What should I do if I have no trust in my boyfriend at all?

I think the most important thing for two people to be together is to trust each other, which is necessary for your relationship to continue to develop.

If there is no trust in this relationship, then even if it can be difficult to maintain now, a breakup will still be avoided in the end. Long pain is better than short pain, since they all broke up in the end, it is better to let go now, otherwise you will still have unavoidable quarrels and helplessness in the last period of time, but leave bad memories for your relationship. If you don't want to break up, you should find a way to solve this problem.

First of all, you have to know the importance of trust, trust is a must in a relationship, if there is love between you, there should be no lack of trust, if you love him, you should give him trust, just like you want him to trust you, just like you can accept that you just went out for a meal with a friend of the opposite sex who played well, and your boyfriend suspected that there was an affair between you? If you don't want to, think about it from another angle, how can your boyfriend want you to not have even the most basic trust in him.

I think it's my own suspicious problem, and I must restrain my desire to snoop and don't try to control all my boyfriend's privacy. Because everyone has privacy, even if they are in love, or decades of old husbands and wives, they should also give each other a certain amount of personal space, so that there will be a trace of freshness between two people, if it is completely transparent, but it lacks a feeling, it will feel blank and tasteless. You also don't want you to talk to your girlfriend about some private things, and as a result, your boyfriend has to look at your phone, he has to know what you are talking about, you don't show him, and he suspects that you don't trust him and treats him as an outsider.

So when you want a certain amount of personal space, give your boyfriend a little personal space too, after all, everyone is equal. Even if he is your friend and friend, he has his own independent space, he has good buddies, and there are topics that you can't know.

If you can't try to trust him, then just break up. Instead of living in your reluctant love, it's better to be free and easy and break up. If there is a lack of trust between you, then you are destined to break up, so why bother yourself so much, embarrass others, and don't get a good result.

The reason why you have low trust in your boyfriend is because you are not confident, or in front of him, you are not confident. Then try to change yourself, read more books, make more friends, improve your temperament, and cultivate. Heartthrobs are still afraid that their boyfriends will run away?

As an ordinary girl, we can't be heartthrobs, but we can find ways to increase our charm, learn to dress up, learn to make up, learn to play a musical instrument, learn to dance, and many, much.

If you want to continue the relationship, learn to trust the other person. Think about the good side of things when you encounter them, don't always guess in the bad direction, you feel that you can't do without him, maybe, in fact, he is more dependent on you! Don't be so presumptuous that you don't think the women around you without a boyfriend are pretty, **, etc., etc., etc

In fact, in his eyes, his girlfriend is the best, and he will compare the women around him with you, but he will only see their shortcomings.

Empathy, do not do to others what you do not want, if everyone knows this truth, it will be a lot less contradictions, people always have double standards, strict with others, lenient with themselves. When something happens to you, you can come up with a thousand or ten thousand reasons to justify yourself, and the same thing happens to others without even giving people a chance to explain, and they are self-righteous and shouting, and explanation is a cover-up. If you can imagine how angry you would be if you were treated with double standards by others, there would not be so much suspicion and entanglement.

The key depends on how you want the relationship to develop, if you think you will meet a better one in the future and make you completely at ease (almost impossible), you break up as soon as possible, give yourself and your boyfriend freedom, and if you really love your boyfriend, then please give him trust.

The most important thing between lovers is trust, and it is impossible to maintain a relationship without trust for too long, unless there is a bond of interest between you, or other purposes, to use each other, the kind of thing, it doesn't matter if there is no trust. If you are together because you love each other, then learn to trust and trust each other.