Who are we wrong, who is wrong?

Well. Such a family does make you very depressed. The old man is indeed a little too much, which makes people very uncomfortable, but I think it's not interesting to discuss who is right and who is wrong, so it's important to find a way to change the current situation. Sympathy ==

It is quite a headache for an old man with this to be a mother-in-law, she is an elder, even if she does something wrong, you can't do anything about him. I was very sympathetic because my mother-in-law was not very good.

When you talk to your husband, maybe he thinks you're slandering his mother's image in his heart, so he says that about you, which also verifies"The son is not ugly"This sentence.

As long as your mother-in-law doesn't directly target you, you can still bear it.

I'm sure you've seen a lot of stories between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law on TV, and the ones on TV are actually the most realistic, compared to the comparison, how serious people are, but they are handled properly, and in the end it is not properly solved, what you have to think about is that the generation gap between different generations is obvious, and her generation has the concept of her generation.

Do we know the suffering of their generation? Do we understand the hardships of their generation?

But if we tell them about computers and networks, how much do they know?

So you need to communicate, you talk to her more, and at the same time, you also need to be generous, after all, you are a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship.

They can let you live in to prove that they cherish you, who has no shortcomings, but at the same time, everyone has their strengths, and what they see may have something to do with her habitual behavior, and it can't be said that she is disrespectful to you.

There is a saying, it is well said, it is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs.

In the end, you have to deal with all this, be calm in everything, and don't think in an extreme way.

It's not about helping someone say anything, it's just about things, and it's normal for you to feel this way, and it makes sense) Don't look at it from a small aspect, you should look at it from a big aspect.

Don't you call her mom too? You are part of the family, you are part of the family.

Why complain, why bother after being angry.

Change is key.

When everyone is together in harmony, it feels like you're going to love it.

Home and everything is prosperous, no more worries, Merry Christmas!!

There are no boundaries in your family, so there will be no distinction between your family and my family, and your mother-in-law did not give her son to you psychologically. Her control over space is also symbolic of her son's control.

If you can't provoke it, hide and try not to have contradictions.

Have a good talk with your husband, I understand you very well, everyone has privacy, there is space to live, give you a suggestion, when you are at home, lock the door of the house, so that your mother-in-law can't open the key herself, when she can't open it, you don't take the initiative to open the door for her, let your mother-in-law knock on the door, you go to open it again, and then say that you didn't hear the sound of the door opening, if your mother-in-law asks why the door is locked, you say that you always feel scared, and you always dream at night that someone takes the key and enters the house, That will give your mother-in-law a hint. Lock your bedroom door when you're not at home. Don't have a head-on confrontation with your mother-in-law, after all, it's an old man

Your husband's character is not bad, you said that when your brother borrowed money, you said that you would lend him 200, but your husband said that it didn't work for anything and borrowed 500, which means that he still doesn't treat your brother as an outsider, and your brother has money and borrows money It's nothing, they're all relatives, right, 500 is not much, maybe he doesn't care much about it, but he forgets, it's not good for you to ask as a sister, I think it's better to forget it, he's so rich, if he really has a conscience, he usually invites you to dinner very generously, Sending things or something, if you don't have that, then your brother is too bad. Then again, your husband can't get used to this kind of dishonest behavior, because your brother is richer than his husband, and he thinks that your brother has money and will naturally pay it back without your urging, in addition, he is a little jealous of your brother, and he is a little narrow-minded, and it is really not worth it to have hatred for 500 yuan, and the people who hurt are still relatives. Also, these small expenditures, you don't need to discuss with your husband at all, which shows that you are too unassertive, that is your brother, it is normal to borrow money, and it is not much, and it is not a matter of paying it back, and this right is not your failure.

My advice to you is to find an excuse to take money from your brother, in your own name.

I think it can still reassure us!

Your brother doesn't know how to be a man at all

If we fairly evaluate the history of human development, we will find that people now live in a more advantageous era than in the past, the average life expectancy of human beings has increased, the mortality rate has decreased, the social system is more enlightened than in the past, and the adaptability of human beings to nature has also improved with the progress of science and technology. The idea that the life of the ancients might have been better, and that the infant had a more simple and beautiful temperament, is not supported by real events.

Now there are indeed many dark and unjust realities, but these cannot negate the achievements of human development so far, human beings cannot and should not return to the state of the ancients, right and wrong does not matter, the key is whether the real world we live in has been improving, progressing, isn't it enough?

You are right in your understanding, you are close to the Dharma.

Existence is reasonable, and if you don't go with the flow, you will be rejected.

It cannot be denied that mankind has made technological progress, and we have not been able to surpass the philosophers of hundreds of years ago in our understanding of the truth.