Xing Xiuyan s family is poor, why did Aunt Xue still let Xue Zhen marry her?

Aunt Xue likes Xing Xiuyan's character, although her family is ruined, and her parents are also dim-witted in loving money, Xiuyan has a good character and is stable, not a person who dislikes the poor and loves the rich. The Xue family is also a family that is not as good as day by day, and needs a knowledgeable and tenacious daughter-in-law like Xiuyan to preside over internal affairs. knew that his son Xue Pan was a person who loved beauty and would not treat Xiuyan well, so he simply married Xiuyan to his nephew Xue Zhen.

Although Xing Xiuyan's family is poor, her character is unanimously recognized by everyone, and Xing Xiuyan's aunt is Jia Yu's wife, Mrs. Xing, and Aunt Xue asked Xue Zhen to marry Xing Xiuyan because she wanted to marry Jia Fu.

Tie the knot. Xing Xiuyan.

The love with Xue Zhen originated from Aunt Xue's fancy and Jia's mother at first.

matchmaking. Xing Xiuyan, who was born in poverty, is Mrs. Xing's niece, although Mrs. Xing doesn't care much about her mother's family, and she doesn't really love Xing Xiuyan, after all, Xing Xiuyan went all the way to the house, no matter how affectionate Mrs. Xing is, she has to take care of her face.

He left Xing Xiuyan to live in Jiafu Daguan Garden temporarily, during which he was well-looking, elegant and steady, knowledgeable, and had a half-teacher, half-friend, and ten-year neighbor friendship with Xing Xiuyan.

was also invited to live in the Grand View Garden, and Jia's mother learned more about many places where Xing Xiuyan's character was good, and she fell in love with this good girl who was Bingqing and jade.

Coincidentally, Aunt Xue's nephew Xue Zhen accompanied Xue Pan.

The three brothers and sisters of Baochai and Baoqin temporarily lived in Jiafu together. This Xue Zhen is a gentle, loyal, and cultivated rich son. As a result, Xing Xiuyan and Xue Zhen, two young people with good character, met unexpectedly in Jiafu, got acquainted, and were approved by Jia's mother and other parents to act as matchmakers.

In this way, Xing Xiuyan and Xue Zhen were under the guidance of their elders, and they met and fell in love. In "Dream of Red Mansions".

In the last forty times of Gao E's sequel, he finally tied the knot, lived a harmonious and happy life, and achieved a happy marriage.

Since ancient times, there have been no people in the world who do not have power, but some people do it more obviously, some people do it more obscurely, and some people can't have power at all, because their own strength is not good, and they don't have the capital of strength.

Aunt Xue is also a powerful person. Among the four major families, the Xue family ranks last, and their power is not as great as the first three families, and to add insult to injury, Xue Baochai's father has passed away again, and his strength has decreased a lot.

So, what they need at the moment is to increase their strength. Whether it is Xue Baochai or Xue Pan, they have to find a family with a huge family power to marry them to pull themselves aside and save the Xue family that is about to decline. Obviously, Xing Xiuyan did not meet their qualifications.

Xing Xiuyan's road is difficult.

Jia's mother said to Mrs. Xing: "Your niece doesn't have to go home, stay in the garden for a few days, and then go shopping." "Mrs. Xing's brother and sister-in-law's family is difficult in the Central Plains, this time in Beijing, the original battle is that Mrs. Xing and them manage the house and help entangle, don't you want to hear this. ”

But after Aunt Xue saw Xing Xiuyan, she liked her very much, and she was reluctant to see others marry her, so she had to ask for the second best and tell Xing Xiuyan to Xue Ke.

Because Aunt Xue saw that Xing Xiuyansheng was elegant and steady, and her family was poor, she was the daughter of Jing Hai Buyi, so she wanted to say that she was married to Xue Pan. Because Xue Pansu is accustomed to stopping extravagance, he is afraid of ruining other people's daughters. When he was hesitating, he suddenly remembered that Xue Ke was not married, and saw that the two of them were born husband and wife, because of Sister Feng.

Sister Feng sighed: "My aunt knows that our wife is a bit left-handed, so I'm waiting for me to plan this slowly." ”

So, Sister Feng found Jia's mother, and Jia's mother asked her to call Mrs. Xing to protect the mountain. Mrs. Xing also felt that the Xue family had a good foundation, and now that they were rich, Xue Ke was born well, so she would do what she could. Xing Zhong and his wife originally took refuge in Mrs. Xing, and they agreed.

Aunt Xue is very good at talking, she didn't ask Xue Pan for marriage, but for Xue Ke, not because she was afraid of ruining other girls, but because she thought that the Xing family was poor, and the Xing family's parents were not very good. Even Xue Baochai knew that Xing Xiuyan's parents were drunk, and they were normal for their daughters.

In ancient times, the marriage of children depended entirely on the orders of their parents and the words of the matchmaker. What is important is the right family and political marriage. Love is not considered at all. Not to mention Xing Xiuyan, even Lin Daiyu, Aunt Xue will not agree, she also dislikes Lin Daiyu for having no father, no mother, and no foundation.

