How do you get along with friends of the opposite sex?

If you are an ordinary friend of the opposite sex, the kind that does not involve the love between men and women, I think it is best to be able to get along with each other honestly, behave generously and politely, and treat him as the same sex in your eyes. When communicating with each other, let him feel that you are casual, but do not let him feel that you are casual. It is very important to master the scale, to make the other party think that you are a friend of the opposite sex who is worth associating with your heart, a friend who can tell you about the pain and difficulties...

I can't be the same friend as before, I have such an experience, I don't dare to say anything to him, because I am afraid that he will think too much, I am afraid that he will look down on himself, and I guess others are also like this. So it was hard to do it before, but it was impossible for me. Then be a stranger, if you don't see each other in the first place, it would be great.

I once saw such a sentence: one beats to death and doesn't say anything, and the other pretends to be stupid to the end! You can be good friends.

No matter so much, if you can talk to friends, if you can't talk, you will be ruthless, just now.

I believe that kind of pure friendship exists, but it was when I was studying, and now I guess it is gone

If you want to maintain a long-term friendship with a girl, you have to play the role of a listener, listen to her life, go out for a break with her, and choose the feeling of fighting and hurting friends in daily life. When friends get along with each other, they must know how to understand each other. Everyone is this independent, friends usually because of their own living conditions, can not often contact each other, busy, do not even have time to reply to each other's messages, when the other party is sad, can not be with each other's side, must know how to understand each other, do not rely too much on each other.

To maintain a long-term friendship between friends of the opposite sex, the most important thing is to grasp the distance and scale of getting along. In the friendship between boyfriend and girlfriend, you must figure out your own emotions, that is, whether you have more feelings for each other than between friends. Men and women can become good friends, both sides must appreciate each other, once this appreciation is invested in other emotions, then, this friendship will no longer be as simple as friends, both of you are likely to come together, if you both have no object, the probability will be higher.

Therefore, if a boy wants to maintain a long-term friendship with a girl, he must keep a distance from the other party after recognizing his feelings, and don't let the other party have unnecessary misunderstandings.

A boy is more rational in his external interactions, but it is difficult for him to grasp the distance and scale of his interactions, because he will not be as imaginative as women. Girls care too much about the opposite sex and are prone to admiration, while boys treat female friends as brothers when they treat each other, so it is very important to grasp the distance and scale.

1. First of all, keep an appreciative eye for friends of the opposite sex.

If you want to maintain a friendship between people of the opposite sex, then we should first confirm a mindset, that is, when the other person is dating, the first thing is to make it clear that the other person is a person first, and then treat the other person as a member of the opposite sex, so that you will not be inhibited when you are dating. The reason why you are friends with the other person must be because the other person has a unique personal charm, not just because the other person is of the opposite sex. 2. Don't turn every relationship into a romantic relationship.

Don't treat all occasions as the pursuit of a romantic relationship, all you need to develop is a relationship for a while, and there is no need to develop all the opposite sex you know into boyfriend and girlfriend relationships. This is a mistake that many boys make, and at the same time maintain an ambiguous relationship with many girls, thinking that in this way they can get everyone's friendship. However, such ideas often backfire.

It is necessary to keep a certain distance from friends of the opposite sex, and you need to constantly remind yourself of this in your interactions with the opposite sex.

It is very difficult to maintain a simple friendship between friends of the opposite sex, and both parties must ensure that they do not cross the line. If it is a little bit, the consequences are unpredictable, a little to the left becomes intimate, and a little to the right may be doomed.

Although this statement is somewhat absolute and biased, it still makes sense from a certain point of view, because if the opposite sex does not have a good grasp of themselves, their relationship is likely to change from friends to lovers, or from friends to strangers.

1. Don't be too intimate and keep a certain distance.

When friends of the opposite sex get along with each other, they must first keep a distance, keep a certain distance from each other in their behavior and heart, and don't get too close to each other when two people get along.

Too close to friends of the opposite sex will directly cause misunderstandings and will not be comfortable getting along.

Don't contact each other too often, so that the other person mistakenly thinks that you have a bad idea of her, and if she doesn't like you, she may block you.

2. Pay attention to the way you speak, don't choose what to say.

If you want to maintain friendship with each other, you need to be cautious and don't make jokes that go beyond friendship, which will make the other person very embarrassed.

A friend is a friend, even if you are intimate, you should pay attention to the way you speak, and don't embarrass the other person without choice. As a friend and a friend of the opposite sex, you must pay attention to your words and deeds, if you trespass, it will make the other person very uncomfortable.

3. Restrain your behavior and don't be too casual.

Friends of the opposite sex, even if they have a good relationship, should restrain their behavior, and should not be too casual, otherwise it will make each other awkward. Don't be too distant, just keep a certain distance.

When you are with friends of the opposite sex, don't take each other for granted that they are of the same sex and don't care about physical touch, which will also embarrass the other person.

