Why do rural girls demand that boys be one sided, roadside by side ?

Rural marriage requires the man to "unilaterally, on the side of the road, and on the side", what do these three sides refer to?

What exactly does the rural marriage woman refer to when the man is asked to "unilaterally, on the side of the road, and on the side"? Now marrying a daughter-in-law in rural areas has become a hot topic, and it is also a social problem, not only to buy a house and a car in a big city, but also to provide a sky-high bride price to the woman.

Now the ratio of men and women in rural areas is out of balance, even women who marry for the second time have become fragrant and sweet, the number of male singles is increasing year by year, and the number of rural girls is still decreasing, which has exacerbated the problem of difficulty in marrying wives in rural areas. "One-sided, roadside, side-by-side", these demands made the rural boy sigh. Let's take a look!

We explained one by one, which unilaterally refers to the fact that the man must be an only child, and everyone has the impression that the only child has a good family background, and no one will fight for the family property after marriage.

The second roadside refers to the family living on the side of the road, not only the transportation is convenient, the house appreciation space is large, and the face is face-saving, and the third side is that the mother-in-law should be young and not over 50 years old, otherwise she can't help take the children to do housework, and she needs to leave her daughter-in-law at home to watch the children, delaying young people to go out to make money. However, in addition to the strict needs for housing, cars and bride price**, these three needs have been raised. The elderly and bachelors in the countryside are very helpless.

These girls now have a high eye, and they are all looking to the city. Even if the conditions of rural boys are good, they do not look down on them. Only when these conditions are met can they commit to having a relationship and eventually getting married or not.

But that's another story. Therefore, everyone says that girls are becoming more and more realistic. Do you like realistic girls?

Is your girlfriend realistic? Do they have independent financial capacity? If two people are in love, a suitable bride price is still acceptable.

In the face of the sky-high bride price, this should be done in moderation, otherwise the children will not be happy even if they get married and are burdened with huge debts. Thank you very much for reading, do you have any different suggestions or comments, and what are your thoughts on this?

Because of such a family, the woman can live a better life, so she generally asks for this.

The requirements for boys are so high, I should want to marry into a relatively wealthy family.

I think it's just a matter of talking, because the bride price in the countryside is not very high.

Maybe this is because the requirements for boys are particularly high, and it also causes not many people to get married now.

These are some of the courtship requests that girls nowadays ask boys, especially rural girls.

It is estimated that these girls are also highly educated, and it is not surprising that they have a high vision.

I think maybe they're too demanding, I think that's a bit too much, and I feel like the current atmosphere is quite bad.

I think the main reason is that I am too poor, so I hope that I can live a good life, and I don't want to be too poor.

Because they have different choices, they want to live a better life for themselves, so they have to ask for this.

I think this may be a custom in the countryside, representing a standard for boys.

Yes, what's not to do, it's more, and you have to have confidence in yourself.

Look at the inner cultivation, look at the external appearance, and see if the boy really likes you.

Yes, girls should be confident.

As long as you love each other, nothing is impossible.

Of course, the city is good, comfortable to live in, and convenient to go out, although the air may not be very good, but it doesn't matter, how many people will choose to go to the countryside now, unless she originally grew up in the countryside, or the man she loves is also rural.

The concept is different, the rural girl thinks that she has no obligation to provide for her parents, and gives the man a big living person for nothing, so the asking price is high!!

Because the rural customs are different.

The conditions required are high.

I hope to change my life through marriage.

What's wrong with a request? How is it unrealistic? Why shouldn't rural girls have requirements? Then you don't think the girls in the city have asked for it, that.

The reason why girls in rural areas ask for more boyfriends than girls in cities is because he feels that he has capital, so these are indeed a bit unrealistic.

See if the two of you have fate, if there is fate, whether the girl is honest or rural, don't pay attention to it, the rural door is right, as long as two people love each other, and the sincere duo walks together.

What is called climbing high branches, now China's rural areas are not necessarily worse than the cities, 30 years in Hedong, 30 years in Hexi, in the future, maybe you want to go to the countryside and have to trust the relationship.

Now, most of them are looking for the combination of three views. The so-called rural and urban areas have long been indistinguishable. For example, in rural areas, the conditions at home are better than those working in cities, I don't know how many times better.

We girls in the city, let the boys in the city digest it internally, and the boys in the countryside will find the rural ones, hahaha.

Rural girls, because that's how easy it is to hook up.

Rural girls give people a sense of honesty, diligence and simplicity, but they also make people feel that rural girls are not fashionable enough and a little earthy. In fact, in these years of development, rural girls have paid more and more attention to their image more beautiful, but most men still think that rural girls are more earthy and do not match fashion.

Every place has its own customs, and there are reasons why you can't change them, which is to try to accept them, or you can marry somebody in another place.

Is this still hard? The woman didn't ask for a ticket for your house and car, but you still said it was difficult to have a good family and people. Then you didn't get married to anything, why should a good girl marry you.

This should be the gap caused by objective reasons. But you didn't say if this girl also likes you, if this girl also likes it.

If you have the right to say it, I don't think there is much difference between the countryside and the city now. At present, there are very many families with good conditions in rural areas, which are no worse than those in cities, and many people in Xiangfan are now willing to become rural hukou. So if you really like this girl, and this girl likes you too, you might as well give yourself a chance and give the other person a chance.

Because fate like this is something that can be met but not sought, don't lose it because of your self-righteousness, otherwise you will regret it too late.

Well, that man thinks that he is not a man, he can't give happiness to the girl he likes, he shouldn't pursue love, and he deserves to be lonely and struggle all his life. Am I right to say that?

Don't give up on anything because of your family background, only if you work hard, there will be hope.

Nowadays, most of the city girls worship money, and you can't afford to hurt the city girls.

If you are truly in love, you will work hard for the future, and it is time to prove everything.

Alas, there is too much helplessness in reality, we should not compromise, but should strive for it, even if we fail, it is glorious and proud.

How can true love be willing to give up? If it is true love, that boy should change himself, make himself better, and change his family background.

It sounds so sad, isn't this man me?

You have to have the conditions and the ability to get it, otherwise why will people look at you.

That's if you don't really like it, it doesn't matter if you really like it.

I'm also worried, can you think about me want to start a family.

It's that you haven't met someone who likes you, and you won't care about these things when you do.