The question of weakness and tolerance, tolerance does not represent an instance of weakness

Weakness is: one day you were asking for food, and some big ruffian came up and said, "Boy, you robbed me of my beachhead." So he beat you and robbed you of your money, you only had to endure the beating, and asked him to snatch the money, and said that the uncle rewarded the boy with a rice bowl, so he threw you two coins casually, and you responded with a waist and retracted and started to ask for food again.

This is weakness.

Tolerance is: the big ruffian robs you of your money and beats you, even if you are as thin as a shrimp, you have to defend the money you get from the meal, and after fighting with him a few times, you can't beat him, the big ruffian suddenly finds that you are also a character, the big ruffian stretches out his hand and says, buddy, I'm sorry, you have held the hand of the big ruffian, spit, wipe the blood from your chin, and say, don't fight and don't know each other. That's tolerance.

There are no absolutes in the world, it depends on the relative and what kind of situation. There is no such thing as the best or the worst thing in the world, and it depends on what is relatively related to it.

Whether it's tolerance or weakness, it's someone else's opinion, isn't it? Why care about what others say?

You just think about him, since you're already sorry for you, don't care about everything about him in the future. As long as he doesn't do anything to hurt you, don't care, let alone retaliate.

For example, if he hits you, you feel that you have suffered a lot and you have to take revenge on him. Think about the endless fighting? It's better to pull him down, think that you look down on him and despise him, and don't bird him at all, hehe.

This is not a sign of weakness.

Weakness and tolerance are two words with different meanings: the so-called weakness is like some people in old China before, who were insensitive and indecisive.

Tolerance, on the other hand, means that a person is broad-minded and does not care about past suspicions.

Don't be weak when dealing with most people on the outside, tolerance also requires limits and time, if you give others enough opportunities to change but it doesn't work, then fight back with a stronger attitude.

Different people show different expressions of weakness and tolerance, and in different contexts, the manifestations of weakness and tolerance are different, and at the same time, they can only reflect the ideological characteristics of some people, and cannot be generalized. What is certain is that for a certain type of person, if he or she thinks you are a bully, he will continue to bully you next time; I hope you don't meet or stay away from this kind of person.

There is a family that is very hospitable, and whenever friends come, they prepare good food and wine, and warmly entertain guests until they are drunk. One day an old friend who had been reunited for a long time came to visit, the host washed out, found that the soy sauce was gone when cooking, and urgently called his son to buy it, but the son went for a long time and did not come back, the guest was hungry, and the host was also very anxious, so he wondered if something happened to his son. In the end, the master finally broke down the door to find his son, looked for it over and over again, and suddenly found that his son was standing on the bridge, and another child was in the opposite eye, no one refused to let anyone, holding soy sauce in his hand, the owner was very angry, so he went up and shouted to his son, Why are you waiting for your soy sauce at home, my son didn't move, but he said that when I was about to go home, he blocked my way, and although my son was wronged, he was righteous. The master seems to be enraged, why are you unreasonable, let my son go if the well water does not interfere with the river water, I don't know who is blocking whose way, obviously your son is blocking my way, you still have lira, the child said without showing weakness.

Although this story does not happen often in life, but contradictions exist everywhere, so that contradictions will not be resolved, so we must learn to retreat as advance, learn to tolerate others, tolerance is a desirable attitude towards life, it is this attitude that makes our society more beautiful, so that our family relations become harmonious, interpersonal harmony, is conducive to our physical and mental health.

Tolerance is to let others live, of course, we want the tolerant side to get the reward it deserves: truly realize a step back, the sea and the sky; And not a stupid joke about a farmer and a snake.

Lao Tzu said: "Man is weak in life, but strong in death." "To be tolerant is equivalent to digging one's own grave, and then to get rid of the label of weakness and begin to be called strong.

Here, there is **life and death, but not **long. Tolerance does not mean weakness, and when you are bullied, you must understand that bravery is another kind of tolerance. You know, no one will look up to a weak person, and being strong will make you more dignified and noble.

