Why campus love is so fragile

This is immature love, no experience, walking together just because of mutual affection, no responsibility, no future plans, subject to family pressure, school pressure, social pressure, and self-pressure, and it is easy to disperse when encountering shocks.

It's not fragile It's that the love is not deep enough Sometimes, often because I feel that I love too much And the other party can't fully follow the development of my ideal The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment You can try shallow love Just treat the other party as your own family The person closest to you doesn't need to think about each other all the time When he and she need you the most, you don't have too much contact Because love in school often doesn't last too long and you don't necessarily be together after going to society If you're a girl, you have to protect yourself You know?

Some people fall in love on campus like a compulsory course, and they feel that they don't feel perfect if they don't have a good relationship in college, and some people feel imperfect because they want to say to someone who has hurt them, I fell in love, and I found someone who is happy together, but what can I do if I like it, at most, you walked together in school, but people are pursuing reality, especially boys, he will think about his career, and he will not give up because he thinks that he is likely to get married, and when it comes to the social environment, the people with whom he gets along can change What's more, the human heart is the best at change.

It's still small, you don't understand this society, that's why you are vulnerable and can't withstand the blow The main thing is that it's small, intolerable, and can't be generous.

Maybe there are too few reasons to persevere, too many reasons to give up, maybe they don't understand love at all, maybe their self-confidence is not strong, in short, they are still young, and they don't seem to be fully prepared for love.

There are many differences between love on campus and love in Chengtanzi, and here are some of the possible differences:

1.Maturity: Adults are usually more mature in relationships.

They tend to have more life and emotional experiences and are better able to understand and cope with different emotions and problems. In school, due to the lack of life and emotional experience, teenagers are often easily influenced by emotions and impulses when they are in love.

2.Responsible: Adults are usually more responsible in relationships.

They often think about the future and their life together, trying to make themselves and their partner grow in the process of their relationship. They clearly understand that love for one person can have a big impact on the future of two, so they focus more on responsibility for themselves and their partner.

3.Social acceptance: Adult relationships are often more likely to gain social approval. On campus, love is more or less attacked or concerned by peers, while adult love is more concerned with maintaining harmonious interpersonal relationships, as well as the support of family and friends.

4.Purpose of love: Romance on campus is usually the pursuit of romance and pleasure, while adult romance has a more diverse purpose. Adults may consider a variety of factors such as career, financial foundation, family background, personality, etc., to seek a more stable and mature partner.

In conclusion, there are many differences between love on campus and love in adults. Both relationships have their own unique strengths and flaws that promote personal growth and refinement. It is important that each person has the right to choose his or her own relationship style and partner, and that he or she needs to look at it rationally and pay attention to respect, understanding and support for the other person.

1. Campus girls pay more attention to the appearance of boys.

Because on campus, everyone's main task is to study, and in addition to studying, the other thing is to play. So they are not very closely related to the interpersonal interests of society, therefore, the social requirements of girls are very low, so when girls are in love, they pay more attention to the appearance of boys than other things.

Second, campus love, don't talk about each other's social conditions, pay attention to preferences.

As I said earlier, when they fall in love on campus, they don't have a very close relationship with social interests. So naturally, girls usually don't care much about the boy's family conditions or financial strength. What they care about is whether they have the same preferences.

As long as they have the same preferences, they are likely to be together.

Third, the topics of conversation among campus girls are more dreamy.

Because they are on campus, their financial ** is generally given by their parents, and they don't know some of the hardships of living in society, so the topics they talk about are not so close to reality. Therefore, the topic of college students' love on campus is more dreamy, unlike in social love, where the topics are more realistic.

Fourth, the women at the Sheqinshan meeting have a higher standard for choosing a mate than the girls on campus.

When you fall in love socially, girls will first ask you how financially powerful you are. Regardless of whether there is a car or a house, as I just said, the girls in school are more dreamy, and the girls only care about each other's beauty and preferences. Therefore, the requirements of women in society for men are much higher than those of women on campus.

Fifth, the cost of campus love is lower than the cost of social love.

Because they are college students, they don't have the financial **. Their living expenses are all given by their parents. So they are not very demanding in life.

The social environment they are exposed to is more complex and more complex, and they are more concerned about economic needs. Therefore, the cost of social love is much higher than that of campus love.

College student love has its own uniqueness.

This is mainly manifested in the following six aspects:

One is the high purity of college students' love, pure, beautiful and sometimes even simple. Most students fall in love like the heroes and heroines in Qiong Yao's pen, without the pressure of real life, the first priority for men and women is to fall in love seriously. And love is never separated from the solid earth, and love that is divorced from real life is bound to "see the light and die".

The second is the spiritual trait of college students in love. In the choice of lovers, college students pay more attention to mutual recognition at the spiritual level, and the material exchange and reciprocity in secular life will not affect college students. College students even pursue pure love once.

The third is the conflict of college students' love. College students are facing the pressure of their own development, such as graduate school entrance examination, employment, economy, academics, and interpersonal relationships, and falling in love requires a lot of psychological energy.

Fifth, college students are in love, rational and emotional. When choosing their lovers, college students have both emotional impulses and more rational thinking. Think more about whether the two parties are suitable for each other, and put the feeling of being very happy together in the top of the list.

When faced with major life issues such as career choices, lovers often work apart because they can't stay together.

Sixth, the diversity of college students' love. The traditional concept of love is being challenged more than ever on today's college campuses, and today's college students value the immediacy of love more than the previous two decades, and regard love as an independent life task rather than a long-term life goal such as marriage. With the development of the Internet, college students' love is no longer so serious and sacred.

I think this is just a personal opinion of yours, and this is not the mainstream value, so if you don't manage your love yourself, it must be that the love faction is fragile.

Because today's students are very realistic in their thinking, they don't take their feelings too seriously.

There are many tragedies on college campuses because of the failure of love, and such immature love psychology affects Zhou Shenzhi's classmates. For a little thing, quarrel and contradict. Please correct the attitude of both parties in love.

When two people are together, it's like building the Great Wall, it's not that simple. In addition to love, there are many important things in our lives that we need to discover.

2.Getting along with each other is the process of getting to know each other. Promote each other, encourage each other, love should be more of a spice for learning to swim, and love in college is more sincere and simple.

In this material age, college love is also relatively romantic. When the love after work is much less simple, more material and conditional. Correct the relationship between love and career, and academics are the main pillars of college students' sense of value.

If you spend too much time in love, it is a kind of irresponsibility, not only irresponsible to your parents, but also irresponsible to yourself.

3.Love is an intimate relationship between people, and this relationship quickly reveals the shortcomings of both parties. It is difficult to make changes for the other person in a relationship and learn to be tolerant.

It is said that love makes people more confident, and love can also make both parties know how to be tolerant and considerate. Meeting the right person at the right time can last a long time, and these two points are too difficult.