How did you spend the first 4 months of your lovelorn?

How else can you get by?

The first month, of course, is about memories, missing, pain, but also inevitably crying, not wanting to do anything, sleeping, numbing yourself, crying at every turn, and you don't need to be comforted, and you don't want anyone to mention it.

The second month is better, you can eat, sleep, work or study normally, you can talk to someone, and you will occasionally smile.

In the third month, my interest gradually recovered, and I usually like to watch TV, surf the Internet, exercise, and listen to songs. These hobbies have occupied a certain degree in your life again, and you are no longer shy about talking about her with friends.

In the fourth month, it seems that I can face this lost relationship correctly, only occasionally I will touch the scene and hurt her, and I will think of her, but it should only be a faint regret, a faint sadness.

Then, you'll be all set.

Hehe, I was my first love after the college entrance examination, and it was okay at that time, the college entrance examination was not bad.

The first week or two was very decadent, thinking about a lot of things all day, and playing the game I wanted to play the most in the past.

Then there is the crazy Zhao himself confiding in his friends, which is the most effective way!

Slowly, the pain lessened, and after a year, I got better

Believe me, time can solve all problems, but before it is solved, it may be very painful Friend, hold on!

Do what I like to do the most, forget all my worries, when I fell out of love, I played games online all night, played in the dark, slept when I was tired, ate instant noodles when I was hungry, indulged for a week, and then started a new relationship again.

Don't always be immersed in pain, you can find another one to transfer feelings, but declare in advance, be sure to be optimistic, find the right one, don't be blind, it will soon pass.

You have to believe in fate, the relationship between two people is to love each other with their hearts to be happy, if you don't love it, don't force it.

I wish you a speedy liberation from pain and find your own true happiness.

From the beginning of the relationship to the fall out of love, I just went through 4 months, very sweet over, the breakup is also expected We studied in two places with each other, there can be no better ending, so everyone is willing to break up with each other, but those days are worth missing, I still miss her.

Falling out of love is an experience that everyone has had, and I just ended a 4-year relationship, there is always pain, but no matter what the reason, you have to be kind to yourself, don't torture your already painful heart in various ways, you have to make your life better, not only prove it to her, but also prove your own courage, be strong.

Try to make yourself not want that person. Pretend to be happy. It's over, it's fine. It's okay. It's just that I'm out of love, the sky hasn't fallen, and life is going on. Come on, it will pass.

Four months? I looked at everything for two weeks after the breakup.

Can't help you. Why break up if you can't hope for it?

Find a life that can free you from this trouble, or live every day in decadence

Enrich yourself and don't think about how wrong you were before, there is no point in doing so. Believe that tomorrow will be better.

Work hard and numb yourself.

Since you choose to break up, let yourself live happily and don't think about the past.

Enrich yourself and believe that tomorrow will be better.

You have to live happily and you have to live unhappy, why don't you spend every day happily.

Of course, if you live to the past, you can't die

Find someone to fall in love again! Forget the past, forget the pain.

You can live it however you want.

4 months before the breakup, was there no love at that time?

How can you spend it.

Whether it's a boy or a girl? Most of them will experience a breakup, which is particularly painful, feeling abandoned by the whole world, especially desperate, and even having a ......nervous breakdown

The hardest thing about falling out of love is the three months just after breaking up, the whole person is very decadent, and he has completely lost confidence in life, and even washes his face with tears every day, constantly asking himself, what is wrong with me? Why should she (he) leave himself?

In the month when I just fell out of love, I felt that the sky was gray every day, without a trace of bright color, I was particularly depressed mentally, I couldn't see the future and direction, and my mind was particularly depressed.

Emotions often collapse, and a little thing will make a big move, crying and laughing, making others feel inexplicable, and they can't control themselves, falling into extreme self-blame and self-torture.

The second month of broken love is the torment period, and I often can't help but think of the good times between two people, and I am often immersed in that situation and can't extricate myself. I can't tell whether it's reality or illusion, and I always feel that the other party is still by my side.

I want to catch the other party, but I can't catch it, I want to give up, but I can't give up.

took the initiative to contact the other party, but did not get any response, the heart was like a hundred claws scratching the heart, the fire was burning, as if it was roasted on the fire, and I was extremely anxious all day long, especially dazed. This stage is the hardest time, and some people will make some particularly extreme moves, and even frighten the people around them.

The third month of broken love is the numbness period, and slowly accept the result of falling out of love in my heart, although my heart hurts, but it seems that I have tolerated it, and I am more numb, and I start working and studying.

Attention slowly came out of that pain point, felt the weight of life, tried to let go of a lot of pain in my heart, to focus on my work and study, hoping to make some achievements and comfort myself.

In the most painful stage, no one can replace themselves, they can only slowly mature, let themselves slowly break out of the cocoon into a butterfly, and come out step by step.

Falling out of love is the hardest thing to endure, and this time is mainly about adjusting your mentality.

Love is indeed a very important ingredient in life. Falling out of love, to say that you are completely nostalgic all of a sudden, it is really unlikely, unless you have not been distracted.

However, we can try not to define love as life or the whole of life.

Without this period of love, is life really unable to function? As it turns out, this may not be the case.

Our work, study, and life ......It has to go on. In the face of a temporary loss of love, we may need to gradually develop such courage:

In this world, whoever is away from everyone can still live well, and maybe they can live even better. Try not to hate, after all, it was our own choice at the beginning, so let's get together and disperse, and let's start working hard for our lives.

Time will slowly dilute those pains, and what we need to work on is to try to make our lives as good as possible during this period.

I feel that the first month of falling out of love is difficult to endure, because the breakup is definitely psychologically unacceptable, and the first month is the most uncomfortable and painful.