We are not a good fit, how can I convince them to give me a chance?

From your expression, you have sensed that you are not suitable.

First, you can change yourself to adapt to him, the change here is a real change, not to win his heart and cry and say "I was wrong, I must change" because I like it and am willing to change, of course, I don't know who the two of you are when you get along with each other, or just a problem of concepts and habits, because your expression is relatively simple, so it can only be simple.

The second is that you have to think clearly, it is very difficult to change yourself to fit another person, you can be very painful, if this change makes you feel miserable and not happy, I don't know if you think this change is worth it, and it is understandable that you really have such determination.

Finally, a woman needs a man's favor, and blindly seeking perfection may not be your original intention, maybe you don't necessarily like the other party to this extent, but simply because you don't want to admit that you have failed in your choice. I hope you can handle your relationship with him carefully, and most importantly, you can be happy in love.

Show sincerity and let them see the real you, it doesn't have to be romantic, but it must be very solemn.

Twisted melons are not sweet! If it's really not suitable, it's better to end it as soon as possible. No one delays anyone.

When you buy shoes, do you have to buy something that is not suitable?

When you buy clothes, do you have to buy things that don't fit?

If it doesn't fit, it doesn't fit. No matter how strong the twisted melon is, it will not be sweet.

Feelings can't be forced.

Emotional matters cannot be forced. Since it's not suitable, don't be together, you're not unwanted, why hang yourself on a tree? Why force him to be with you?

Feelings can't be forced, everything goes naturally.

Are you sure you don't fit and still want to continue??

There are some things that there really is no need to force it!!

It's up to you! If it were me, I wouldn't have made a bad grade in order to be able to go to the same high school as him. You have to think about whether it's worth it.

Although it is said that talents are talents, gold will always shine. But different high schools will have different teaching environments, different teachers, even if you work hard in a bad high school, you may not be as good as those who don't work hard in a good high school. And can you make sure that you're not influenced by people who don't like to study in a bad high school?

I advise you not to deliberately fail in the exam in order to be in the same high school as him, because I am a person from the past, and I deeply understand that what high school you go to has a lot to do with what university you go to in the future. And now it's hard to find a job if you don't go to a good university. So you really have to think it through.

And if you really have a fate with him, I believe you will be together after all.

Maybe you can think about any other schools that are close to his school?

The difference in performance does not have an impact that can be equalized in a day or two.

I suggest you see if there are any other schools close to his school, so you can get together after class. Maybe I'm proposing a way to keep you from being together day and night. But come to think of it, Xiao Bie is newlywed, and although you can't be together all the time, this not only solves your school problems, but also ensures that you don't have long-distance relationships.

Let me analyze it for you, when you go out to study, is his mind worried that your relationship will fade if you are separated, or does he think that you are enjoying life when you go out? If you are worried that your relationship will crack because of the distance, then at least he is a more mature man, and how many couples and families have been buried by the distance barrier. So, you think about it, such a man, you are reluctant to give up, after all, if you go abroad, it will definitely affect you and him...

If he thinks that you are more comfortable and enjoying going out, I want to say, such a man is more selfish, and you really want to marry such a man? A selfish man, I don't know how generous I can be**. Such a selfish man will never know how to pay for you, that is, he can't use his own bitterness to repay your sweetness.

Many men hope that their wives can be happy even if they are bitter, but look at what you said in the article: "He can't accept that one enjoys abroad after marriage, and the other worries about his livelihood at home." This in itself is a question, what does it mean to "enjoy abroad, worry about livelihood"?

When you go abroad, do you just enjoy it? If he is in China, will he have to worry about his livelihood? What kind of man is he?

I said that although the family money is used to go to school, but once he graduates, independence is a must, and the problems in life are afraid of him, how to face more and bigger problems in the future, whether he is self-motivated and has the courage to fight?

Well, one thing, you have to admit that when a man is running around, his girlfriend's knowledge, status, etc., these halos are increasing, often this man automatically gives up their feelings, or maybe your originally harmonious relationship is no longer harmonious, this is not something you can change alone.

What kind of attitude do you have towards this man, think about it, the reason why he doesn't let you go abroad, and analyze it carefully, whether he is afraid of losing you, or whether he himself is afraid of life. When you go abroad, you may face the loss of him, can you accept it? There are gains and losses, think about it yourself and then make a decision.

I believe that Bidu understands this, but I need to say it, someone needs to say it, and it feels like someone is standing with you, even if we don't know each other, it doesn't matter. It's a feeling of heart. Well, analyze these and then decide, going abroad is not a trivial matter, and getting married is a major event in life.