Especially when friends of the opposite sex and their own couples can cause unnecessary trouble.

Friends still restrain themselves.

Friends of the opposite sex need to pay attention to the following aspects:

1.Respect each other:Respect the other person's opinions, habits, behavior, and privacy, and do not act or say things that are offensive or hurtful to the other person.

2.Clear boundaries:Clarify the relationship and boundaries between each other, do not have misunderstandings or misunderstandings, and do not have ambiguous behaviors or words.

3.Honest and frank:Maintain honest and frank communication with each other, do not conceal or deceive each other, and avoid suspicion or misunderstanding.

4.Keep your distance:Avoid being too intimate or dependent on each other, keep a certain distance and independence, and don't become too dependent or possessive of the other person.

5.Common hobbies:In the process of getting along, you can find common interests and hobbies, expand common topics and communication content, and enhance friendship and intimacy.

6.Communicate in a timely manner when encountering problems:If there is a conflict or problem, communicate and solve it in a timely manner, do not let the problem backlog or worsen, and maintain good communication and problem-solving skills.

7.Respect each other's feelings:If the other person already has a love partner, respect the other person's feelings and choices, and do not act or say things that harm the other person's feelings.

8.Don't put pressure on each other:Don't cause stress or discomfort to the other person, such as paying too much attention, interfering or controlling the other person's life and behavior.

In short, the relationship between friends of the opposite sex needs to be based on mutual respect, clear boundaries, honesty and frankness, keeping a distance, common hobbies, timely communication, respecting each other's feelings and not putting pressure on each other, etc., to maintain a good friendship and Kaizhou leak interaction.

For this problem, some people are more distinct, except for their lovers, all the opposite sex are excluded, and they will not be too clear about their grandchildren.

People like this who are particularly distinct have to say that they will be simpler and the people around them will be more at ease.

However, there are also people who feel that some people are more like-minded, but they are not suitable for becoming lovers, so it will be a pity to lose it, and if they can become friends, it will be good.

In fact, many people will have such thoughts and want to make friends of the opposite sex, and there is nothing wrong with that.

Many times, having some friends, even friends of the opposite sex, will be much easier for me in many things.

In this life, whether it is a man or a woman, if you don't feel that you need to have friends of the opposite sex, then you can not have them, and if you feel that you can have them, you can also make a few friends on the road of life.

It's just that you can have friends of the opposite sex, but when getting along, you must pay attention to proportion.

I was in college and had 3 very good male friends. They were all my classmates. Actually, at the beginning, there were 4, and later because of various emotional factors, such as love (you) and hate, entanglement (understanding) and entanglement, the Gang of Five became a Gang of Four.

First of all, let me introduce three of my male friends. A is more handsome, the figure and height are good, and he is more good at playing, and the peach blossom luck is better. B is a fat big brother, according to her, he has countless spare tires, and he is considered too much of a type among boys.

C is a thin bamboo pole, easy to talk to, and humorous. The relationship between us is that four people get together for one or two good meals a month, and we can usually eat alone with one of them without feeling embarrassed.

I thought about the reasons for this: First, I think as a girl guessing spring socks. First you have to make up your mind:

I can only be friends with this person. Then in the next relationship, you can avoid a lot of ambiguous things. For example, even if A is very handsome, but I really don't have any thoughts about him, and I will feel pitiful who will be his girlfriend.

When you don't have any ambiguous thoughts about your male friends, you will be able to communicate and complain to them very openly.

Second, as a boy, I want to maintain a long-term friendship with a girl. I think it's the easiest! Don't think of her as a woman!

That's what my three big brothers think of me = = And then we'll tease and tease each other, within the limits of what is acceptable to both sides, of course.

In the end, what I want to say is that being friends really requires more affection than falling in love. To be friends, you must be willing to be both parties, so that you can really be rich and do not forget each other

ps.A word of advice for girls: Don't have the idea of wanting to talk to male friends around you, I have a female college classmate, almost all the male friends around her want to get involved, it turns out that the sensitivity of male compatriots is not low, A big brother also complained to us about the behavior of that female classmate.

So no matter who you associate with, you have to be honest

In order to protect yourself, you can only divide yourself and her into two ends of the hidden spring ant. Admit what you did wrong. You need to understand that you have to hurt her in some way.

Start by apologizing for your mistake. Don't repeat your ex-girlfriend's words and actions that brought up your bad habits and caused her to hurt! If necessary, you can find someone to supervise you and help you get rid of the above behaviors.

A man who annoys a woman should apologize. However, we should also pay attention to this way of apologizing. Not all apologies are effective at the time of a breakup.

First of all, you should understand that you are wrong**. If you don't even know you're wrong, you're just blindly apologizing to the other person. This will only make the other person feel that you are perfunctory and that she has nothing to do.