How to thank outsiders for wearing longevity clothes for their old people?

The old man passed away, when the children must be very sad, about the issue of wearing shrouds for the elderly, the customs of each place are different, there are great differences, we here in the countryside are generally in the family died, sick hospitalization is not good, most of them are a few days in advance to pick up, when the old man looks bad, the children of the children or the clan will change the clothes for the old man in advance, usually will not look for outsiders to help, after all, after the old man left, The first person who knew about this was his family relatives, and the shrouds were bought in advance, so of course the people around him wore the shrouds for the elderly.

How to thank outsiders for wearing longevity clothes for their old people? The subject can ask this question, it can be seen that he is a very thoughtful and meticulous person, a friend helped you put on a birthday coat for your old man, the subject felt that he did not forget it, thinking about how to thank his friend, it is enough to prove that the subject is a person with people.

My advice to the subject is that in terms of how to thank friends, you should start with your local customs, for example, you can refer to your village and your town, others have similar situations to you, how they do it, you can follow their practice, you can express your gratitude more solemnly, but you must not be less, after all, there are lessons from the past, if you are not as good as others, then you will definitely end up with a tongue.

Carefully speaking, after the old man leaves, if it is inconvenient for him, and his relatives do not wear longevity clothes for the elderly, then at this time a friend can stand up and help you dress the old man, then this person is definitely a good person, after all, in the face of the dead, most of us actually have a certain taboo in our hearts, their relatives do not wear, a friend helps, it is enough to show that the relationship between this friend and you is definitely not bad, this is not a matter that more money and less money can solve the problem, After all, many people are very taboo about this.

Take our customs here as an example, if your relatives have passed away, we need to go to worship and participate in the banquet, if you need to borrow someone else's vehicle at this time, remember that as long as it is not your own vehicle, even if it is in the family, we also want to express a thank you, generally give 5 yuan and ten yuan mostly, no one will care how much money you give, even if you give one yuan will not be too little, this is mainly a taboo a custom issue, You can't borrow anything from others for no reason in the funeral.

The subject can choose to invite a friend to a meal, or pay the other party some money, and tell him that this is the rule, not to pay you money, this is respect for friends, and it should be noted that you should never send you things to thank the other party, especially sending clothes, which is also taboo.

In our rural areas in Northeast China, if outsiders wear longevity clothes for their elderly, they can't wear them in vain, and they must give outsiders some money as a thank you, and the amount is given according to their own family conditions.

This depends on what you think, or according to your own ability, and the relationship between two people, you can send some gifts to express your gratitude, or you can invite dinner to express your gratitude.

You can send some fruit and a letter, so that it can be solved very well, and that person will be especially grateful after receiving it.

Summary. My uncle didn't wear a birthday coat for my father-in-law and mother-in-law because it was not in accordance with the rules. Because after the death of this rural old man, who wears a shroud is a matter of exquisiteness, and not just anyone can wear it.

After the death of an elderly person, it is generally worn by a close person, preferably by an immediate family member. If you can't wear it, you can find someone who specializes in wearing shrouds.

The scumbag is not bad, such as wearing a birthday coat for her father-in-law and mother-in-law because she is not in accordance with the rules. Because after the death of this rural old man, who wears a shroud is a matter of exquisiteness, and not just anyone can wear it. After the death of the elderly, it is generally worn by close people, and it is best to wear it by the immediate family members of Liang Qi.

If you can't wear it, you can find someone who specializes in wearing shrouds.

The introduction of the shroud, the clothes of the deceased, refers to the clothes worn for the deceased, the elderly will do a good job of wearing the clothes after death Xiaoqiao, known as the shroud, meaning health and longevity. In modern times, more Westernized families will crown their ancestors with the fashion they chose or wore during their lifetime in place of shrouds. Shroud is understood in a broad sense, and there are countless varieties, and family members can choose various styles according to their needs, except for fabrics that are easy to cause pollution.

The wrapping of the corpse, shaped like a cloak, is woven with silk and satin fabrics, embroidered with auspicious patterns such as flowers, insects and fish, and birthday stars, and is worn on the outermost layer of the deceased. Shrouds include clothes, pants, and skirts. There are long shirts, short jackets, horse coats, cheongsams, etc., and there are underwear, middle clothes, outerwear, pants and skirts are long, short and all kinds of Chinese and Western different styles.

Summary. Hello, who wears the shroud after the death of the old man is related to the gender of the old man. As we all know, the Chinese are extremely particular about funeral etiquette.

Under normal circumstances, if the elderly person is a man, the shroud should be worn by his children after his death. However, if the elderly person is a woman, the shroud should be worn by the daughter or daughter-in-law. If the elderly person has only one son or daughter in his lifetime, the remaining wife and his immediate family members should be responsible for wearing the longevity clothes.

Hello, who wears the shroud after the death of the old man is related to the gender of the old man. As we all know, the Chinese are extremely particular about funeral etiquette. Under normal circumstances, if the old man is a man, the shroud should be worn by his children after his death.

However, if the elderly person is a woman, the shroud should be worn by the daughter or daughter-in-law. If the old man has only one son or daughter in his life, the old man should be responsible for the rest of his wife and his immediate family to wear the shroud.

Content Expansion: 1. Unmarried children cannot be close to the shroud In most cases, the shroud of the deceased old man is worn by his children. But there is an exception, that is, if the son or daughter of the old man is not married, that is, he has no husband or wife, he must not get close to the shroud, let alone help his father or mother put on the shroud, which is very important for the Chinese spinal sparrows.

There are many things about wearing a shroud, in addition to the person in charge of wearing a shroud, how many shrouds to wear is also extremely important. The shroud worn for the deceased must be singular, due to the fact that the traditions of the netherworld are different from those of the yang realm. In the Yang Realm, it is believed that good deeds must appear in even numbers to be considered truly auspicious.

The netherworld is often the opposite of the yang, so everything is singular for people in the netherworld. Therefore, if you wear a shroud to the deceased, it is the most auspicious to wear a single piece. In addition, when dressing a shroud for the elderly, one must pay attention to covering the hands of the deceased with the sleeves of the shroud.

This is due to the fact that if the sleeves of the shroud do not cover the hands of the deceased, then it is believed that the deceased will be unclothed and the reincarnated old man will live a more miserable life. There is another way of saying that only when the hands of the old man are completely covered can the old man be considered truly decent. Second, the shroud can not be buttoned Many people have not observed the shroud and do not understand the special features of the shroud and ordinary clothes in addition to the use.

Looking closely at the closed field, one can see that there are no buttons on the shroud. This is due to the fact that the folk are particular about it, buttons can not be used on the shroud, and the cloth strips of the same color need to be used to fix the shroud. It is believed that the meaning of a strip of cloth or a strap is more auspicious than that of a button.

According to traditional Chinese culture and customs, the following people are not allowed to wear shrouds to the elderly:1Son-in-law:

Because the son-in-law is not the biological son of the old man in the traditional concept, he cannot wear a shroud to the old man. 2.Pregnant women:

Because pregnant women have fetal gas in their bodies, wearing a shroud will pass the fetal gas to the elderly, which is considered unlucky in traditional culture. 3.Bereavement:

Because the mourner is to prepare for the funeral of the deceased family member, wearing a longevity coat for the elderly can feel a little ominous. 4.Sick people:

Because sick people are not in good health, wearing shrouds will make Shouqin people feel unlucky. The file is finished.