Studying abroad is not enjoyable, it is not easier than going to work, and you will find that there are more excellent boys in the United States when you go out.

You just say this to give him a few options: "1. .Make your own money to study abroad 2Work hard to get a scholarship for exams 3 f2”

In fact, F2 costs about 100,000 RMB a year, and I can't work part-time.

actually said that he went abroad to enjoy it, and he was decisive.

The biggest difference between the two of you is the difference in material conditions, but this cannot be the key to determining the direction of your relationship. Material conditions affect the perception of things by both of you. Maybe some of your lifestyle in life seems to your boyfriend to be more casual, and he doesn't quite approve of the consumption method, etc., and he can't fully understand the details of life, and you can't look at things from the same standard.

Having said that, since the landlord can think about marrying her boyfriend, it means that your relationship is still very deep, and the touching and love for each other in life is also very strong. Feelings should still be cherished!

The landlord's boyfriend took out the breakup to talk about it, no matter what kind of consideration, it obviously meant to coerce. The landlord must first be rational and determine whether going abroad is for further study and better development in the future, if so, then insist on himself, and communicate with his boyfriend, figure out what he is worried about, I believe that he is definitely not worried about one or two points, through communication, the greatest possible solution to the problem.

The landlord is sure if his boyfriend is the one who can be with him for a lifetime, and if so, communicate with him well. Also, the landlord usually cares more about his boyfriend and thinks more about the problem from his point of view, so that he can rest assured that he may have more trust in you.

Actually, it's better for such a boyfriend to be broken.

Your living environment is fundamentally different, he is not self-motivated, low self-esteem and greedy, and you will have endless troubles with him in the future.

Go to the United States to study on your own.

Landlord: How can there be the best of both worlds, there must be a choice, there must be a renunciation, your relationship will not have a good result, you will feel it, your distance will be getting bigger and bigger, whether in spiritual life or material life, you will not have parallel lines To put it simply, you are not a grade of people, so I think you should venture more while you are young You will definitely meet someone who is in a parallel line with you Then your life will be happy.

This is really difficult...Love is not something that can be done with a train ticket or a plane ticket...Besides, the boy is a little narrow-minded and can't delay your future, so he's giving you a problem...Persuade him well, he doesn't want to go abroad with you, it is probably a matter of men's dignity...I wish you all happiness.

The current separation is for a better reunion in the future, and if the two love for a long time, it will be in the morning and twilight. Whether it is at the end of the world or at the cape, as long as there is always each other in your heart, it is not a problem.

You tell him that this is the time for the emotional test, and if you can't pass this test, how can you live your life

Well. However, those who watch it do not necessarily like them.

Yes. There may even be hallucinations that you will think it is TA when you see someone with similar characteristics.

Definitely, he will try his best to see him, because if he likes someone, he will miss him, and he can't wait to see him every day, so that's it.

I like him and want to see him every day.

If you really like him, try to love him, accept him, and change him [this is quite difficult]; Otherwise don't waste that time, it's not worth it. In fact, no one deserves your favor except yourself.

Friends are to be in the mood People don't agree to reconcile that is, they can't talk about going together and can't do things in one place Recognizing people has their own principles for dealing with people (details are clear in their hearts It's okay to sit down and think about what friends are like and how they do things Compare) Maybe the gap between them is too big Dozens of people barely make them return to a good friend relationship They can only meet and nod their heads and have no words to friends.

Take him back to the happy times you had.

In fact, when you are together, the most important thing in such a state is how you, the middleman, do it.

I don't agree, it's just a matter of face, and I just need to go down the stairs.

Since they are good friends, they don't want any hatred of killing their wives and children, so what knot is there that can't be untied?

The middleman said two more good words, and if he was willing to reconcile, he would take the initiative to get closer, get closer to others, and give others face, wouldn't it be good!

Let's solve the problem of why you broke up your relationship. Only by taking care of why you broke up your friendship first.

It is possible to reconcile. It is necessary to cure the root cause.

Sometimes kindness doesn't always work well. You're an outsider after all. And people have been "scarped" about the relationship with your friends.

It's bad for you everywhere. I advise you not to persuade you. You can give him words of persuasion to his sister-in-law.

Let him persuade. It depends on the actual situation of his sister-in-law. Good luck. (*

It's best for outsiders not to interfere in this matter, and if you don't get it right, you'll have a gray nose! Careful!

Although it should be incumbent on you to help your friend, since you and his sister-in-law don't know each other, it's better to refuse. And explain it to your friends!