Why doesn t the current girlfriend mind the ex girlfriend

Updated on psychology 2024-06-13
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Regarding the issue of ex, men and women are the same, and after falling in love again, they will mind that the other party can't forget their ex. Because men and women want unique love, they all want each other to have only themselves in their hearts, once the other party has the ex in their hearts, the current one will be very crazy, even if they don't show it on the surface, they still mind in their hearts.

    It's unrealistic to completely forget about your ex, but you can choose not to, you don't want to, you don't show it, and the current doesn't go crazy about it. This needs everyone's attention, if you can't let go of your ex, then be single first and don't go to the harm of others.

    Your girlfriend should like you too much, and she is afraid of losing you, so she says she doesn't mind your ex-girlfriend, so treat her well.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Because the current girlfriend is a confident girl, she knows that she must have the advantages and advantages that her ex-girlfriend does not have, besides, the ex-girlfriend is already a passerby is history, and there is a good present, which boy still reviews history and ignores the present?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Because sometimes everyone cares about things differently, there is no need to think too complicated, and you should take it seriously in life.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't you mind if it's good, what do you think? It's either that they don't mind or don't care about you, there are a lot of girls who don't like to care about your past, they see more of your present and future. Because that's what it's about her, your ex-girlfriend is your past and has nothing to do with her, so why care.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The current girlfriend doesn't mind the ex-girlfriend, that's because the ex-girlfriend has disappeared from her boyfriend's life, that was all before, and now it's the two of them together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1.may be a sane woman herself, who can afford to take it and put it down; 2.may not care about you personally, and the feelings invested are not deep enough; 3, it is also possible that she is an assertive person who only cares about what she wants to get.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Some people can think outside and don't mind your past and past. I think you should cherish the present, not the things of the past. Those things are in the past, or maybe it's a good state of mind.

    Or maybe it's forcing yourself not to care. Or, he's pretty good himself. So I didn't take it to heart at all.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This shows that he still knows you well. It shows that his personality is still relatively cheerful. The judgment of things is still relatively measured.

    The main thing is that he knows how to empathize. So he'll have an idea of how you feel. I have enough faith in you.

    I hope you will take it seriously and make sure to take this opportunity well.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because it's the ex-girlfriend who replaced her current girlfriend, she is the winner, so she doesn't mind and doesn't get angry.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This should be a sign of a person's maturity. Always entangled in the past, there is no way for such people to see the future. The future needs to be run by the two of you together. Looking at tomorrow and recalling the past, this is what a smart person should do.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It shows that your girlfriend cares more about you and doesn't mind your ex-girlfriend, because he knows that his ex-girlfriend is in the past.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The current girlfriend doesn't mind your ex-girlfriend. He is confident and better than his ex-girlfriend.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    That's why she loves you!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    has a big heart, has self-confidence, or has an ex-boyfriend, and it is flat.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It can only show that the mentality is better now, why bother with those? Because now that you are together, you should learn to forget the past feelings and not worry about them.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Have self-confidence, since you are your current girlfriend, why care about a person who has become a thing of the past!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Why mind your ex-girlfriend, it's all in the past, as long as you don't overdo it, the rest is acceptable.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because he doesn't love you or he's pot-bellied.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In fact, this problem can be said to be a problem for the ages, if you don't confess, the girl will feel that you are an unforgettable old love; If you confess, this is undoubtedly not a proposition to send rubber, and there will be endless troubles in the future.

    There is a case around me, there is a young man who was in love with his girlfriend, and told all the details of his past, including what they did together, what they ate, and what scenery they saw when they were in love.

    But later, the two of them still didn't go to the end, for example, when the boy cooked for the girl, the girl would remember that the boy would also cook for his ex-girlfriend before, and then he was angry.

    After a long time, no matter how good the relationship is, it can't withstand speculation and doubt.

    After all, no current person likes to listen to your past memories and the merits of your ex, what you have done with your ex, what you have experienced together, and don't be too specific about these details.

    Chances are, your confession will wipe out all the trust you've built up in your relationship.

    Don't distort the facts about the past love history, don't deceive, don't deliberately conceal it, don't pretend to cover it up, be frank and honest, just love it truthfully.

    Be honest with every relationship, but you don't have to tell it all and confess everything.

    In fact, we all have to allow our other half to have one or that few people in our hearts before we met you, and allow them to love each other, even if they once loved each other, even if they once loved to death. Sometimes we are often unhappy in our relationships, in fact, a big reason is that we hold on to the past, but completely forget that the scenery in front of us is actually better and better.

    Don't dwell on the past, don't stick to the past, and wave and confess to the past, in order to embrace a better tomorrow together.

    Just like Liang Sicheng asked Lin Huiyin: "There is a saying, I only ask you once, and I will never ask again in the future, why me?" Lin Huiyin replied: "The answer is very long, I have to spend my life to you." ”

    Yes, maybe your past, I can't get involved, but I hope that my present and future, you are not absent.

    Someone who truly loves you will accept everything you have in the past and will also cherish your present and future. Cherish meeting each other and face the problems in life together

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Everyone has a past, but if the other person has a past in their hearts, they care. As long as the past is not a problem, I don't think there is any need to care, the past is over, and I have a past, will the other party also care?

    When two people are together, the important thing is the present and the future, if the other party has already let go of the past, why should they be obsessed with it and use things that have nothing to do with themselves to affect the present and the future. I think I should look at my own and each other's past objectively. If I love him very much, I won't care about his past, because his past has nothing to do with me, I care about his present and future, as long as he truly loves me.

    If one day, I know that he is still in close contact with his ex-girlfriend, it will be difficult for me to leave without looking back, because I don't want to be with a person who betrays love slowly and has no bottom line, which is the biggest insult to me.

    What I want is his person, his character, and his future! People are not saints and sages, especially when they are young, they are full of enthusiasm, sometimes they can't grasp themselves, they make mistakes, they recognize it, they have changed, and they are still good comrades! Since it comes to this issue, the other party has this person in his heart, and at this time he must be optimistic about this person's character, which is the key.

    It's easy to say, but there's not much that can really be done. When the two of them are sweet, they can't feel it, but once there is a conflict, they just wait to turn over the old accounts. Love is selfish and domineering, because love is more than in the past because it cares, which is normal, just don't be endless, the other party thinks once or twice that you are still very happy because you care, but there are too many times to tease, and when you are tired, you don't want to explain anymore.

    I don't think this is what everyone wants to see, because it is a lifelong regret to lose the people who should be cherished in the past.

    Therefore, I personally feel that the past of the other party is not important, but the present and the future are important.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It depends on whether you have a certain amount of trust with your girlfriend, if you trust each other, then you should completely feel at ease and understand her past, and don't mind that she has an ex-boyfriend, on the contrary, if there is a lack of trust between you, then you may have to mind that she has an ex-boyfriend.

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