There are too many online dating, so can you still have online dating? Is it reliable?

Generally, online dating says that you will see light death. But whether online dating is reliable or not depends on what kind of person you meet, if the other party is a good person, then it is a reliable relationship. The Internet only makes two people change from a stranger relationship to a lover relationship, and how to manage this relationship mainly depends on the efforts of two people to be able to achieve happiness.

I often hear people say: "Amorous women are negative men!" "I really didn't expect that there were such amorous men in this world, and this woman who had lost her conscience was embarrassed to lie to him again and again, and she was not afraid of being punished by God.

Although this case sounds ridiculous, it is also a reminder to a large number of unmarried people who are preparing for online dating: online dating is risky, and dating must be cautious. Another thing, please understand that whether it is online dating or love, if you don't meet each other and ask for money or items, you are not a good person.

The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, whether it is life or the Internet, friends get along with each other, it is you who come and go, and there is light to let the other party pay for their own nothing!

Online communication and life are similar, friendship is made, friendship is made, friendship is sincerity, if you can really meet the same three views, like-minded people who can be friends, maybe it is really the fate of the previous life, it is worth cherishing to cherish. If in the relationship, meet those shameless people who are looking for money to ask for goods, don't say anything about the old lady and the old lady, even if the seven fairies are in the world, they should be blacklisted as soon as possible, I hate the kind of people who get it for nothing and want to use fraud to realize the dream of making a fortune!

Online love has been running for thousands of miles, and it is obviously true love on the Internet, but it is dying in the rush. There are many unreliable online dating, whether it is a cheat or a habitual cheat, it always makes people fall from the Internet paradise to the hell of reality all of a sudden. Online dating is like a dream, and the reality is to wake up from a dream.

No matter what age, what gender, online dating and running is a matter that needs to be cautious, the virtual network is the best place for all kinds of lies to breed, in online dating, some men pretend to be beautiful, some are women pretend to be handsome men, the so-called is the other end of the screen of the network, no one knows who is who, what look, although do whatever you want, sweet talk about explosion, but if you pull all this into reality, it will be a big disappointment.

Most online dating is a long-distance relationship, and because you can't meet in person, the conversation is very speculative. There are many online datings on the Internet that see the light and die because the gap between ideals and reality is unacceptable, so some people in online dating still look at their faces. But have you ever thought that good-looking people would fall in love with you online?

In reality, there will be a large number of people chasing it, right? From this aspect alone, it is still unreliable.

If you want to date online, it's best to meet each other in person and get to know each other a little bit.

I think it's okay to have a proper online dating, but most online datings are unreliable because you don't know what the other person is like.

There may be results, but in general, it is more difficult, and the most common result is a breakup.

1. At the beginning, the feeling may not be very strong, but if it lasts for a long time, then the feelings will naturally begin to be cold, not when you are sick, not when you are difficult, not when you want to cry, not when you are happy, if you can't empathize, it is destined to be long-lasting.

2. The difference between online dating and long-distance relationship.

One of the most important differences is that people in long-distance relationships know each other in reality, and they may have met this person in reality for various reasons, and they have fallen in love, but they have to separate the two places. As for online dating, its love foundation must be built on the Internet, so when two people are in love, they don't understand each other's reality. A long-distance relationship based on reality is relatively more real in terms of obtaining and understanding the basic information of both parties; Because the object of online dating is deep in the Internet, there is a joke that you never know if the person on the other side of the network is a dog.

In other words, the possibility of beautifying and blocking yourself is higher, and basically online dating is based on spiritual communication.

3. What are the chances of being in a long-distance relationship?

Although long-distance relationships are very hard, many people who accept long-distance relationships are truly in love with each other without suspicion. But we also know that there are all kinds of unknowns and suspicions between men and women when they fall in love, so this is the most difficult thing to overcome in a long-distance relationship. Especially if it is in the same place, even if there is any misunderstanding and quarrel, both parties can probably solve it through a hug, but it is very difficult to realize a long-distance relationship, which will lead to misunderstandings and eventually become silence.

