When a child does something wrong, his parents scold him for, right?

No, parents take the lead in scolding, and the child grows up!

Summary. In family life, it is not uncommon for parents to criticize, scold or even physically punish their children, which may have a negative impact on the child's physical and mental health. If a child has not done anything wrong, but is criticized or reprimanded by his parents, it can cause the child to feel confused and aggrieved, and sometimes lead to depressive symptoms.

In this case, your child can try the following coping methods:1Express your opinion:

If the parent's criticism or reprimand is based on a misunderstanding or mistake, the child can try to express his thoughts and opinions in a rational way so that the parent can understand his situation and mood. 2.Analyze the cause and solve the problem:

Based on their own experiences and ideas, children can analyze the reasons and reasons behind their parents' behaviors, and try to solve problems so that parents can better understand themselves or reduce reprimands. 3.Professional assistance and confiding:

If your child's mental health is affected, seek professional psychological help and support, or talk to other concerned family members and friends. In short, in family life, it is not a good way for parents to criticize, scold and physically punish their children. Parents need to respect their children's individuality and personality and learn to communicate and understand better.

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In family life, it is not uncommon for parents to criticize, scold or even physically punish their children, which may have a negative impact on the child's physical and mental health. If a child has not done anything wrong, but is criticized or reprimanded by his parents, it can cause the child to feel confused and aggrieved, and sometimes lead to depressive symptoms. In this case, your child can try the following coping methods:

1.Express your own opinions: If the parent's criticism or reprimand is based on misunderstanding or mistakes, the child can try to express his thoughts and opinions in a rational way so that the parent can understand his situation and mood.

2.Analyze the causes and solve the problem: Based on their own experience and ideas, children can analyze the reasons and reasons behind the parent's behavior, and try to solve the problem so that the parent can better understand themselves or reduce the blame.

3.Professional support and confiding: If your child's mental health is being called for, seek professional help and support, or talk to other family members and friends who care about you.

In short, in family life, it is not a good way for parents to criticize, scold and punish their children. Parents need to respect their children's individuality and personality and learn to communicate and understand better.

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If you think you haven't made a mistake, but your parents are scolding you because of the breakup, you can try to communicate with them in a calm manner. First, express your opinion and explain your actions. It can be said that

I don't think I've done anything wrong, can you let me explain? Then, briefly explain your thoughts and actions to your parents so that they can understand better. If they still can't accept it, then you can once again stay calm and be honest about your thoughts and feelings, while trying to maintain a harmonious communication and end the conversation in a proper manner.

Of course, parents need to be responsible for this situation. There is no child in the world who absolutely does not make mistakes, but in the face of children who are in trouble, the different ways of coping with parents are completely different. Punitive parents often focus on punishment and neglect to use the opportunity of their child's mistakes to help their child gain valuable experience in the growth of argumentation.

Although punishment can sometimes be short-term effective in correcting a child's behavior, it is not due to the child's "self-awareness".

Perhaps out of fear or to escape punishment, the child is afraid to do so for a while, but he is unable to truly reflect on himself and his actions, let alone grow from his mistakes.

Another consequence of verbal abuse and punishment is that it lowers a child's self-esteem and allows him to associate himself with words such as stupid, incompetent, and bad.

If the child gives up on himself, he will show these "bad" appearances. Even if the child is cautious and tries to avoid making mistakes as much as possible, he will not think too highly of himself in his heart.

The pampering parents are even worse, they are always looking to play the role of cleaning up the mess for their children, and the children not only fail to learn from the lessons and experiences, but may not even have basic reverence, let alone responsibility and responsibility.

Such parents think that they are loving their children and protecting their children, but in fact, they are digging a big hole for themselves and their children.

Sooner or later, the child will go out into society, and if he has never learned what boundaries are and what rules are, he will hit his head and bleed in reality.

Truly sensible parents, neither punishing nor conniving. When your child makes a mistake or makes a mistake, even if you don't blame him, he will feel sorry, and at this time, your gentle attitude can make your child focus more on self-reflection.

But unlike the indulgent parent, although you are not impatient, angry or punishable, you still need to tell your child what to do and what not to do, and since you have made a mistake, you must have the courage to bear the consequences.

You also need to guide your child to think of ways to solve and make amends, and how to avoid similar mistakes in the future. Compared with making direct requests to children, this approach can guide children's positive thinking, mobilize children's initiative, and the effect will be better.

When you are truly able to trust your child, the child will reciprocate your trust.

The experience and lessons that children have learned from life are more impressive than you can tell the truth a hundred times orally.

Making mistakes" is a necessary lesson for a child's growth, and only by taking a certain number of "class hours" can he truly gain the right lesson.

3. The ability of self-reflection and self-improvement.

Parents should understand the value of "mistakes" and see that in their children's growth, their "mistakes" and "achievements" have the same positive educational function.

Of course, this trial and error refers to the mistake of not trying to do something illegal.

Scholars are brave enough to try and make mistakes. They all summed up a lot of learning experience in the process of trial and error over and over again.

It's like Edison's colleagues made fun of him for doing more than 10,000 experiments, all of which ended in failure.

Edison disagreed, saying that he had not failed, that he had just found 10,000 wrong ways.

The same is true of great scientists, let alone our children.

Give your child more opportunities for trial and error, that is, give your child more opportunities to grow.

As the ancients said, what you get on paper is shallow in the end, and you never know that you have to do it. Tell your child 10,000 times that your child should do it himself.

Children will understand some truth in the process of trial and error. In the process of continuous trial and error, the methods, conclusions, skills, abilities, etc. formed are conducive to the mature development of children in all aspects. in order to have a profound experience.

Such as interpersonal relationships, communication skills, expression skills, ** skills, practical skills, etc.

As the saying goes, people teach people, they can't learn, things teach people, they can do it once.

Bootstrap Max! Scolding doesn't do anything!

Parents suffer material losses (material or spiritual) due to the child's mistakes, such as breaking a glass or breaking someone's window.

Spiritual, such as failing exams, being rude to guests, and contradicting parents and teachers.

I occasionally think that both parents have to sing red and white, carrots and sticks, in order to achieve the purpose of educating their children.

Scolding or indulgence will only harm the child.

A habit, as well as the people around you, is like this, and it is easy to be affected.