Friends take advantage of your performance, friends don t take you seriously and take advantage of y

1.The person who gossips about you behind your back. When you think you have a good relationship with a person, and you find that he says bad things about you behind his back, are you very disappointed in this person?

But I didn't, and I was foolish enough to think that he pointed out my mistake so that I could correct it. We usually go to dinner together and exchange ideas at work, but there is one thing I later found out that he rarely talks about him. At a more important meeting, because he was going to meet a customer, he was late because of a traffic jam, and a lot of bonuses were deducted if the business was not negotiated.

When I bought something to see him, he didn't even look at it, I kept reassuring him that it was okay, and he suddenly said, "Don't be pretending, I don't do a good job, can't you be promoted?" Don't think I don't know what you think. "I really paid for this, and since then, I've become more cautious about making friends.

2.Someone who will take advantage of you. Use your help to do all kinds of things, saying that everyone is friends, so let's help.

He was very enthusiastic about me, and our relationship developed so quickly that we could even wear a pair of pants. He is more enthusiastic, basically I will not refuse any request he makes, and will even be very enthusiastic to help him solve the problem. The company works a lot of overtime, and he asks me to help him work overtime from time to time, once or twice I think it's nothing, but over time I feel a little unwilling.

Later, because I didn't help him because of something, he lost his temper directly at me, and then scolded me, I couldn't stand this and slapped him directly. Looking back now, I think he is quite shrewd, and he seems to be very arrogant, but in fact, he can inadvertently find your shortcomings, and then use you in various ways.

3.Someone who is hot and cold to you. Sometimes I keep talking to you all day long, shushing you and offering warmth, and sometimes I don't answer the news for two or three days in a row, and I will only look for you when I need you.

Hot and cold will make you can't figure out his thoughts, you think he is very good to you, and when he ignores you, he comforts himself for that he is not available, but in fact, he doesn't care. How else could it be? If you are not dispensable, how can he be hot and cold?

The hot and cold is not the reason for the personality, but the difference between treating people is different, and it is impossible to treat everyone like this. Sometimes it's really easy to hurt people, and when you want to find it, you can't find anyone. People who don't care about your feelings, don't wait sincerely, just treat each other as guests, there is no need to communicate too much.

Friends who take advantage of your performance will look for you when they need you, and they won't see you at all when they don't need you, and these friends will just take advantage of you.

If a friend takes advantage of you, he will always ask you for help, but when you ask him for help, he will refuse you, so don't associate with him.

The performance of others using you is that they will beg you to do all kinds of things, or take advantage of your kindness, but they will not help you, and if you ask him for something, he will not agree to you.

If there are no special circumstances, the relationship between friends is generally stable, and if there is an abnormality, you should be careful.

1.Usually normal to you, but suddenly very kind to you, everything goes along with you, is very warm to you, and sends you things, then be careful.

2.If a friend or other party has recently experienced certain situations, the first thing they think of is their relatives and friends to help, such as a recent lack of money or being bullied, etc., you should pay attention.

Take advantage of your typical performance, that is, he will come to you when there is something, and he will never come to you when he has nothing to do, as long as he comes to you, he will definitely have something more or less wrong.

When a friend takes advantage of you, he will be very good and caring about you, and he will say something very thoughtful, and he will be very good to you, and you will help him.

Friends take advantage of your performance, then such friends are not true friends, they can say that it is very unrealistic, just say what you like to hear.

If your friend takes advantage of you, then he will come to you for help when he has a problem, and he will not contact you when he has nothing to do.

Ordinary friends use you to do things that you can do so far, but let you do it.

There are dangerous things, he doesn't go, he asks you to do it.

If you are responsible, he will not go, he will let you do it.

It's all an expression that is being taken advantage of.

If a friend is taking advantage of you, he will definitely not think about you everywhere, but only say some superficial things. High-sounding thing. The real purpose. You should also be able to see that there is a set of patience on the surface.

Friends take advantage of your performance. When a friend uses you, he asks you to go to the leader, and that is called using you.

This one could be taking your stuff as a gift, giving it to someone else, or using you to know someone else.

Friends use your performance when you use it, contact you every day to send you delicious food, and ignore it when you don't use it.

There are many ways for friends to use themselves, such as using themselves to achieve their own ulterior secrets, or using themselves to get various benefits.

Everything hides you, and the use of your performance should be to look down on you, let you pay for it, and contribute your efforts.

Of course, if we think that we can do this kind of thing in particular, I think it's good, otherwise, I don't think that such a thing is particularly existent, so it can be in all aspects. I think that if we don't take it seriously or go to connect with a lot of things.

He works well for you when he's looking for you, he doesn't contact you when he's looking for you, and he's always busy when you use him.

Friends take advantage of your performance, then see the essence of the person, and the essence of the heart of a person.

You meet that friend who takes advantage of your performanceWell, that, if you want to go shopping in someone else's street, I think it's okay if you don't make such a friend, you agree to take advantage of your performance.

If he takes advantage of you, he will not be so good to you in normal times, and he will take the initiative to look for you, but when he looks for you, he must be for his own benefit.

It's that my friends will ask me for help, and then I find that only I can help with this matter.

He asks you to do everything, and everything you do is good for him.

If a friend takes advantage of you, he says something nice in front of you.

Friends sometimes use each other, especially if you have some abilities, he will use you, he has some abilities, and you will sometimes use them, but it is all mutual.

Say I'm doing this for your own good, you see I take you with me every time, is it a friend who cares about helping with this little favor?

If a friend uses your performance to do something, I don't think that kind of friend is really a friend.

What an infuriating thing it is to be used by friends, friends should treat each other with sincerity, how to talk about the use of it?

If you have this problem, it means that there is a problem with this friendship.

When you need help, all kinds of kind words, enthusiasm, when you don't need you, you can't find others, or all kinds of excuses from the other party;

He remembers what you say very well when communicating with you, and will use what you have said to dig a trap for you when he needs your help at any time;

When I see you, maybe I don't say hello, maybe I just say hi;

In front of outsiders, he pretended to be very twenty-five or eighty-thousand, but in fact it was not a thing;

There are many such people, and it is easy to distinguish, because you can see that he must not be like this only to you, usually this kind of person is more snobbish and more materialistic, of course, not all material people are like this, and they are also divided into people.

It doesn't matter if you meet this kind of person, people are heart-to-heart, true friends won't let you feel this way, if you meet it, you will be unlucky, buy a lesson, and then alienate him, I hope it will help you.

I need help looking for you, and I don't need to ignore you.

A true friend will help you when you are poor, forgive you when you are in trouble, comfort you when you are lost, stand up when you are insulted, and not covet your wealth when you are prosperous.

You used to be very good friends, but in high school, because of her fear, did you help her, did you understand why she was afraid, since you are very good friends, you filial piety should help each other, don't tell Feng to ignore it, if this continues, I think your friendship will gradually disappear. Whenever you have a bonus, she should be happy for you as a good friend, but her psychology is a little unbalanced. This is understandable, but her approach is too much, I think you really want to establish a friendship with her, it is recommended that you must make it clear to her, take the initiative to ask her why she would say your thoughts to her like this, to understand her and care about her, good friends will not forget that friendship because of the distance gap.

If it's hard to speak, you can use a small note or something, and communicate in writing, maybe she will reject you because she is jealous, but you really want to return to the previous friendship, don't give up. I believe you can do it. Simply portable.

She's unbalanced! Don't be too ostentatious, talk to her about what you're thinking.

...This one. Maybe she didn't want to face that side of her.

She's jealous of you for ignoring her.