Therefore, the probability of a long-distance relationship being together is indeed very low, and it will eventually return to the same place.

4. The comparison between online dating and real love.

Realistic love can be seen and touched. You can have the most direct understanding of everything. Even if, there is no day and night.

At the very least, the situation is still known. In online love, you can only understand this person through the screen. The so-called getting along is like falling in love with the air.

If the other party is a guy with a deep city - then, you have a good chance of being deceived. The so-called simplicity may only be a hypocritical appearance. Moreover, real love can also have substantial contact.

In other words, not entirely platonic. Online love can only be spiritually satisfied. Moreover, if you want to dismantle it, there will be further development in the future.

For example, getting married or something will be the most difficult problem to solve.

The success rate of online dating is relatively low.

Many people's online dating will "see the light and die" because:

1. When we have never met each other, we can easily idealize each other when we only communicate through words or voices.

For example, when we hear a good sound, we tend to associate an idealized face with that sound.

When you face each other, you will find that the real image of this person is far from your imagination, and you will be disappointed at this time.

The more and longer we talked before, the more idealized we were, and the more disappointed I became.

2. Psychologists' research on online dating has shown that:

Online dating is the first face-to-face date, which often reduces the social and physical attractiveness of the dater.

The researchers' explanation is:

A person's personality, habits, non-verbal behavior, and appearance are not fully revealed until they first meet.

Before meeting, the date may project their thoughts about their ideal partner onto the online dating partner, and then find out that the online dating partner is not living up to their expectations when they meet for the first time, creating a "disillusionment effect".

This phenomenon is similar to the experience that couples often have after getting married.

Many people who walk into marriage will find that they may be less satisfied with their partner than they were when they were in a relationship.

In the event of a "disillusionment effect", the relationship will not be able to last for a long time unless the parties are able to compromise to a certain extent.

Psychologists' research on online dating shows that after online dating, the social and physical attractiveness of the dating partner is usually reduced, which is because in the case of never met, only through Wen Sheng's judgment or voice communication or even seen**seen**, but people are still easy to idealize each other.

For example, when we hear a good voice, we tend to associate an idealized face with the voice, but when we finally meet each other, we will find that the real image of this person is far from our own imagination, not to mention today's powerful beauty black technology, at this time, people are usually disappointed and have a disillusionment effect.

This phenomenon is very similar to the experience that couples often experience after marriage, many people who walk into marriage will find that they may be less satisfied with their partner than they were when they were in love, and if there is a disillusionment effect, unless the person is able to compromise to a certain extent, your relationship will soon come to an end.

Cyber fraud and**: Cyberspace is virtual, and there is a lot of untrue information and fake people. Many people will disguise themselves as others and deceive other people's feelings and money, thus making people lose confidence in online dating.

Lack of real communication and exchanges: Online dating mainly relies on online communication, and often lacks real face-to-face communication, so it is difficult to build a deep emotional foundation.

Influence of the surrounding environment: Family, friends and other close people are usually skeptical of online dating, and may not approve or oppose this type of relationship, making the relationship more fragile.

Changing needs: The needs of young people have gradually changed, they are more focused on actual interactions and getting along, and tend to find a really suitable partner rather than looking for a romantic partner through the Internet.

In conclusion, the reasons that lead to the death of online dating can be varied, including disinformation, lack of authentic communication, the influence of the surrounding environment, changes in mindset and needs, and more. However, no matter what the reason, it should be a personal freedom to choose the way of love, and it is important to be cautious, look at online dating rationally, and choose a reliable online platform to communicate with others.

There are many reasons why online dating sees light death, which may include:

1.Disinformation and deception: On the web, due to the lack of real contact and understanding between each other, some people will deliberately post false personal information and ** to attract the attention of others, and sometimes even deceive.

