How should people spend their lives, vigorously? Bland? 》

First of all, be kind to yourself! But while being good to yourself, you can care about others, and you must be good at making friends and friends. Know that friends are your invisible pillar and your endless wealth.

Life, in fact, is not so long, and it is not so confusing. It depends on the path you choose. If you want to get ahead, it is inevitable to be vigorous, if you just want to live an ordinary life, it is very simple, don't do what you shouldn't do, be busy with yourself, and your life will pass like this.

If it were me, I would definitely choose to be vigorous, even if others talk about it. So a short life, why let it be so tasteless past?

Set yourself a goal and you'll know how to live. Only with goals can there be motivation, and there are so many people, it is because of goals that they have the courage to climb forward. Maybe you can't find your goal now, but in the future, there will be something that will deeply touch you, so you will make a decision based on this, and decide how you should go in this life!

Look at your own life pursuit, but in the end, it is still plain to be true, everything is vigorous and flashy, and when it retreats, it becomes bland.

It's nice to be alive, but what more could you ask for in this day and age?

The most important thing is to be happy, it doesn't make sense to be unhappy or anything!

Find the direction of your life, work hard, pursue, analyze, and experience, just like finding the airflow in a storm, soaring and diving, and a life that is too ordinary will be like raindrops on the window, and it will not leave traces after a few days.

Have a clear conscience and never regret it.

If life has the opportunity for you to choose, want to live a vigorous life, or an ordinary life?

There are so many opportunities in life for you to choose from, but what is really right for you may not appear or always appear or miss opportunities due to your personal mistakes. There are too many possibilities in life, if you want to realize your real dream, you are indeed making a lot of efforts, constantly improving yourself, increasing your knowledge reserve, learning more about a technology, mastering more of a language, learning more and learning from the experience of successful people, communicating with the wise, the elderly, and open-minded people, and verifying the knowledge, skills, and languages you have learned with practice, so that you can gradually and integrate them, and at the same time, you must also learn to live and learn.

Everything in the world is born, develops, and dies in motion and change. Seize the opportunity and you can benefit from it, which will lead to your own success and that of others. Although the process is full of twists and turns, the joy when you succeed is indescribable in words.

There is no success in the world for no reason, let alone success without effort, who has not experienced many failures to achieve success?

The rapid development of modern society, if you can't keep up with the pace of the times, you will be eliminated, if you can realize this, you will consciously keep pace with the times, and constantly enrich and improve your comprehensive quality, etc., then you will make achievements, of course, success is the best time for your life value and meaning to embody, followed by happiness and joy, family, friends, colleagues will be favored by you, why not?

There is a saying that plain and plain is true, it is the true embodiment of real life, and of course, it is also the exponential characteristic of happiness and joy. Although people envy the vigorous love or life, it is often the melancholy and confusion after the surprise, and even the loss, because it is not real, or very short, can not last for a long time, people often say that the water often flows, any result needs time precipitation and sustainable development, can not be set in stone. Ordinary life love does not necessarily have no good results, and it does not necessarily fail to lay a solid foundation to make happiness and joy more real and long-lasting.

It is often said that every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, but if you master the laws of life, then you are a strong person in life, and you will master the future, and success, happiness and joy will always accompany you.

Let us treat everything with a normal heart, then our life will definitely be brilliant, and we will definitely gain something, and it is more likely to make everything about you better and better, which is understandable. Come on, adjust our mentality, you always remember, mentality determines fate, everything lies in people's thoughts, and you are the giant of life! A true giant!

Plain is the life that many people are willing to pursue, don't ask for anything, don't want anything, just stay with your family and be happy.

1.Every day, when I wake up, I have the goal of running for home and work, tired and happy.

2.Plain and plain is the most precious.

As long as you have money, it is most important for your family to be happy together.

3.Children are happiest when they are bouncing.

4.It was very warm to be with each other during the illness.

5.Walking around with my wife is also happy.

Still, there is always someone who can make these things happen. And these people are all unbearable, and they hope to have a different life if they are scarred.

In order to live your life vigorously and let the world remember your name, in the process of working hard for these things, you have not lived a dull life.

I prefer my life to be uneventful. There will be big ups and downs. In this way, both physically and mentally will be very harmful, and the ordinary life will be more comfortable and carefree. A simple life is the happiest.

I would like it to be vigorous, but I may not be able to do it. Now the life of man. Plain comparison. It's good to be comfortable.

I think people should choose to live an ordinary life.

1.Life is always full of surprises.

Maybe you want to live a vigorous life, but life is always full of accidents, it may make you brilliant on the road, suddenly, accidents, and then do nothing to live a life.

2.Choosing to be plain can also be happy.

Maybe everyone thinks that they want to be a great man, but no one would think that if everyone knew what to do, there would be no ordinary people. For this world, everyone is an ordinary person, but some people are more prominent in relation to others. Since I can live my life in peace, I can accompany my family, take my children to some very beautiful places, and live my life quietly, why should I take some very big risks to live vigorously?

3.Ordinary life will not be disturbed.

It's not uncommon to see people who become famous and then be disturbed by other people. I don't think I'm a person who loves fame and fortune, and I probably only care about what kind of people my family is. I also just want to live my life quietly with my family.

What I like is just studying quietly at home. These days are going to be very happy.

Therefore, living an ordinary life is actually the happiest.

What is an ordinary life? What is a vigorous life?

For our state of mind, we should be bland; And for dedication, dedication, care and care should be vigorous. Vigor and vigor are not to show ourselves, but to let our lives shine as much as possible, so that our great life energy can be fully wielded. There is light in life, why should we cover it up!

