What should I do if I fall out with my best friend?

Since it's best friends.

Generally, there will be no trouble, after all, everyone has the same interests and is like-minded. But if it's really a trouble, I think this is usually a difference of opinion on a very big issue, or a misunderstanding, resulting in a huge conflict or change in the original image of one party in the other party's mind and cognition, and the other party will think: I am blind and know people like you.

I also call you a brother and a little sister.

But since it happened, the friendship should not be wasted, after all, friendship can sometimes bring more strength to a person than marriage. So the first thing to do at this time is to give the other party and yourself a little time to calm down. Get things straight:

Is it a certain link or a certain point in the process of dealing with the other party, or is it the inconsiderate consideration of your own ** that makes the other party misunderstood.

After finding this point, find a way to contact the other party, at this time I highly recommend that you can write an email, or write a WeChat message. The written kind, not the language. Because what is written is something that you have thought about, it will also attract the attention of the other party.

After all, letters seem old, but the meaning is more rational and powerful than a voice or face-to-face communication.

Furthermore, you can ask your mutual friends to analyze the matter together, figure it out, and explain it clearly. No matter which side seems more reasonable, it doesn't matter at this time, reconciliation is the most important, and there is an opportunity to explain after reconciliation.

After thinking about it, I really don't know how to make a trade-off. I understand that always confiding in someone about their pain can make that person feel bad. This is human nature, and there is nothing wrong with it.

You're right, and so is she. It's really hard to evaluate, everyone has their own life and doesn't want others to interfere too much. So she chose to stay away.

But that's not a reason why you can't continue to be friends, at least not sufficiently. Moreover, if there is a conflict, the sooner it is to deal with it between friends, the better, and the longer it drags on, the more difficult it is to repair. Half a year has passed, and I'm afraid that both of you will give up.

So, I don't think it's better to force this friendship. Because she can't decide everything for herself anymore, and she doesn't have to. The first time I persuaded someone to give up a friendship, it was very heart-wrenching.

1. This matter is more serious, although it is forgiven, it will take a while to digest, so it will take half a year to buffer. In this case, the subject will come according to the request of a friend, don't just dangle in front of people's eyes if you have nothing to do, buffer for a period of time and then pay sincerely.

2. This matter is particularly serious, saying that forgiveness is just unwilling to tear up the face with the subject, that is, I don't want to be friends, half a year is just an excuse, then the subject needs to disappear for a while, so as to let time weaken the other party's resistance, and then make a roundabout recovery.

3. When getting along, we should take the principle of not causing trouble to each other, remember! I know that losing a good friend is like losing a love. Everyone understands the reason, but it's another thing to think about it yourself.

I've been separated from my best friend for almost four years, but recently I feel like I'm starting to forget about her. It's also like you, I used to be introverted, she was lively, and I always thought that I was now me after her help. So I can't forget her.

Now you may just be dissatisfied with your current life, thinking that no better person has appeared around you and that there is no better life waiting for you. I suggest you go out and walk more, meet more people, get out and meet other people, and make more friends. If you know more people, you will find that life is still very good, and there are still many kind people.

As for her, if she doesn't want to contact you, don't contact you, it's pointless to force something, be strong, and walk your own way, and when you become better, your mood will be more open. At the time, it may have been a thing of the past for you. <>

Apologize when you should apologize, and apologize when you should be. I quarreled with my best friend because of a trivial matter before, and I didn't contact him for 4 days, and finally I couldn't bear it anymore, and after thinking about it, it didn't seem like a big deal, after all, if I lost him, the price would be too great. "I'm not angry anymore.

He replied to me with a pig's head expression, and replied in seconds. The mood was instantly relieved. Because I would be sad to think that if I ignore me, I will lose him.

Of course, who is right and who is wrong still has to be said, for example, he has a bad temper, and the **** is not doing it right, so it makes me angry. However, all this is something that will be discussed in detail after the relationship between friends is restored. It's never worth losing big.

If you think he's a good friend, redeem it. <>

Let it be, if it's my fault I'll admit it, if it is, if it's her, I want to admit it. As far as I am concerned, only by sincerely admitting my mistakes can I make an example. It is also the root cause and source of the error.

If you really break up, forget it, each has its own way, but it won't break out the other party's secrets, so it's the last thing you did for your friends.

Maintain the relationship first with three chances.

One. Apologize in person.

Two. Make an appointment for dinner at a time.

Three. Apologies again.

If that doesn't work, I'll make other friends.

The earth doesn't revolve around you. There is no need to spend too much effort on a person.

Don't apologize, go their own way, don't think about it, just go with the flow.

