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A wise woman must learn to turn a blind eye in marriage, yes, "If the water is clear, there will be no fish, and if the love is deep, there will be no love." "There is no absolute perfection in this world, and there is no absolutely pure and flawless love, smart women know how to turn a blind eye and not put too much pressure on men. Sometimes, love is like flying a kite, you have to know how to let go and let the man fly, so that the man can reach the height of life that you and he want.
But at the same time, a man's heart, like the string of a kite, is firmly in your hands! Therefore, in love, please be a smart woman, men should turn a blind eye to these things, and do not interfere too much, so that your love will be happy!
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It depends on what mistakes the other party makes, if it is a mistake of principle, you must not turn a blind eye to me, because the result of your connivance is that he will be more unscrupulous, but if it is some trivial matter, then you can turn a blind eye.
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Yes. Everyone has their own shortcomings and mistakes to a greater or lesser extent, and a smart woman should not hold on to these all the time, which will only make men feel that they are wordy and annoying, which will affect the relationship between two people. As long as these things do not involve issues of principle, we can turn a blind eye.
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In fact, I think that a smart woman in the marriage business is a blind eye, or to see what the situation is, if the principle of the problem, must not turn a blind eye, but some problems are okay, this depends on the specific situation.
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A wise woman learns to open one eye and close one eye in marriage. Yes. But that also depends on the specific situation. As long as it's not a matter of principle, that's fine. In this way, husband and wife will get along more harmoniously and understand each other.
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Right. In the past, there was a saying that women should keep their eyes open before marriage, and after marriage, they should open their eyes and close their eyes, and they also need to pretend to be confused appropriately.
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Women should learn to turn a blind eye in marriage, since they have chosen to be with each other, they should maintain the relationship with each other well, and do not argue with each other because they disagree with each other.
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Yes, a wise woman does need to learn to turn a blind eye in marriage.
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A wise woman not only learns in marriage, but should also learn to turn a blind eye in all aspects of life, so that she can live a meaningful life, and this is true for all trivial things in life.
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No, it is also necessary to divide the situation by turning a blind eye, and the situation is serious or needs to be taken seriously, just don't inch in.
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I think we should learn to turn a blind eye, many things can't have their own wishes, if you quarrel with your family about everything, there will be constant contradictions, some things can be considered, you don't see it, you can't see it, you can't worry about it.
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A wise woman really has to learn to open her eyes and close her eyes in marriage, and don't care too much about everything in order to have a happy marriage.
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This is not called a smart woman, this is called no way, but no matter whether she is smart or helpless, and the purpose of this kind of woman is to save the family and save her husband's irregular heart. If the husband has a fleshy heart and a touching heart, then he should also learn to control himself.
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I think smart women really have children in their memories who turn a blind eye, which is good for both parties, and then most of the time the harmony of speech also helps.
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It is right to be generous, you don't have to worry about anything, small things can be confused, big things happen, and the overall situation must be the most important.
In short, with family harmony as the core, just turn a blind eye.
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This is not a sign of cleverness, but a kind of indulgence, and this indulgence is very terrible to come back to the heart. It will make your marriage more and more end.
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Do wise women have to learn to turn a blind eye in marriage? I don't think that's the case, marriage is selfish, it's my marriage, others don't want to come, if it weren't for my marriage, I wouldn't force it, so I won't turn a blind eye.
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Women in marriage must not be a magnifying glass, so that you are very tired and depressed every day, as long as you do not touch your bottom line, close one eye.
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For example, your husband may quietly give money to her mother-in-law or buy some food, and in these cases, we have to pretend, and give him a space if you don't know.
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Just turn a blind eye to the small things you usually do.
As long as it's not a matter of principle, it's not a big deal.
Issues of principle cannot be appeased.
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In marriage, it is not necessarily about pampering each other and having your own bottom line. Learn to respect your partner and be understanding and tolerant of each other, but always be honest.
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This sentence is very classic, and it is true, so that life will be better.
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Turning a blind eye is good for the other person and for yourself. Why bother to take it seriously.
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It means to be more tolerant and not to be careless about everything. This can reduce quarrels. Happily married.
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A wise woman learns to respect in marriage, and it has always been the same, is it really one eye? I think in this case, there may be something that needs to be like this.
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According to your description, this situation depends on the seriousness of the matter, if it is a small mistake, it can be forgiven, if it is a big mistake, it will not be tolerated. So it depends on the seriousness of the matter.
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If you are in your thirties, you can't get married, you can't afford to raise a wife and children, as a 30-year-old, if you don't have the ability, it's better to do this aspect, if you are 30 years old, you must find your own position and work hard.
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It is said that a happy marriage is a brother god consisting of a deaf husband and a blind wife. Love can be produced in a second, but love takes a lifetime to complete. Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read.
The public says that the public is reasonable, and the mother-in-law says that the mother-in-law is reasonable, so that outsiders really can't distinguish the truth from the false. It's no wonder that people say that home is the most unreasonable place. From my personal point of view, I think that since I can't explain clearly, I should not hold on to the tip of the horns, a stable and warm family, tolerance and apology are indispensable.
Contradictions are not absent. In order to maintain harmony, at least superficially, it is necessary to sacrifice individuality. Family members must be apologetic and tolerant of each other.
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There are some things that sometimes you should open your eyes and close your eyes, otherwise you will be really tired.
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If your husband is chatting behind your back, does he also open one eye and close one eye?
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You must turn a blind eye to some small things in life, and don't be too careful, especially with each other's parents, and you must avoid head-on conflicts.
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A middle-aged woman who wants to have a happy marriage. It is necessary to turn a blind eye to some bad habits of men. Because if you keep thinking about it, there will be contradictions.