Life is hot, why should we abandon it!

Plainness does not mean that we do not benefit others and do things. Plainness is that we can reduce or even eliminate the self, not to create physical and mental instability, not to create the opposition and separation of self and others. is plain and bland, it is to know that all things are one, self and others are equal, not to fight bravely, and to play right and wrong.

is plain and bland, it is well aware of the origin, let the fate go, do not force, do not climb. Plain and bland, it is to be able to settle in the moment, know how to be content, and know how to let go.

is vigorous, and it does not have to do anything earth-shattering, to achieve a prominent life and become famous. Vigorously is to bloom naturally like a flower, and not to choose to wither early because it will eventually wither. Vigorous is our best praise for life, vigorous and vigorous shows our positivity and sunshine, vigorous is not so much self-restraint, stubbornness, but openness and acceptance, tolerance and forward.

Many people oppose the ordinary and the vigorous, so that they can only choose one or the other. Their blandness is somewhat negative, and they are too lazy to work hard;Their vigor is somewhat inseparable from the pursuit of fame and fortune, and it requires a lot of hard work and sweat, and some tests and tempering. As a result, although some people yearn for fame and fortune, they can only choose to be plain because they are too hard and lack the courage and perseverance to chase it.

Some people call it Buddhism, which makes people sound a little solemn and noble, as if they know how to let go and have deep wisdom. In fact, it is synonymous with cowardice, indulgence and hard work, which is not letting go but giving up, not wisdom but stupidity!

If we are self-centered and we are swayed by ourselves, then even if we choose to be plain, we will not find peace and tranquility in our body and mind;Even if you choose to be vigorous, you will be physically and mentally emaciated, troubled and in pain.

In fact, what we choose is not the most important thing, our motivation is the foundation, our view of life, our attitude towards life is the cause of decision. If our intention is to benefit others, we are destined to be vigorous. If we can abandon ourselves and overcome our true greatest enemy, we will surely attain tranquility and our state of mind will be destined to be calm and stable.

If we are positive to the sun and accept the spring breeze and rain and dew, how can the flower of our life not be wonderful, isn't this vigorous!

This question varies from person to person, so let it be.

I have also spent a while thinking about this question seriously (it is when I left my last job, and I still resigned naked, and I will reflect on all kinds of pain when I quit and look for a job), so let me share my thoughts.

Work is a part of life, and the way of life is chosen by oneself, so work is also a part of oneself, which cannot be separated.

Different children will have different growth environments and different congenital conditions, so the final choice of what kind of lifestyle is completely formed by themselves, their families, the people they have come into contact with, the things they have experienced, and the three views of development, and the process of formation has human factors, event factors, and other factors.

For example, if you have formed and felt comfortable living a relaxed and happy life, no pressure, no overtime, then if you are unfortunate enough to find a job that does not agree with the three views, it will be a great pain, and then you will think about quitting, and then you will be more determined to feel that it is worth giving up your job for yourself.

But some people will not give up their jobs because of money (or other related interests, but mainly money), and at this time, they will give up themselves for work, and they will also feel painful, because the lifestyle is not in the comfort zone, but they have to give in.

My point is: go with the flow.

Of course, the premise is that you need to make your own efforts, and everyone's definition of effort is inconsistent, so some people feel that adjusting their mentality is hard work, some people feel that quitting their jobs is hard work, some people feel that supplementing knowledge makes them grow, and some people feel that experiencing life makes them grow. If it were me, my last choice was naked, and I don't know the next choice, because I don't know what my three views were like at that time, or how heavy my financial burden would be.

So this question doesn't make much sense, I believe that the other answers are chicken soup or stories, but I still know best about renting my own things, and I can refer to it from others, but I still have to work my own first, and then choose.

Good luck with your work.

No matter how you live, you will eventually go to the grave, Wen Yun: People in the world, they don't know where they come from in life, they don't know where they go when they die, they are drunk and dream of death, and they are busy all their lives;

Falling into the sea of suffering and being unaware, falling into the pits of fire and not knowing, taking suffering as pleasure and falsehood as truth.

As everyone knows, all earthly things are swords and axes of nature;

Affection is nothing more than a pit of death.

When he was the king of Hades, Lao Tzu planned to pay for food, what should he do?

Even if there are gold caves and silver mountains, you can't bring some;

Filial sons and grandsons are incompatible.

Only the sins that fall are with you, and they are all vain.

Why not learn and practice Buddhism when you are strong, so that you can be liberated from birth, old age, sickness, and death as soon as possible?

People live in different ways. One life, one hundred lives. How should people live?

I can't give a standard answer. But I think people should live freely, healthily, and meaningfully. One is at ease.

To be at ease is to be at ease. Under the laws, customs, customs, and customs established in society, they should have their own way of life. Don't be too constrained, don't be too self-forced, or even too conformist to the unit system.

To be comfortable, you have to make some sacrifices, such as not being too ambitious, not having too many career pursuits, and not having too many personal desires. In short, it's an ordinary life. Plain is true, I think it's a good thing to say.

Second, it is called health. The most important thing is the health of a person's life, and it is better to have health than no money. Health is golden, I think it's very well said.

To do this, you have to pay attention to your body, keep exercising, work in moderation, work less, and never be ambitious. Zhuge Liang said that life should be: indifferent and ambitious, quiet and far-reaching.

3. The meaning of life. People live to do things, things that are meaningful to the society, do big things with great ability, do small things with small ability, and do what they can. Students have to study, workers have to work, drivers have to drive good cars, and fathers have to support their families and do their best.

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