What if you never catch up with what you like? 20

I used to hear people say that it is better to find what you like than to find what you like.

But I think that if I like it, I love it, no matter what the result is, even if the final result is a failure, I will not regret it. If you choose to like yourself instead of what you like, then reluctantly being together is not only an unfairness to the other party, an insult to his or her feelings, but also an irresponsibility to your own happiness.

So choose what you like and don't do things that you regret.

Although I am a little superstitious as they say, I still think that it is God's arrangement for two people to be together, since this opportunity has been given to you, you must cherish it, there is fate not necessarily together, but no fate must not be together, as long as fate arrives, you work hard to pursue, you think about her, she will be moved, will promise to go through this life with you.

Surely you will never be able to catch up? If that's the case, the answer is simple, find your goal again! If you are a good man, there will always be good girls who can see your shining points and know how to love you and cherish you! How can a big husband have no wife!

People can't get everything they want, so do I, you really like someone, if you don't get it, you just smile and forget about her, even if it's like this on the surface, it's fate when you meet it, why bother with it

I don't think there is eternity in the world, but fate has not yet arrived, don't be discouraged, use your sincerity to wait for the love that should belong to you.

In fact, you don't have to be together to like someone!

Sometimes tearful letting go is also love!

There is no limit to being young, nothing is impossible. Be brave enough to challenge yourself, and you won't regret it when you're old.

If there is no fate, it is better to wish him happiness and watch the person he loves happy.

I'll be happy too.

If you can't catch it, you can't catch it, your wife wants to love you, if you are unrequited, it is you who are hurt.

If "never chase".

Forever" so insistence can't move her.

So what are you still clinging to?

Forever? Can't catch up?

Then chase it to heaven and earth!!

As long as you like him or her

Loving one doesn't have to be together.

As long as I hope that she is more satisfied with your life.

Then give up and help him find someone he likes, and that's what I did.

Then don't chase it, my favorite person is myself anyway.

There will always be, it depends on whether there is a fate!!

Possibly.

If you really love her, pay for her! Let's change!

Symptom: Unrequited love all the time.

Result: None.

Method: Give up.

That's less than 1 of your effort

Then find someone who likes you.

Giving up is the highest state of love!

If it's me, I'll be a single aristocrat.

Is it sad to be rejected by someone you like?

The answer must be yes, and with the different degrees of liking, the degree of sadness after rejection is also strong and weak.

As for how to get out, the gods have given many methods, time healing, shifting emotions, busy forgetting, friends, empathy, and so on. Different methods are suitable for different individuals, look at yourself, and what methods work for you?

In fact, I want to talk more about how to treat the matter of "rejection".

There is one point that deserves everyone's serious consideration when dealing with everything, and that is "How many times can you accept failure?" ”

Whether it's work, study, love, career, sports, or a simple little thing (such as threading a needle). Very few people are born with divine help, and there is no resistance to what they do, and there is no resistance along the way. The vast majority of people, whether they are learning a word or a skill, mastering a profession or penetrating a road, need to constantly experience setbacks and failures in order to finally get results (master a word, master a skill, become an expert in a certain field, and catch up with their favorite lover).

Of course, the end result of learning and hard work may not necessarily be as desired and get what people want. But how far you've come in the process is also crucial. The farther you run towards your goal, the closer you will be to your goal, and the experience, experience, knowledge, and sense of gain gained in the process will become your most valuable asset.

The moment of picking the fruit can be the most rewarding, but the process of climbing the tree is just as precious.

In other words, you can't pick the fruit of this tree, but by mastering the skill of climbing trees, the next fruit of the next tree will be easier to get.

The pursuit of love is sometimes the same thing, before the goal is reached, it takes unremitting efforts, "stalking" and "sincerity" are sometimes just the difference between a thought.

Even if it doesn't work out, it doesn't matter, the "fruit of the next tree" is beckoning to you.

In adolescence, we can easily have a heart-pounding feeling, and it is easy to fall in love with someone, but often God will play tricks on us and make us fall in love with someone who doesn't love us, to be honest, the taste of unrequited love is very bitter and painful!

Don't fall in love with someone easily, if you fall in love with someone who doesn't love you, you have to pay a price. Maybe everyone has been in love with someone, maybe you will become friends, maybe you are not even friends, maybe you can only pay attention to him secretly, maybe you can only take care of him silently, maybe you won't feel tired, but have you considered time? You can continue to love him for one year, you can continue to care for him for two years, so three or four years, do you think you can still continue to love him?

Can you still wait until he opens his arms to you?

In fact, sometimes it is difficult to love someone, but it is easy to give up a person, that is, you are too persistent and unwilling to give up, which can also be said to be self-deception! When we can't love, we have to learn to give up, knowing why we can't wait for his love and waste our good years stupidly, why don't we let go of the obsession in our hearts to pursue happiness that truly belongs to us. You can't run if you run by yourself, and it's useless to force it if it's not your own, which means that you haven't met the right person yet!

If you still don't get any results after three years, let it go! We can learn to let go and re-pursue our own happiness. Or focus on family and friendship, which are more worth your giving, think about the family who loves you, look at the friends who care about you, and you will quickly forget those troubles and troubles.

There is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a grass. Pursue bravely, know the result early, and give up decisively.

What should I do if I can't catch up with the person I particularly like? If it's the person you particularly like, uh, if you can't catch up, you should definitely calmly analyze where you failed, and then re-launch the offensive on the basis of this summary of experience, so that the chance of success is a little greater!

There is a saying that when talking about skin, there is always a reward for paying. But this sentence may not be so applicable in love. Love is a matter of two people, not only about fate, but also about points.

There are so many people who are destined to have nothing to do, and this is impossible to force. What does it feel like to be liked by someone you don't like, or to someone who doesn't like you?

1. He really moved you, but he never moved your heart;

2. It's really embarrassing. Every day when you open WeChat, a lot of messages come to you, and when you only reply with one word "um", the guilt of cracking the wall will hit your heart. I don't feel rude when I don't reply, and I feel even less polite when I go back;

3. Originally, the two of them were safe and sound, and they had no feelings for him. But after you know that he likes you, you start to dislike him, even if he talks to you every day, you feel that he is disturbing your life. I don't like it, but he always feels that he still has a chance, especially if someone he doesn't like confesses to me, it will only make the person you like more annoying.

Don't feel that if you work hard, the person you like will like you, and if you don't like it, you don't like it.

4. He gives you a piece, and you feel like you owe him a hundred. Refuse to bear it, and accept it disgusting;

5. If you see through it or not, we are still good friends; If you see through it, I'm sorry, I'll just ignore it. Not for fear of being hurt, but for fear of hurting others;

6. You like me**, can't I change it? I really don't want to hurt a confident and kind-hearted person, so that he can love others with the same mentality;

7. I'm a cactus, but you keep watering me every day... Gratitude is wrapped in thousands of sorrys;

8. While you are waiting for me, I am also waiting for others;

9. I panic every day, I feel that I am being watched, but you can't bear to hurt him, you can only endure it yourself, and slowly don't appear in his sight, and it's really painful to dodge;

The person who pursues love is worthy of respect, because you don't know that every word he says, every confession, is the result of a struggle of ideas and is well thought out. Maybe years later, you will meet your her, and at that time, you will be grateful to the person who rejected you in the first place.