This can affect trust between online dating partners, leading to conflicts and disagreements.

2.A matter of distance and time: Online dating partners are often separated from each other, or even across multiple time zones. This can lead to communication difficulties and inability to communicate intimately, which in turn can lead to emotional alienation or emotional loss.

3.Lack of intimacy and physical touch: In online dating, the lack of intimacy and physical touch cannot meet the physical and psychological needs of human beings, which sometimes leads to unsatisfied desires for intimacy, leading to conflicts and disagreements.

4.Social and cultural climate: Due to the huge differences in social and cultural environments, some people from social and cultural backgrounds do not support or oppose online dating, believing it to be abnormal, unethical or unreliable, and thus prohibit or restrict its development.

5.Long time and responsibility: In order to maintain an online relationship, it takes a long time to communicate and maintain, and it also requires a lot of time, energy, and emotion.

This also makes online dating stressful and responsible, and if one of the partners is unable to take on this pressure and responsibility, it can lead to a relationship breakdown.

The above are only some possible reasons and cannot fully explain why online dating is dead. However, to successfully maintain an online relationship, both parties need to trust, support and understand each other, while carefully considering these issues and developing plans and strategies to avoid risks and difficulties.

The reason why most online datings die is because the ** posted by the other party is completely inconsistent with the real person, and some are even exaggerated to the point that they can't recognize the same person when standing in front of them. The ** who may be posted on the opposite side is a handsome young man, but often the real appearance has to be lowered by three or four grades. The reported height and weight can't be trusted, and the real height of the online dating partner must be reduced by about ten centimeters on the basis of his own report, and as for the weight, it is a matter of coincidence that it will be increased.

If the other party is a girl, almost all of the ** sent out are beautiful girls, and these ** actually raise the average appearance of all of them in Lu Tan by more than a little, because they are all through P pictures. This p-picture technique is good, and it can confuse the real with the fake, which makes you feel disillusioned, and naturally you don't want to continue to fall in love.

These "photo scams" are attributed to the angle of taking pictures and the almighty PS technology, you must know that PS can make up for all the defects, as long as you feel that the imperfections can be perfectly repaired at your fingertips. It is precisely because of these Wang Jian's careful angle shooting and post-refinement that so many online datings have died. So, when the object of online dating asks you for **, you still have to be real, if you wait until the picture of the person who appears does not match the other party's completely unrecognizable point, that is the real embarrassment.

Everyone has a love of beauty, and they all hope to leave a good impression on each other, and the P picture is not a big mistake, as long as it is not too exaggerated, it is acceptable.

The first is that expectations of each other are too high, and the person you are in love with is really just a vague image, like a blank sheet of paper in front of you, on which you can add everything you expect. For example, boys will hope that female netizens will be beautiful and gentle, and girls will hope that male netizens will be handsome and chic, and the other party they depict is their ideal appearance, and excessive imagination will magnify a certain advantage and ignore the real image. The virtuality of the network evokes associations.

For example, some girls will share the refined ** on social platforms to create the illusion of the image of the goddess, or some people who spend money in the game will give people the illusion that they are rich women and tyrants who are hungry for filial piety.

In addition, it should be noted that each other is more open in virtual socialization, so it is inevitable that there will be a sense of gap in the heart of the socks to get along face-to-face, the other party doesn't seem to love me like before, of course, this feeling may also be wishful thinking on the part of a certain party, so the person you face after the online dating is not what you imagined, it is easy to see the light and die.

Second, online dating can't stand the test of life, occasionally relieve loneliness, but it is difficult to expose shortcomings and practical problems without the experience of real coexistence, this relationship is unstable, but it will make each other feel that each other is more and more attractive, but you can't let go of the unrealistic factors in online dating after really running backwards, and you can't face the real each other and the trivialities of life, which will be crushed by the pressure of reality, the most common example of which is the long-distance relationship of online couples.