Tolerance, literally understood is to be tolerant of the heart, and in behavior, tolerance is manifested in the fact that others have made forgivable mistakes, that is, they have not broken the law, but are just small things, and you have forgiven others, which is tolerance. But cowardice refers to the character of a person, and others bully you with unjust means, but you swallow your anger and give in, this is cowardice. Tolerance is worth advocating and learning.

Cowardly, but very undeserved. A cowardly person can't make the climate. So I personally think that tolerance is not cowardice and incompetence!

No, definitely not a sign of weakness!!

Tolerance is a kind of cultivation, a quality, and a virtue. Tolerance is not cowardice and incompetence, but a kind of generosity. To be tolerant, we must learn to be tolerant.

Tolerance is a quality that everyone must have!!

Tolerance is the representative of a good mind and one of the virtues that need to be strengthened the most. In my eyes, optimism, self-motivation and tolerance are inseparable. Put the word "wide" between the eyebrows, not only you are relaxed, but others are also comfortable and natural.

Tolerance is a form of strength, not weakness. Tolerance should be based on retreat and active defense. The concessions embodied in tolerance are purposeful and planned, and the initiative is in one's own hands.

Helplessness and compulsion cannot be regarded as tolerance. The highest state of tolerance is compassion for all beings. With enough patience and attention, even children will be reluctant to listen to you.

Don't nag. Although nagging is a kind of concern. But this excessive attention is often a sign of distrust and can cause resentment.

Before accusing others of being wrong, you should first look for one or more things that you are not doing enough or wrong about the problem. None of the mistakes had nothing to do with them, at least not well guided and supervised. To be tolerant is not to force others when they disagree with you.

Tolerance is not weakness, in fact, now people will be confused, the so-called tolerance, is to forgive the mistakes of others, in fact, the strong is ourselves, but, we have arranged ourselves to a non-strong place, we have to compare our hearts with our hearts, push ourselves and others, do not do to others what we do not want.

Answer: Tolerance of others is not one's own weakness and inability, but a person's open-mindedness, magnanimity, and generosity.

Four tolerances: 1. People with high status should be able to tolerate people with low status.

2. Educated people should be able to tolerate uneducated people.

3. Knowledgeable people should be able to accommodate people with shallow knowledge.

4. People with professional expertise should be able to accommodate people from other professions.

Three nos: 1. Don't blame people for being petty.

2. No privacy.

3. Don't think about people's old evils.

Tolerance refers to treating one's own friends, not to bad people.

Guo Moruo said: "Leniency does not have to be good, fierceness does not have to be evil, only the use of sex." The more fierce and virtuous he is to kill others, and the more lenient and evil he is to indulge in others. This tells us that we must not be tolerant of bad people.

1. Tolerance can accommodate the public.

If the quantity is not wide, it cannot accommodate the public, and if the knowledge is not clear, it is not useful, and it is not long and unbearable.

Heavy, slightly a few deep not for the public.

2. Wide ability to start a business.

The hero of the prosperous entrepreneurial vertical system takes open-mindedness as the first meaning; The heroes of the future who help the needy and save the need, with hard work as the first righteousness.

3. Kuanneng has friends.

Everyone has their faults, just as everyone has their benefits. If you only pay attention to the shortcomings of others, then you will run into enemies everywhere and plunge yourself into the gloom of isolation. If you pay more attention to the good of others, and influence others with compassion and charity, so that they can see their own shortcomings and slowly correct them, you will meet friends who trust you and love you everywhere. Your life will be filled with warmth, peace, and joy.

2. Be forgiving and forgiving.

3. Treat the people with harmony, be lenient with the next, and treat others with forgiveness.

4. Tolerance is not the same as indulgence.

5. When a dispute comes to you, it is best to forbear, so that mildness can close the door to the dispute.

6. Whoever insults his friend in public will have no chance with the afterlife.