I really can t accept my father s sudden death

Updated on society 2024-06-24
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Don't say it, the deceased has passed away, why do you want to send it out, it is to reflect the family affection or the concern of some people, if you really want to say it, summarize it in one sentence "May there be no pain in heaven" is really uncomfortable, just look at the fish, talk to friends, talk to people with the same heart, talk to strangers, it's best not to post some other words in the circle of friends or QQ space, because you see more than just people who care about you, may you get out of your sadness as soon as possible, ready to meet tomorrow's morning sun, you still have your small family needs you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Tolstoy said that happy families are similar, and unhappy families have their own misfortunes. It is said that the world is impermanent. Therefore, the sudden death of your father must be a blow to you and unacceptable.

    This is really understandable, but life still has to go on. Learn to be strong, learn to grow up, and accept it, because everyone's experience is different. Life and death are not controlled by us, so you can only take good care of yourself, make yourself strong, take care of your mother, and make him proud and happy because of you.

    Life's shortcomings cannot be remedied. It can only become an eternal pain in the heart.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No parent can accompany their children for the rest of their lives, although they cannot accept the death of their parents, but this is an inescapable reality. The old man has passed away, no matter how sad you are, he can't come back, you should wipe away your tears, cheer up, and after finishing the old man's funeral, try to do what you have to do, strive to do a good job of the family, and then comfort them in the underworld during the New Year's holidays.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    My father died! I used to feel like I had everything with my parents. He is my sky, and if it falls today, I will carry the sky. I must be able and must be able to be strong!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    1. For more than three months after my father's death, I miss it all the time, as long as I see a figure like my father during this time, my heart hurts, I think of my father, how I hope that there is a soul to shorten the distance between me and my father!

    2. In my upbringing, my father gave me great love, all of which made me unforgettable, moved and admired.

    3. On a moonlit night, there are several traces of the past. Bear with memories. This time I look back, and I will be separated forever. To the fairy island, return to the underworld, there is no news.

    4. People often say that father's love is like a mountain, but in my opinion, my father's love for me is not completely as severe as a mountain, but sometimes as gentle as water.

    5. I will always take what my father said to me as my motivation to move forward, and I will always miss him.

    6. Although my father is not good at expressing himself, he is a person with simple feelings. For a long time, my father was like a cold and distant statue in my mind.

    7. Dad's life is bitter, he knew that his father was an orphan when he was a child, and he never knew who his biological parents were.

    8. Walking alone on the road at dusk, blowing a cool breeze. Against the backdrop of the setting sun, the withered yellow of autumn falls, dancing and saying goodbye to the branches, which is so reluctant. And my thoughts about my father are like the leaves that are attached to the big tree, thinking, thinking, and tears can't help but flow down the corners of my eyes.

    9. I have benefited a lot from my father's words and actions, and I am ashamed for the rest of my life. Because I feel that my father will always be exalted more than me.

    10. I spent my childhood in happiness. All these joys were brought to me by my father. At the mention of my father, I couldn't help but cry. My father has left me forever, leaving only my thoughts of him and a memory of him forever.

    11. Wangshan Xiyuan is the home I chose for my father, waiting for the green season of the mountains, my father can sleep there.

    12. It's been almost a month since my father passed away, and my father's voice and smile linger in front of me, keeping me awake at night.

    13. A father's love always blooms in severity;A father's love always comes when you need it. Father's love is always incomprehensible to us, but we know our father's good intentions when we fully understand.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1. Father, have you been going to ** in the past two days?How can you bear to abandon us?

    2. Dad, you have walked the road to heaven all the way, and we can only meet in dreams.

    3. My father is tired, maybe my father only sleeps. His father was alive for his love, and he was tired, and he was sleepy. He wanted to sleep longer. He didn't want to be disturbed, so he chose a good place, and that was heaven.

    4. The reincarnation of the four seasons is still the same, and it is difficult to stay with joys and sorrows. The loving father suddenly drove the West Crane away, and he couldn't get it back.

    5. My father is really gone, we can't believe how many dreams wake up, such a hard-working, hard-working, helpful you are gone.

    6. Remember me in the next life and be your son.

    7. Father, you left, calmly, leaving no regrets.

    8. Dear Father! No matter how long you go, no matter how far you go, your voice and smile will always remain in our hearts. We love you forever!

    9. When my father is gone, he will never open his eyes again, and he will never look at us with loving eyes again, and let us make noise. On this day, the weather was gloomy. People are crying, mothers are crying.

    10. This person called "father" is gone forever, completely leaving this world, and since then he has said goodbye to this world and the home he has worked hard all his life, with reluctance and remembrance of his family.

    11. I want to call "Dad" again, but I never have a chance again! My heavenly Father, are you alright?

    12. Only on Father's Day every year, my heart aches faintly. I didn't know what it meant to have a son who wanted to raise but my relatives were not there, but now I really understand. I'm grown up, I can make money, I can buy you cigarettes, alcohol, and the best things, but I'll never see you again!

    13. Father's faith, mind, conduct, and demeanor are precious spiritual wealth, which is left to us, cherished, and inherited.

