Nowadays, couples don t always feel like a family, what is the reason?

More and more people feel that couples don't seem to have a sense of family anymore, although they share the same bed every day, but there is still an invisible barrier in the seemingly intimate relationship that prevents each other from going deep into each other's hearts, and this so-called "barrier" is actually the "culprit" that couples don't feel like a family.

Of course, before we can figure this out, we must first understand what it feels like to be a "family", which is a kind of intimacy.

It is also an emotional bond. It is full of trust and care, allowing relatives to live as a whole, which is a reference to the ancient blood relationship.

response. It is precisely because the invisible "barrier" breaks this intimate connection, cuts off the emotional bond between each other, and makes the husband and wife no longer trust each other, so they cannot become a whole and become an ideal family. What are the reasons for this barrier?

Because husband and wife can't reconcile with each other, they naturally can't establish an intimate relationship. Usually there are various conflicts with each other because of their incompatible personalities, but no one is willing to let anyone, which eventually leads to more and more conflicts, which in turn affects the stability of the marriage. How can two people like this, who quarrel at every turn, look like enemies to outsiders, how can they feel like a family?

Although the problem of incompatible personalities exists at any time, the generation of ancient couples and grandparents can still live well, which shows that the ideology is still different. Modern society advocates the emancipation of individuality, everyone begins to pay more attention to self-feeling, they no longer marry for the sake of marriage, so they cannot make compromises in the process of getting along with husband and wife, which is why personality problems have become so prominent.

Sometimes the emotional bond between husband and wife will also be severed by interests, which is typical of the pension problem of two families. Due to the higher cost of living, the pressure to provide for the elderly is becoming more and more difficult, and it is even more difficult for couples who have to take care of two families. At this time, it will inevitably involve the distribution of interests, because everyone wants to be better to their parents, this invisible estrangement will naturally cut off the emotional ties that belong to the family.

Nowadays, men and women are very realistic, especially men, he may marry you, perhaps to satisfy a variety of selfish desires, such as someone to help him manage the family, help him give birth to a baby, not because he loves you.

Because everyone is very busy, they don't have time to focus on each other, they are busy doing their own things, and now the appearance of mobile phones makes everyone have time to pay attention to the content on the mobile phone, and no longer care about the members of the family, so there is such a feeling.

The reason may be because the pressure of life is too great now, both husband and wife have to go to work, and there is no time to clean up the house, no time to fall in love, and no time to cook, so I feel that there is no feeling of family.

It may be because two people are unwilling to communicate with each other, and they are not willing to give their love in the family, so there is no sense of family.

Husband and wife are the two people who have been together for the longest time in the world, and perhaps no one can stay with you for so long. Husband and wife, who are a stroke of the human word, need to support each other and support each other, and face the ups and downs of life hand in hand, such husbands and wives are happy!

If there are no such 3 feelings between husband and wife, it means that your relationship has faded, and marriage has become a makeshift life!

1.Worried, worried. As the two people with the closest relationship, it is natural for husband and wife to care about each other.

This care is often reflected in the little things of daily life, such as care, care, help, and so on. There is a special concern, and that is worrying about worry! When one spouse goes on a business trip, goes far away, or does not return home very late, the other spouse must naturally be worried and worried, afraid that something will happen, and will show great anxiety and worry.

If the husband and wife don't care about this, they don't care about it, it can only mean that this person who shares the bed with them has no weight in your heart, and if you don't worry, you don't care, and if you don't care, it proves that the love has faded and the fate will be dispersed!

2.It's hard to leave. After the baptism of marriage, couples often have the numb experience of "holding the right hand with the left hand" after a long time, and they seem to be very tired of the other half who gets along with them day and night.

If your other half is away from home, away from home for a long time, or on a business trip to study for a long time, there is still a faint sadness in your heart, and there is an indescribable inseparability. This shows that the relationship between husband and wife is very deep, and the love is very real and mellow.

If one of the husband and wife does not care about the distance from each other, and even shows great excitement, and the face is filled with a happy smile of "free and pure", then it means that the relationship between the husband and wife has really undergone subtle changes.

3.Heartache heartache. Marriage is the transformation of two people of the opposite sex who love each other into relatives who are not related by blood.

Yes, too much of the love of couples will eventually be replaced and covered by family affection. This kind of family affection is also the strongest motivation to maintain the marriage and become the pillar of the marriage. When one spouse is unwell and hospitalized, or suffers from an unfortunate illness or accidental injury, the other spouse often shows great distress and sorrow.

This is the expression of love, the language of love. What's more, I will fantasize in my heart how good it would be if I could replace the pain of the other party!

Love is not only about making the other person happy, but when the other person is facing misfortune, they tend to be more sad and heartbroken. If your partner does not show the above behavior about what happened to you, or even does not care about you and does not take care of you, then it means that he (she) has little affection left for you. Marriage is just a shell of two people making do with life.