Can you be sensible to the people you hate?

No, I think it's a big challenge for me to face him.

Yes, if the other party does not touch my bottom line of principles, I will reserve my attitude and treat him with a polite attitude. ‍‍

Yes, I will try to find some strengths or strengths in him and let myself try to accept them.

No. There is a deep sense of disgust that I want to control but can't control.

It depends on how annoying it is. I can't help but roll my eyes when I see it.

With my personality, I should do my job well, ignore their existence, and be a stranger.

If he doesn't pose a big threat to me, I'll just have to get along with them, and if I don't want to offend, I'll just talk less.

Of course, if you can make yourself more tolerant and understand his motivation for making you hateful behavior or attitude, maybe you will feel that his behavior or attitude is forgivable and not so annoying.

When encountering such colleagues in the office, the most they can eat and drink together is to have fun, but they do not talk about any substantive issues, and it is not appropriate to communicate with each other.

Yes, I'm generally more sensible, and even when facing people I hate, I'm more polite and won't let the other person notice.

You need to interact with them with a calm mind and a smile, and no one will refuse to work with someone with a smile on their face.

In a joking way, let him know that his attitude or behavior makes some people around him hate him.

In school, I had a long reading career and experienced too many strange people. Roommates, classmates, teachers, etc., will all have people who upset me. In the past, I would be upset, but then I figured out that staying away from the strange and strengthening myself is the most effective way.

1. In this situation, two people should never have crossed paths again, but one of them suddenly asks for help from the other, and I think he must have encountered difficulties in life. If it weren't for the fact that there was no choice, I don't think anyone would be willing to ask for help from someone who hates them, which is tantamount to trampling their self-wandering ants under their feet.

2. I will help him as much as I can, and I will not harm my own interests. I'm a more emotional person, and if someone asks me for help and is earnest, I think it's hard for me to refuse. But if someone I hate asks me for help, I will subconsciously want to refuse.

But as an adult, I know that the adult world is not easy, and I don't want to hurt the other person too much.

3, I will carefully consider the scope of my ability, to see if there is a conflict of interest between you and myself, whether it is within my ability, in the satisfaction of all the recommendations, I will choose to help Zheng Hong, and if it is beyond my ability or will damage my own interests, I think I will refuse.

It's not that I refuse because I hate it, it's just that after so many years in the adult world, I've long learned to take responsibility for my own life.

It is inevitable that there will be people in life who hate you, who love to laugh at you and belittle you. When the annoying person starts to make noise, let them know that it is not that important. Mori stupid.

First, ignore them. Critical people are usually looking for some kind of response. When you ignore them, they're likely to give up. You don't have to laugh at their jokes; You don't have to defend or respond to yourself.

Second, the unexpected. Someone who wants to sarcastically mock you about the way you dress will pretend to be sincere. When you hear an exaggerated tone say, "The clothes are so beautiful!" You can: "Thank you, I'm glad you liked it." "It forces people who hate us to say what they actually mean or to make concessions.

Third, be brief. "It's good that you make decisions for you, and I can make decisions for myself as well. If the roles were reversed, it would sound like we would both be unhappy. They left immediately.

Fourth, do not argue about the facts. When the people around you say, "You're going to fail."

Them: "yes, it probably won't work. But I liked what I did, and I learned a lot about pure noise.

When you narrate the emotional reasons for doing something, people tend not to attack you.

Fifth, find a group. Those who hate to be spring servants want us to remain the same forever, even at the cost of sacrificing our growth. Go find a circle you like, for example, if you like to draw, go play with an illustrator; If you want to be an actor, you can learn to improvise at a local club.

If you don't deal with it right, you can only swallow your anger and survive in the cracks.

If there is a way to solve the problem, I will tell you and I will try,

It is inevitable that there will be people who hate you in life, and they love to laugh at you and belittle you. When the annoying person starts to make noise, let them know that it is not that important. First, ignore them.

Critical people are usually looking for some kind of response. When you ignore them, they're likely to give up. You don't have to laugh at their jokes; You don't have to defend or respond to yourself.

Second, the unexpected. Someone who wants to sarcastically mock you about the way you dress will pretend to be sincere. When you hear an exaggerated tone say, "The clothes are so beautiful!" You can: "Thank you, I'm glad you liked it." "It forces people who hate us to say what they actually mean or to make concessions.

Third, be brief. "It's good that you make decisions for you, and I can make decisions for myself as well. If the roles were reversed, it would sound like we would both be unhappy.

They left immediately. Fourth, do not argue about the facts. When the people close to you say:

You're going to lose. They: Sen stupid "yes, it probably won't work.

But I love what I do and I learn a lot. When you narrate the emotional reasons for doing something, people tend not to attack you. Fifth, find a group.

The hateful want us to remain the same forever, even if pure quarrel comes at the expense of our growth. Go find a circle you like, for example, if you like to draw, go play with an illustrator; If you want to be an actor, you can learn to improvise at a local club.

It is inevitable that there will be people in life who hate you, who love to laugh at you and belittle you. When the annoying person starts to make noise, let them know that it is not that important. Mori stupid.

First, ignore them. Critical people are usually looking for some kind of response. When you ignore them, they're likely to give up. You don't have to laugh at their jokes; You don't have to defend or respond to yourself.

Second, the unexpected. Someone who wants to sarcastically mock you about the way you dress will pretend to be sincere. When you hear an exaggerated tone say, "The clothes are so beautiful!" You can: "Thank you, I'm glad you liked it." "It forces people who hate us to say what they actually mean or to make concessions.

Third, be brief. "It's good that you make decisions for you, and I can make decisions for myself as well. If the roles were reversed, it would sound like we would both be unhappy. They left immediately.

Fourth, do not argue about the facts. When the people around you say, "You're going to fail."

Them: "yes, it probably won't work. But I liked what I did, and I learned a lot about pure noise.

When you narrate the emotional reasons for doing something, people tend not to attack you.

Fifth, find a group. Those who hate to be spring servants want us to remain the same forever, even at the cost of sacrificing our growth. Go find a circle you like, for example, if you like to draw, go play with an illustrator; If you want to be an actor, you can learn to improvise at a local club.

First of all, I want to emphasize that people with high emotional intelligence don't try to silence people who hate them. People with high emotional intelligence usually do not deliberately hurt others or challenge their authority, but will respect and accept different views and opinions.

However, if you meet someone who hates you, here are some tips that may be useful:

Listen to the other person: Sometimes, people who hate us may feel upset or upset for some reason. As people with high emotional intelligence, we should learn to listen and understand each other's words, and try to find out what they are asking and needing.

Don't respond aggressively: When we are attacked by someone we hate, it's easy for Hera to get angry and stressed, leading us to act irrationally. Instead, we should remain calm, not respond aggressively, and look for more effective ways to deal with the problem.

Look for common ground: Even if we have a disagreement with someone, there may be some common ground or opportunities for collaboration. Instead of focusing on differences, we can try to find these common ground and build connections and trust through them.

Set clear boundaries: When the other person's words or actions cross our boundaries, we need to set clear boundaries and stand firm for our rights. This meditation does not mean that we should be malicious towards others, but we should protect ourselves from any form of aggression.

In conclusion, people with high emotional intelligence are usually more attentive and respectful to others than trying to silence others or challenge their authority. If you meet someone who hates you, you can take the above steps to deal with the problem in a more rational, mature, and kind way.