How I forgot my first relationship, it hurts

Seeing your problem, I thought of my first relationship, due to a series of reasons such as relatively simple and naïve and distance, etc., and finally broke up, and the next six months were dark for me, often left alone, I felt that the world was gloomy, and it was indeed he who hurt me, and there was no one who cried secretly...

Later, at school, I saw that my classmates were happy, but I, who lived in the gloom all day long, was this how my life would ever be? I took a leave of absence to travel alone for a week, and during that week I figured out a lot of things, including my love life and so on... When I went back to school, I started to smile on my face, and I wanted to be happy, because he hurt himself, so why should I have to bear this pain all the time?

To be strong, to be happy, then I met my current boyfriend on the table tennis court, his humor, his carefulness touched me very much, next Thursday is the third anniversary of my relationship with him, hehe...

Having said so much, in fact, I want to tell you that he is not the only one in the world who is all you have, there are many people who are worthy of your concern, and it is not a bad thing to experience a failed relationship, at least it will make you understand a lot. With the passage of time, I believe that everything will pass, and when you look at it many years later, this may also be a small fragment worth remembering in your youth! Pay more attention to the people around you, starting a new relationship may allow you to heal quickly...

I hope you will be happy and happy soon!

In fact, time will dilute everything, and the heartache is inevitable now, but I always believe that waiting is just because I haven't found the next suitable person, and I can find a better one by waving the wrong one! You'll meet even better!

It's best not to rush into starting a new relationship, often treating the other person as a substitute for the previous one, which is not good for both parties.

In fact, you don't have to deliberately forget it, it will slowly fade.

It'll be fine after a while, time smooths everything.

Don't always think about that relationship, and the past will not come back, and deal with your feelings calmly.

Keep his or her memories and small gifts locked in a box and come back in a few months to see them with less sadness.

Time is the best medicine for emotional wounds, so let's hang out with friends more when you have time! You'll forget a little faster.

Judging from the description you give, you may be more deeply invested in her and his feelings, and you have paid more, and people are injured and made.

Become your unforgettable power, it may hurt you more when you are separated!

However, the past is the past, and the past cannot be turned back, and there is no regret medicine in the future world, so the present is as you said, how can you come out of it is very important?

I think you should come out, the birthday star is going to find a job with a high interest in you to divert your attention, and resolve your people at work, this pain, as the saying goes, turn grief into strength!

The second is to strengthen learning, this kind of learning can improve one's ability through ** or computer, mobile phone and other aspects of interpersonal communication, well, improve one's quality in all aspects, so as to avoid being injured again in the future.

Of course, as the saying goes, you will grow wise, I think you have learned a lot of lessons and gained a lot of experience through this incident, and this will be used in your future life and work.

Anyway? It's good that you're aware of this problem now, but if you don't realize it often, you'll get deeper and deeper in the future, and this time it's getting more and more harmful.

Don't choose to forget, just let him be a scar in your life, and use it to warn yourself in the future, don't go down in pain, but face your future life with a smile, think about it, your life is still very long, don't be heartbroken, because losing an imperfect relationship does not mean that you have lost everything, we still have a lot of dreams, don't you? Try to accept another relationship, maybe he will be better off now.

Feelings are self-inflicted, and most people don't have them.

She didn't stop when she felt the most, so she didn't have to look back to find the feelings scattered on the ground after walking that part of the road together, the road was over.

The saddest moment in love is the coldness in the later stage, a person who once loved you, suddenly far away from you, a stone's throw away, but the end of the world. Once vigorous, once a thousand turns, once complacent, once soft...

Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

In fact, this has always been the shadow in your own heart, really, I have felt this way too! The happiness factor is only how you love someone, not how to forget a person, if she can really find someone who loves herself, maybe you will not be so melancholy, but I know that you are still uncomfortable in your heart, in fact, everyone is the protagonist, we should learn to take care of ourselves in order to be happy!

Thank you! All I can say is that you are friends and strangers! Some people say that time forgets everything, but in fact, time is the test of everything!

If you still can't let go of your heart, I can only say that you are not mature, if you are really relieved, then maybe you yourself will understand what feelings are! Actually, you can try to exercise yourself and wish you happiness at the end! People are inherently kind, but there are too many societies and edification!

Not being able to forget is the proof that your love is present and profound, don't deliberately forget, don't indulge in pain for a long time, everyone.

Have your own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by along the way, every relationship and every experience everyone is a mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future

Don't say anything, if he's happy, you'll be happy. Happiness is all your own. It's true that you're happy. Don't be unhappy for someone who can make you unhappy.

Don't think about it, the person you love will never be forgotten for a lifetime. It's just that with the passage of time, his memories are buried deep in the heart like tea leaves, and there is no feeling of love or pain at the beginning, only the experience of regret or enlightenment! Everyone will experience such pain to a greater or lesser extent, just so that we can learn how to love, so that we can know how to love the real right person when we meet him!

Let us be like butterflies out of the cocoon, go through the soul washing again and again, and finally grow!

Cherish the present and live today!

Do something you like, try not to think about it

Or just think about it thoroughly

Brave face, real solution

One is to escape, the other is to face, which is feasible?

People say that there will always be a day in the life of a man (woman) who will meet a woman (man) who can change him, but you haven't met it, don't worry.

When you meet that girl, you can't help but think of the girl or boy you're talking about as if you're a passerby.

When time passes, we forget that we once loved a person without hesitation, forgot his tenderness, and forgot everything he did for my friend's spine. I don't have any feelings for him anymore, I don't love him anymore.

Why is this happening?

It turns out that our love has been lost to the years.

First of all, love makes you forget time, and then time makes you forget love, so no matter how much you love the person you love, you will slowly forget him as time goes by, and I wish you happiness.

It's hard to completely forget someone you've loved so much.

can only be paired with socks and slowly diluted over time, although I will still think of her after a long time. But your heart won't hurt so much, you go listen to some sad love songs.

Maybe I'll feel better, and then I'll think about it.

Ta, leave me.

It's that he doesn't know how to cherish it, and he will regret it in the future, so he comforts himself like this.

What you have experienced, you can only seal it in your heart, as an eternal memory, be strong, some people say that loving someone does not have to be with him, as long as he is happy, it is really difficult to do this, I don't seem to know if you can do this cultivation point, this is also a comfort to yourself, don't deliberately forget him, because.

You think about forgetting while you also think about it

Every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity, and you will only mature when you experience it, these are all things that people have to encounter in their lives, and the road of life is inherently bumpy. There is no such thing as wishful thinking, and all you have to do now is to cross this hurdle.

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!