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If the man's money is not much, it is very normal, and he should also respect the other party, do not directly expose the other party, and save face for the other party; When the husband secretly gives his parents no money, he should turn a blind eye, because the husband also has the right to be filial to his parents, so his decision should be respected.
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There will inevitably be stumbles in marriage, even if the relationship between husband and wife is good, it is inevitable that there will be some quarrels, when one party makes a mistake, when you are unhappy, it is rare to be confused is the most important decision.
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There is no need to go-for-tat with her, don't interfere with your husband's occasional entertainment, and occasionally complain when your husband comes home because of his work, so we just ignore it.
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No, what opens one eye and closes one eye is not called marriage, it is more like two people making do with life but having a ghost. True marriage is about trusting each other and being honest with each other, and there should be no concealment, and there should be no choice to turn a blind eye when you have an opinion about the other person.
Some people say that since husband and wife have chosen each other, they should live well, and they should understand and understand each other no matter what happens, but the premise of this is to be loyal to each other, and they can't choose to forgive regardless of everything because they want to maintain this marriage, which is connivance and is not conducive to managing a marriage. Just imagine, if your bottom line is stepped on and you still choose to forgive, do you think the other party will not be more unscrupulous?
In marriage, if the other party does something that you don't like or even exceeds your bottom line, you have to bring it up directly, if it can be solved, it is the best, if it can't be solved, it depends on the seriousness of the matter to judge whether the marriage should continue. And if you don't bring it up, the other party won't know what you're thinking, and it's unlikely that you will change it, so it may accumulate in the future and then explode together.
I like my parents' love very much, although most of the people of that generation have not experienced the stage of falling in love and got married directly, but I like their attitude towards marriage, not to turn a blind eye, but to solve the problem through quarrels, such quarrels are actually nothing, because in the end of the quarrel there is always someone who will compromise first, and then will continue to be as sweet as ever.
Some people may think that if you want to maintain a good marriage, sometimes you have to give up some principles, and if you don't quarrel or make trouble, it will not affect the relationship, but this is wrong, quarreling will not only not affect the relationship, but will also enhance the relationship, because after the quarrel, you will find that you know each other a little better than before. Marriage is exactly like this, only through continuous running-in and continuous cherishing can we always hold hands and go on.
So there is really no need to turn a blind eye, the person who really loves you will be loyal to you, give you trust, and understand you more, so if you have any questions, just ask them, in front of the people you love, and really be yourself.
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I think the best state of marriage is not to turn a blind eye, but to be able to tolerate and understand each other, support each other, and embrace each other.
Turning a blind eye in marriage is very unfavorable for two people, it is very important for two people to communicate together, many things will lose the first time of communication when they turn a blind eye, some things can not be delayed, if there is a delay, it is easy to cause problems, in the long run, it is easy to hurt the marriage, some things are not explained, it is also a thorn in the heart, you think it is nothing, but this thorn is in your heart, just prick you if you have nothing to do, how uncomfortable it is.
Look at those two people who love each other very much, but they are not happy with one eye closed, they are able to understand each other, willing to give everything for each other without asking for anything in return, the other party can understand their own ideas and practices, for life together, love is companionship, love is trust, one eye can only say that you are not so in love with each other, a little bit do not care about each other's meaning, this is very dangerous.
If you are in love or in marriage with one eye open and one eye closed, it is easy to give the other party a feeling that you don't care about him, you must know that not caring is not enough love, which is also very dangerous, for the relationship between two people, mutual care is necessary, in order to make the heart a little closer, to be able to understand each other more, to be happy.
In order for their marriage to be happy and for their future to go further, both of them must pay and change, find their own marriage management methods, instead of turning a blind eye, which is too dangerous for marriage and should be vigilant.
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Is the best state of marriage to turn a blind eye? I think you may be biased in your expression, but in terms of understanding, we are probably the same, not so much that the best state of marriage is not to turn a blind eye, but to say that we both leave enough space for each other and give each other enough trust.
We often say that marriage is the grave of love. Because when two people are in love, they don't have the evidence to tie each other together, and both parties are still very free. But after getting married, two people become the core of the family, no matter how big or small, from childhood to adulthood, it will become a common thing for two people, and it must be agreed by both parties before this matter can be carried out happily.
And after getting married, the two people will have different living habits, for example, he likes to turn off the lights to sleep, but you like to sleep with the bedside lamp on, he likes to work out on weekends, but you like to read at home, he may be a little sloppy, but you love to be tidy, and so on. In this case, you don't have to get into the horns, but both sides take a step back and let him go for some minor problems.
After marriage, the woman often becomes sensitive and suspicious as she grows older and has a lot of pressure in life, and many women are too concerned about the young female colleagues or female friends around their husbands, and try their best to test their husbands. I think that if your husband is usually an honest person, you don't have to be suspicious anymore, there is no such thing as a blind eye, and there is no such thing as turning a blind eye.
After marriage, everything becomes trivial and important, if you want a marriage to go on successfully, you must tolerate some of the other party's little quirks, accept different living habits from you, and give the other party enough trust, of course, if the other party commits a very serious crime, violating your moral bottom line and destroying the feelings of both parties, it can never be tolerated, there is absolutely no blind eye in the marriage, but tolerance, trust, but gentle and serious.
Don't worship him too much. Sometimes he's nothing. Believe in yourself.
In marriage, a woman who knows how to respect each other, cherish each other, understand each other, and tolerate each other is the biggest winner in marriage.
Of course, on the basis of understanding her husband, she will coax her husband well, and she will not dilute her feelings because of friction. Generally speaking, they get to know their husband's personality better before marriage. And they are able to go with the flow, no matter how much their husbands promise after marriage, they will not believe all of them. >>>More
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