What to do when your child reaches the age of 10 or so and becomes less obedient

At this time, the child is in the rebellious period of adolescence, pay attention to guidance, and do not oppose too much.

Squat down and sit on an equal footing with your child. Understand him with your heart. Give your child more space.

If the child is disobedient, in fact, at this time, it means that the child in the family has been doted on by the elderly, and if he is about 10 years old, he should be strictly educated as a parent.

Be more demanding of your child, give your child some punishment after you do something wrong, and don't spoil your child too much so that you can make your child obedient.

First of all, you must know that the 10-year-old child has a very flexible mind, and he also has his own independent ideas. So you should still go and do some parent-child activities with him to get to know him.

Analyze the reasons for the child's disobedience, such as whether the parents' instructions and behaviors are wrong, or insincere, not setting a good example for the child, or the child is rebellious, entering the chain and destroying adolescence, and has a sense of independence. If there is the above-mentioned Wang Zheng problem, the symptom should be corrected in time;

The child can calm down, communicate well with emotional stability, understand what is the reason for his sometimes disobedience, and then prescribe the right medicine. Don't scold the child when he is disobedient, which is very unhealthy for the child's Huaishu character development. At the same time, it also has a negative impact on the communication of parent-child relationship.

You should give your child a little free space, and when communicating with your child, you should give advice to your child in an appropriate way, rather than a coercive command.

1. Reasonable requirements of parents. If parents have the phenomenon of responding to their children's requirements, or will meet all the unreasonable requirements of their children, it is easy to cause children to have a very strong temper, and parents can reasonably meet the children's requirements.

2. Understanding. When the child has a strong phenomenon, we must communicate with the child to understand the reason why they solve the problem in this way, and then express understanding of the reason why the child shows toughness, so that the child can understand that another way to solve the problem, so that the child can have the motivation to understand each other and alleviate the formation of the child's temper.

3. Communicate more. In order to change the child's temperament and personality, parents should create opportunities for their children to communicate with others, and take their children to play with peers of the same age. Parents should also communicate more with their children in daily life, so that children can slowly change their personality when communicating with others.

4. Be patient with your children. Many ten-year-old children are grumpy because their parents are impatient with them, and they have developed such a habit since childhood, so the child's temper will become particularly short-tempered. In this case, parents should change the way they treat their children and make themselves more patient with their children.

5. Avoid imposing your own will on your children. No matter how young a child is, he is an independent individual, not to mention that the child is already ten years old, so parents cannot impose their own wishes on them. Ten-year-olds already have their own joys and sorrows, and parents should not ask their children to do things according to their own wishes.

1. To touch Liang Ling, change his bad behavior and set a good example for his children. If one of the parents is short-tempered, it will also cause the child to lose his temper easily and be disobedient.

2. Listen to children's ideas, ten-year-old children already have the ability to think independently and have their own thoughts, so parents should communicate more with their children. If there are a lot of disobedient adults or other children around your child, you can consider changing your child's living environment to reduce the exposure of bad behaviors to your child. When the child has a tantrum, it is best not to scold or hit the child, which is very unhealthy for the child's character development and should be guided gently.