Why do you feel disgusted when you have been nice to someone for too long?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-12
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This is because after being good to a person for too long, you will feel that your efforts are greater than the return, and you will be very tired in your heart, and you will feel that the other party does not know how to be grateful, so you will have a sense of disgust.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Because if you are very good to a person for a long time, it will make the other person feel that it is right, and if it goes on for a long time, you will feel very disgusted, and even feel very disgusted.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Because this person has not responded to you, and because you have been giving unilaterally, you will have a sense of disgust after a long time at this time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you are not good to a person for a while, the other party will be uncomfortable, and it is your good that becomes a matter of course.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Summary. 1. Lack of thorough understanding. Before you fall in love with each other, both parties don't know each other well, and when you get close to each other, there are a lot of things about the other person that you don't like.

    2.Sensory impressions. It's just that they have a good impression of each other in terms of senses, such as appearance, temperament, etc., but in fact, behind the beautiful appearance, there are many shortcomings.

    3.False phenomenon. When a person likes people, he will definitely show the best side to you.

    However, camouflage does not last long. 4.Thought perfectly.

    Thinking too perfectly about love and each other, the result will be a contrast between reality and fantasy.

    1. Lack of thorough understanding. Before you fall in love with each other, both parties don't know each other well, and when you get close to each other, there are a lot of things about the other person that you don't like. 2.

    Sensory impressions. It's just that they have a good impression of each other in terms of senses, such as appearance, temperament, etc., but in fact, behind the beautiful appearance, there are many shortcomings. 3.

    False phenomenon. When a person likes people, he will definitely show the best side to you. However, camouflage does not last long.

    4.Thought perfectly. Thinking too perfectly about love and each other, the result will be a contrast between reality and fantasy.

    Fellow, I really didn't understand, I can be more specific.

    It's normal, reason 1: because when you like him, you don't know him completely, and hating him is, of course, to find that he is different from what you imagined, so you hate it; Reason 2: Because he doesn't give you the same attitude (just like your attitude towards him), his self-esteem hurts and he hates it, but it is actually a manifestation of love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Summary. In the process of communicating with people, we often see the appearance of the other party, and what we like and have a good impression of is generally from the appearance of the other party, because the most direct and intuitive is a person's appearance, but after understanding, we will find the person behind the appearance, that is, the truth we often say. If the inside and the outside are the same, then such a person can make friends, if the inside and the outside are not the same, and there is another face behind it, when you look at it, you will naturally feel disgusted.

    What is the reason for a person to go from liking to hating.

    There is a classic line: Break up because you don't understand each other, and break up because you understand, which is what you feel now.

    In the process of communicating with people, we often see the appearance of the other party, and what we like and have a good impression of is generally from the appearance of the other party, because the most direct and intuitive is a person's appearance, but after understanding, we will find the person behind the appearance, that is, the truth we often say. If the inside and the outside are the same, then such a person can make friends, if the inside and the outside are not the same, and there is another face behind it, when you look at it, you will naturally feel disgusted.

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  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Summary. This is caused by one's own character. Everyone will have advantages and disadvantages, you have to learn to appreciate the strengths of others, see the strengths and shines of others, always examine yourself, and develop good habits.

    That must have done something that he hated.

    Offended. This is caused by one's own character. You have to learn to appreciate the strengths of others, see the strengths and shines of others, and always examine yourself and develop good habits.

    Most of the time, it is because of the depressive things of renting, or other psychological discomfort, which causes emotional unpleasant feelings. You need to adjust your own noisy arguments gradually, slowly accept the disadvantages of others, accept the world, the world is not your own world, share, and live in harmony.

    The above two points are to find the reason from ourselves.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. Dear, always after a while, hate a person. This is because there is a person in your subconscious that you particularly hate.

    So it's always after a while that somebody does something, or you argue with them against their ideas. The two had a conflict. Your subconscious mind will think that he is the type you hate.

    So you have a disgust for him from the bottom of your heart. So you always hate someone after a while. This is also because there were some psychological shadows when I was young.

    So it's not a big psychological problem, if this phenomenon occurs again, you can think about what is good about this person, or what are the strengths, you like it more, so that your dislike for him will be reduced a lot, and slowly find out his strengths or he has helped you, so that you will have a kind of idea about this person in your heart, which is okay, and you will not have a sense of disgust for him. Hope mine can help you.

    Dear, always after a while, hate a withered Hongliang personally. This is because there is a person in your subconscious that you particularly hate. So it's always after a while that somebody does something, or you argue with them against their ideas.

    The two had a conflict. Your subconscious mind will think that he is the type you hate. So you have a disgust for him from the bottom of your heart.

    So you always hate someone after a while. This is also because there were some psychological shadows when I was young. So it's not a big psychological problem, if this phenomenon occurs again, you can think about what is good about this person, or what strengths you have, you like it more, so that your dislike for him will be reduced a lot, and slowly find out his strengths or he helped you, so that if you are unlucky, you will have a kind of idea of this person in your heart, which is okay, and you will not have a sense of disgust for him.

    Hope mine can help you.

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