    14. My parents are gone, and I write down my thoughts all over the paper in tears. It's sorrow, it's goodbye, it's loneliness that can't be told, it's mail that can't be reached.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The love that your father gave you is the most precious in the world, and the heaviest in the world, you can use "father's love is like a mountain" zhi to describe, his sudden death is too big a blow for you, this is understandable, after all, it is the dearest person, such a regret you may not be able to let go of for the rest of your life.

    It doesn't matter if you are short in pain and obsession with your father (because the heart hurts too much and needs to be properly relieved and vented), but it is too much to dwell on this pain for a long time, you can imagine this: Father is gone, but his love for you is still there, he is still watching you in heaven, you can't let him go and worry about everything about you; Everyone will experience birth, old age, sickness, and death, this result is inevitable, you should learn to let go, continue to live, everything looks forward, your father will be very happy to see your happiness, because your peace, health, and happiness are his greatest comfort, so learn to let go, learn to work hard, learn to remember and miss it......

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The son wants to be filial and his relatives are not restored.

    Don't worry about it, everyone has to go through it, and you will go there in 50 years, but you will be separated for 50 years, and you will be together forever in the future. If you're a boy, now what you have to do is support the family, your mother and your sister can cry, you can't.

    If you are a girl, then persuade them both more and be your mother's little padded jacket in the future. Take care of her more.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Only after the recovery of major events can we grow enough, I remember when my grandfather Bai died, he was saving.

    The horizontal batch on the Du Lian reads "can become a big thing" zhi, at that time Xiao dao couldn't understand the meaning, and when my grandmother died, look at my father, I finally realized it. The death of parents is actually a test of the growth ability of children, it is a big test, it is the experience of becoming a real man (woman), if you can do the funeral affairs of your relatives decently in the grief, then give yourself a great encouragement in front of relatives and friends who come to mourn. If you really feel sad, then cry fiercely in front of your father, hoping that it will only be this once (in front of everyone, you can cry as much as you want in front of everyone).

    Life has to go on, home is still home, although there is one less person, time is the magic weapon to dilute everything.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Life and death are copied by others, although painful but not attacked.

    Since you have regrets for your father, then you should take good care of your mother for your father, and help your father do the future, may he be happy in another world.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My dad passed away when I was 12 years old!

    In the past, my family was poor and sick, and I was reluctant to go to a big hospital to see a stomachache, and I always used stomach problems to treat it!

    To the end is advanced liver cancer!

    Take your time, time can make you a lot better!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Everyone will go through this stage, and they must face each other calmly, hold their heads high, and dare to move forward bravely (although it is difficult, the wound will slowly heal in time). I have a classmate, a month before the college entrance examination, his father also died suddenly, when he came to the classroom, he sat alone in the classroom, all the time crying, at night, each classmate wrote some words of encouragement, and also pooled some money to him, quietly to him, this time he cried again, but they were all tears of emotion. Later, he understood that people cannot be resurrected after death, and only by facing it bravely can they live a better life.

    In the next month's review, he worked very hard, but he performed exceptionally well in the college entrance examination and went online (his grades were not very good, but he was already extraordinary), but he didn't fill in the volunteer and fell off the list. However, he is now trying to repeat his studies, hoping that he will do well.

    You are the same, there must be many people around you who care about you, first of all, you have to learn to be strong in order to take care of your grandmother and let your grandmother come out of the shadows as soon as possible!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Do it and cherish it, and grasp the ...... to go on strongly

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'm too sad to know what to do.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1. During this time, I always feel that my eyes are hazy and moist, and I always look for the reason but I don't know, is Qingming coming, my deceased relatives are missing me over there, and I am missing my deceased relatives?

    2. I know that the customs are very different in different places, but the common thing is to express the sadness of the loss of my relatives, and I can only ask him to take me to kowtow thousands of miles away to lay a wreath!

    3. At this moment, as friends, we only miss, deeply remember and thank you for accompanying us through the past, when you are there, rainy days are often sunny, your smile, simplicity and sincerity to friends will be the eternal wealth of our lives; And losing you is a pain that we can never make up for in our lives.

    Sentences about maternal love:

    A mother's life is a life of ups and downs and weathers; It is a life of hard work, frugality, and hard work; It is an ordinary, unpretentious life; It is a life of obscurity and hard work; It is a kind, virtuous, and reasonable life; It is a life of good neighborliness and kindness. She did not have earth-shattering feats, nor did she leave a legacy for centuries, but her strength of personality and excellent character will always inspire future generations, and her voice and smile will always live in the hearts of future generations.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    O Buddha! Believer Zhou Yaxuan, I haven't begged you for anything, I want to beg you, let my father and uncle, go to the Western Elysium early, and leave because of the pain before death, please, don't let them suffer.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello, sad feelings may be shared by anyone, but the death of a loved one should not be spoken, because your friends know your sadness, why do you still want to do this, if we netizens think it is what you are showing off. Personal insights.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After my father's death, I was really sad, a month or two later, I thought that he would still be out of breath, very sad, not to say that my father died, but I really wanted to talk, nowhere to tell, after publishing it, my friends saw a few words of comfort, it was useless, or grief. The only way to leave it to time is to leave it to time.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You grow up with me, and I grow old with you. Daddy, may there be no pain in heaven.

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