Do you all quarrel, why quarrel?

Are you just starting out in a relationship? If it's like this at the beginning, it's definitely not good. Because the early stage of a relationship is when both parties show their best side to each other and the relationship is not deep enough to quarrel, they generally do not quarrel at every turn, but are courteous to each other.

And if your relationship has made some progress and given a certain certainty, then the possessiveness of both parties will definitely increase accordingly, so that it is easy to have disputes on some small issues. And when you are more familiar with each other, you feel that you have the qualifications to "manage" each other or it is easier to ask each other in your own way. And if the other party can't achieve it, they will feel that the other party may not value themselves.

So they will argue over trivial matters. (Think about the fact that we don't care too much with our friends in general, but we worry about our family or partner for the same reason, because we value each other.)

In fact, we quarrel because we all think that our starting point must be good, but in fact, we forget that everyone is an independent individual and has their own way of thinking, and we don't think about whether this is the right way for the other person to accept it. Only the right fit is the best.

And in fact, quarrels are sometimes not a bad thing, and we can know each other's true thoughts from quarrels (because unscrupulous words may also be sincere). Only by valuing each other that these words that are not usually sweet words can we really understand each other. Understanding each other is also to understand yourself from an angle, so that you can change each other to adapt to each other more and reduce the number of quarrels.

As long as you cherish each other more after a quarrel, an occasional small quarrel is also pleasant.

Mutual understanding and humility to each other.

The beginning of love is like the run-in period of a car.

Slowly it will get better.

If that's the case, you'll be done with her after you marry her, and you'll have to rely on him for everything in order not to quarrel, can you stand it?

It's usually noisy, but it's not too fierce. It's all a joke.

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The specific way to improve intimacy is simple, but the vast majority of people can't do it.

Why do people keep fighting in the family?

It is because when you find that the other party ignores a certain kind of relationship of yours, you will immediately cause the pain of your childhood, that is, in the early years, you subconsciously suffered such a injury, and the other party's behavior towards you today reminds your subconscious of your childhood memories.

You're willing to quarrel over such a trivial matter, why?

Because arguing is much simpler than bearing heartbreak, no one wants to bear heartbreak often in life, this feeling of heartbreak, turning over the river and taking out the pain of childhood, that feeling is very bad, we would rather solve it with anger.

The first condition for improving all relationships is to heal yourself first, if conditions permit, leave professional things to professional people, don't listen to those nosy people talk about a bunch of big truths, that's called adding blockage.

Some people rely on their own childhood, and some people rely on their lifelong childhood.