If you get married, should you continue to work outside the home, or should you go home and develop?

Since you are married, you should be responsible, I think you should go home, or the two of you should come out and work together.

If you don't make your own choices, you hurt yourself and others!

Make up your own mind!

Is it to completely cut off contact with your ex-boyfriend or divorce your current husband?

Actually, you said it yourself; "I met my husband on a blind date", "I often quarrel with my husband", "In fact, I have a better relationship with my ex-boyfriend", "In fact, all kinds of signs indicate that you are more inclined to your ex-boyfriend!

But then again, does your ex-boyfriend really not care that you've already taken over the marriage? Is it really love you? Can you guarantee that he will not have this knot in his heart in the future?

Think for yourself!

Now that you have made your choice, there is no need to regret it, it is inevitable that two people will be separated from each other for a long time! Now that we're married, let's go together, either let my husband come out and develop together, or go home and develop together! If you have abandoned you once, you will have a second time!

It's better not to make such a bet on the happiness of your life!

No matter what, you must work, this is a must, your husband has to come out to work, and if you have children, the children must be taken with you. We must constantly contact and communicate with the outside world, otherwise we will soon be eliminated from society. Children must constantly receive new knowledge, not to the older generation in the family.

Otherwise, it will cultivate the mind of your elder. Do you understand?

If you get married, live with your husband and go back. If 2 people are not together, anything can happen!

Let's go home and develop and live a good life with my husband.

Let's go back and work hard with your husband!

If you really love her, find a way to develop with her.

Yes, a friend of mine is married and childless and looking for a job, and people don't want him anymore when they hear that they have a boyfriend.

Clause. First, the issue of attitude.

Women have children is most of the necessary matters, you can't not get married because of work, don't want children, can't change the matter of getting married and having children, you need to change your attitude towards getting married and having children, face it calmly, and learn to enjoy the beautiful process of getting married and having children. Although there will be short-term conflicts between life and work, in the long run, there is no need to feel guilty, stressed, and unhappy at work.

Clause. Second, the question of time.

For working women who plan to get married, they can stabilize their jobs before marriage, and it is recommended to at least 6 months to 1 year, because of your stability, coupled with their own stability, Liang Jianpai's better performance at work will give HR and the company boss a positive impression, have a sense of trust in you and you can bring good value to the company, naturally the company is willing to look down on you, and give you a few months of pregnancy welfare salary.

Secondly, don't be in a hurry to resign within 6 months after pregnancy, keep a stable state, handle the things within your responsibilities, and restore your vitality according to your previous work performance. Companies like employees who are less stable than they do.

Third, the issue of capacity.

Workplace ability is mainly manifested in the ability to complete work, the ability of professional plates, interpersonal skills, communication skills, and skills to do things. We need to pay attention to the continuous improvement of our comprehensive work ability, do not stop learning, and strengthen our self-cultivation. Naturally handling colleague relationships and completing work efficiently are all indispensable killer features.

The company is different, the mechanism is different, the situation is different, you can cultivate yourself, and choose the one that suits you! The premise is that we should focus on one of our own advantages, just like Xiao Tang of a training company, his own professional skills are very strong, his personality is good, and his emotional intelligence is relatively high, and the relationship between colleagues has precipitated!

Not only in the case of not getting pregnant after marriage, but also in terms of the salary of many enterprises and the gender ratio of the company's senior management, women are slightly disadvantaged, and it cannot be ruled out that the traditional Chinese male protagonist and female protagonist have become a major factor! But the current situation is that women have to face going to work in addition to getting married, having children, taking care of children, cleaning up housework, etc.! Therefore, women's workplaces are relatively bumpy!

This is necessary to have some preparation for forward-looking planning, otherwise willful job hopping or no clear career plan will lead to career choice and loss of confidence! I hope you can continue to improve yourself, coupled with reasonable planning, to win a piece of the sky in your career!

After getting married, as long as conditions permit, of course, you can continue to work, and it is necessary to have your own job.

Personally, I think you should go out to work after getting married, because you are already a person with a family, and when you are no longer alone, you are full and the whole family is not hungry.

Because the family is for two people, or four people (including parents), the expenses are naturally large, if you don't go out to work, do you still want to wait for your husband to support you?Wake up, don't when people don't want you, you don't even have the ability to be self-reliant, that's really a sadness.

Especially women, they should go out to work, no matter when, they should maintain their independence, they will not even have the ability to survive because of others, go out to work, have their own income, buy whatever they want, and don't have to look at the eyes of others.

So, whether you're at home because you've had a baby, or whatever, you should have a job of your own and won't let others look down on you.

After getting married, you must go out to work, don't work ** have income to support the family, especially women need to work more after marriage!

It's scary for a woman to not have a job, and then you will be very dependent on your man. The more dependent you are, the more self-righteous some men will become. I feel that you can't do without him, and after a long time, you really can't do without your man.

So naturally, it became passive. If one party always becomes very compromised in the marriage, in this way, as long as there is a slight disturbance, it will set off a huge wave of marriage.

In short, when a woman works, she is independent, confident, noble, generous, and her friendship, family and love are handled easily, measured, and responsible, and she is not attached to anyone or bound by anyone. In fact, there is a big difference before and after marriage, whether it is in life or love, there will be great changes. Therefore, women, if you are still in love and spend your married life, then this marriage will end in divorce sooner or later.

Suitable, very suitable, what's wrong with going out to work.

If you are a housewife at home, choosing to deal with pots and pans at home is actually a manifestation of value, which is also something that money cannot measure.

All the contributions of women at home are insignificant in the eyes of men and outsiders, and it is easy to say that women are spending men's money.

Since being a full-time wife, not only can you not get due respect, but it will make men think that they are a parasite, women rely on men for food and clothing, and women will naturally lack confidence in front of men in marriage, and even buy a favorite dress to see the man's face!

And a housewife gives the best to her husband and children, but what she leaves to herself is full of devastation and vicissitudes! They have spent their lives in the shadow of their husbands and children, knowing what they love most and forgetting what they love most.

Suitable. Maintaining one's financial independence is important at all times.

Suitable. There is no rule that you can't work if you get married, and the state also advocates that women should be self-reliant.

Yes, many people will continue to work when they get married, after all, life is stressful now, and it is always easier for multiple people to share the burden.

Suitable, why not go out to work? Work is to have your own circle, and not to disconnect from society can be self-confident and improve your ability. Women, in particular, must have their own jobs, which may not pay well. But once there is a problem in the marriage, it will not be wronged!

I think it's appropriate, as long as you want to go out and work, that's suitable.

Absolutely. Whoever stipulates that if you get married, you must stay at home and be a yellow-faced woman.

Yes, being a housewife is just an option.

Marriage is just a part of life, and there is no conflict with work. And don't work where do you get your income.

Suitable, going out to work or being a housewife, these are the two choices for women.

How inappropriate, no matter when, a woman needs a job that can support herself, and when you reach out for money, you are already inferior in front of his family.

If you want to go out and work, and you have a strong desire to work, then go to work. There is nothing suitable for inappropriateness.

It's not appropriate not to work, I quit my job when I was pregnant, the reaction during pregnancy was too great, and I was scolded by my family for being worthless, and I don't want to pay attention to them until now.

Don't you work when you get married? My thinking is that if you get married or not, you have to go to work!

After I get married, I will choose to start my own business.

Why don't you work? If you get married, you don't have to eat and spend money on things?