned out to be a breakup.

    His friends don't like you, but it all depends on what kind of friends he makes, if it's a group of friends who don't want to get married, don't want to have girlfriends but always want to play don't like you, that's fine, but if it's an old friend, then you have to be careful. There's always a reason for everything.

    In the past, his friends didn't like me because my boyfriend believed in me very much, and he wouldn't go if I asked him not to play, and he was always with me, and he was also with him when he went out to play, and when he wasn't with me before, he always played with his friends until midnight, but when he was with me, he became very punctual. Sometimes his friends want to look for him, and he turns off his phone.

    No matter how much he liked it, they broke up in the end, but not because of his friends.

    In short? You have to grasp it yourself, and you have to understand it yourself.

    There's a good way to do it, you go out with him and his friends, and let his friends get to know you a little bit better, so that you will have more confidence, and I tried that, and in the end his friends were very good to me. You stay with your boyfriend, but don't limit him to what he can do. Give him face with his friends.

    I wish you all happiness.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    This is the time to test your love. If your boyfriend really likes you, he won't care. If he just talks about it and doesn't care, then one day he'll be alienated from you. This is a good time to see how reliable your relationship is.

    If you find out that he doesn't really love you, then it's better to cut through the mess quickly, so as not to be sad in the future.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Let me give my opinion on this issue.

    My boyfriend's friend should also be my friend, and I don't think it's okay to have a good relationship with my boyfriend's friend, unless this friend thinks very badly about you, it should be seen.

    If you have to be sure, then you should take advantage of your boyfriend's absence, and it's okay to test the appropriateness. For example, when you go to drink, you deliberately get him drunk, and talk about it or something.

    I remember when my classmate talked about his partner, he had a brother, and the two of them went to dinner every day or something, especially iron, and he would take this brother with him for anything. It's nothing wrong with three people playing together. This brother is also very good with her partner, and she makes any jokes, and I don't think it's a love triangle situation, so I think maybe you're thinking too much.

    Of course, this situation is not ruled out, that is, TV dramas don't often play two people who like one person at the same time, but this doesn't have to be determined, because you have an object, even if you are sure and you can't change anything, if you also like him, then it's another story.

    Since you have a boyfriend, even if he likes you, you don't have to care, because you don't like him, then you don't have to care about this kind of thing, but stay away from him, if you think this kind of thing really happened, then you tell your boyfriend, because in this way you can make him symbolically have a psychological defense, and he will not feel that he is cuckold.

    It's still okay to believe this kind of thing after drinking and spitting out the truth, ask your boyfriend to take him to drink more, ask him demonstratively, what do you think of you, if there is no such thing, then be a good friend, a good brother. After all, he also takes care of you as a brother's wife, which is why he is so good to you.

    If you're good enough, you deserve the best, and it doesn't matter if you choose what you want.

    It's better to make more friends outside, of course, don't let him lose a friend or a brother because of your own suspicions, so it's better not to talk about this kind of thing.

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