Xue Pan later found his daughter-in-law Xia Jingui, whose mother's family was terrible, was an imperial businessman, commonly known as the Osmanthus Xia family. That's to have money and money, and to look good. From here, it can be seen that Aunt Xue said that she was afraid of ruining other people's daughters, but she was insincere and not the truth.

In ancient marriages, it was very important to pay attention to the birth and status of the other party. Sister Feng once boasted to Ping'er about Tanchun's ability, and then said a sentence, which means that I don't know which one has not been created in the future, and she will lose a good girl because of her concubine.

Even in the wealthy mansion, due to the difference between the concubine and the concubine, the marriage will also be affected, not to mention Xing Xiuyan, who has a bad family background and wants to take refuge with relatives?

Because Aunt Xue has a more favorite daughter-in-law, she doesn't want her son to marry someone she is not satisfied with. Therefore, he did not let his son marry.

Of course, it was because this Xing girl didn't have a very good background and had no way to bring benefits to their family, so she didn't agree.

Because I don't like it. She didn't like the girl, so she didn't want her son to marry her.

This woman's past is not very clean, and she used to be a companion in the Qinglou, so her mother doesn't want her son to marry her.

Because of the loss of the manuscript after eighty times, we do not know Cao Gong's ending design about Xing Xiuyan and Xue Zhen. In the judgment of the fifth chapter of the twelfth Zhengchai and the woman in the second book, there is no mention of her. It stands to reason that it is good to be given to Xue Zhen, but according to the establishment of the tragic nature of the whole book, it is difficult for them to have a halo of luck on their heads.

Or end up in poverty, life is difficult to support, or illness and early death, it is possible.

Xing Xiuyan and Xue Zhen and Xue Baoqin are the three special existences in "Dream of Red Mansions". Aunt Xue hired Xing Xiuyan to Xue Zhen, and the two became the only fiancée to appear in "Dream of Red Mansions". Many friends are concerned about whether they will be happy in their married life.

I think happiness is not based on wealth, but on the attitude of the two people who work together in their emotions and lives. I think the two of them are happily married!

Let's take a closer look:

1. If you have experienced hardships, you will know how to cherish them.

Xing Xiuyan is a girl who grew up in bitter water. The family was difficult, and the family came to Mrs. Xing. Because Mrs. Xing was greedy, she saved one or two of Xiuyan's monthly silver money to her parents, forcing Xiuyan to pawn clothes to maintain the expenses of Daguanyuan.

Fortunately, Baochai noticed and supported him. Because she was knowledgeable, dignified and steady, she was favored by Aunt Xue, and begged Jia's mother to say that the matchmaker was engaged to her nephew Xue Zhen. Xiuyan has a mentor-friend relationship with Miaoyu of Lucui'an, and is deeply influenced by it, and faces the bitterness and joy of life calmly.

Xue Zhen, due to the death of his father and the illness of his mother, his family was in the middle of the road, and he took his sister Xue Baoqin to Beijing to marry. Defected to Aunt Xue, tried his best to help his aunt's family take care of various affairs, because of his loyalty, honesty, stability and steadfastness, he was deeply valued by Aunt Xue and Baochai, and was engaged to Xing Xiuyan.

Xue and Xing, whose fates and experiences are quite similar, happened to meet in Jiafu and became engaged.

Second, the lessons of the decline of Jiafu are more cherished.

Xue Zhen and Xing Xiuyan have lived in Jiafu for a period of time and have a basic understanding of the situation in Jiafu. Witness Jia Fuyu with your own eyes"Impressive"of"The fire is boiling oil, and the flowers are brocade"becomes"The Kulara building collapsed"the harsh reality; Xue Baochai's admonition to Xiuyan in the Grand View Garden made Xiuyan have a real feeling for Baochai's lifestyle; And Xue Zhen also has a clear understanding of what he saw and heard at his aunt's house. "It is difficult to start a business, and it is even more difficult to keep a business"The reality will make the two people after marriage cherish the hard-won good life more and be more cautious.

3. Xing Xiuyan and Xue Baoqin and others, although they have been in Daguanyuan for a period of time and have intersected with Zhongjinchai, she does not belong"Thin Destiny Division"In the person, therefore, her fate will not be included"Qianhong cried, and Wanyan was sad"Ranks.

Rainbows are always after the storm. I believe that Xiuyan and Xue Zhen will share weal and woe, grow old together, and live a happy life together.

I don't think I will be happy, in that era, few women would be happy, after all, the status of women is too low.

I think I will be happy, because Xue Zhen is a very talented person in Dream of Red Mansions, and he is very good in many ways.

Of course, he is very happy, because Xue Zhen and Xue Baochai's brother are not the same kind of people, he will cherish girls very much, and he will also be very polite and gentlemanly, so the two of them will definitely be very happy.