We all have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and principled things cannot be forgiven.

The basis for friends to get along is mutual respect, and if you don't have this one, you will break it.

Don't do it, everyone is fine! Try to forget about this person, even if it's a difficult process.

I knew it, but I didn't apologize, and then it got farther and farther away, and it became the heartache I once had.

If you break up with good friends, you won't hold grudges, and you will be reconciled as before, personal opinion.

There is no feast in the world that will not be dispersed.

The best friend is his confidant and one of the people closest to him. ......You should be close to your best friend, and there should be no conflict.

However, despite the closeness of friends, conflicts can still arise. ......Once the conflict expands, it may affect the feelings between each other. If the situation is severe, it may affect the friendship between each other.

When you fall out with your best friend, you may regret it.

However, whether you will regret it or not depends on the specific situation.

If it is because of your mistakes that your friendship with your friends has been affected and the two sides have fallen out, then you should regret it and take active measures to make amends.

If you apologize in time, your friends will forgive you and get back together with you.

However, if it is because of the following two reasons that cause a falling out between friends, you don't have to regret it.

1. Friends are at fault.

2. Disagreement with each other.

In the above two cases, the former is not because of his own fault, so he does not need to regret it.

In the latter case, friendship cannot be maintained when good friends are no longer like-minded with each other, ......After all, friendship is based on like-minded ......

When the latter happens, it means that they are no longer suitable to be friends with each other. ......In this way, there is no regret about breaking up with someone who is no longer suitable to be friends, let alone regretting it.

Let me tell you about my experience.

I had a very good friend in junior high school, and I didn't fall out with him, to be precise, he ignored me unilaterally, because he probably had some conflict with his girlfriend at the time, and I liked his girlfriend at the time, and he knew about ......itNow that I think about it, maybe it was because the girl told him something, and after I reconciled with him, it didn't take long for them to break up, and he advised me to stay away from that girl.

It was many years ago, I don't remember it very clearly, I just remember that he completely ignored me at that time, went out with other friends, couldn't get in touch, I contacted the person who went with him, and the person said, "I want to hit you when I hear it", I think he should have said something about me, but I didn't ask.

The moment I reconciled with him was when he suddenly contacted me and asked if I could help him with his homework, and I said yes, and the next day it was the same as before, and no one mentioned it again.

At that time, I also wondered if I was still valuable to him, such as helping him with his homework or something, so that he could reconcile with me? Because I was naïve then. Later, I got to know him very well, and I have been good friends for more than ten years, and if I think about it, this is not the case at all.

I have a very bad temper, and I often get angry because of some small things, and he often tolerates me, of course, it has nothing to do with homework, because then he and I stopped doing homework, and every night we skipped away from self-study and went to the Internet café, and there was no interest in it.

Now that I think about it, he suddenly asked me to help him with his homework, not that I had the value of helping him with his homework, in fact, he was just asking for reconciliation, but it was very awkward, because he wanted to save face, so he wanted to reconcile with his children with his parents, and he wanted to save face, and finally he could only say "eat" to release an awkward kindness.

I have been good friends with him for more than ten years, I say this to let you know that many people have experienced similar things, thinking back carefully over the past few years, from junior high school to the present, I found that when I was a middle school student, I often became very nervous because of a friend's words, a burst of emotion, as if there was a "The Legend of Zhen Huan" hidden in that voice.

When you are a student, in addition to studying, you only have to make friends, so you will take it very seriously, and the more you look at it, the more clearly you can see the shortcomings of others. Conflicts are magnified, friendships are also magnified, and there are contradictions with friends, as if it is a big thing, which can make people feel uneasy all day long, turn their faces, as if they want to die and never get along, is this a deep hatred? Your friendship with him has not reached the point of turning your face into an enmity.

What really keeps you out of contact with him is yourself, you are now at a loss, you want your friend to come back to you, but you feel that this person is not worth it, you are addicted to the bitterness and sweetness of memories, and you have no idea about the future.

Guessing how scheming others are, complaining about oneself and staying at this step, constantly reinforcing one's negative emotions, this is the source of suffering. It's not that you have to explain yourself, others don't have so much scheming, and it's not that you should tell yourself every day that you should have positive energy, so that doing it will cause new pain.

What did you fall out with your best friend about? Do you regret it when you think about it later?

Article**1 is nothing, just because her life and I are drifting apart, whether it is the topic vision or life, planning, childhood close friends gradually only have a common childhood, we can no longer continue to share life.

I used to take everything too seriously, and when I made a friend, I wanted to treat her as the closest person, but unfortunately people didn't think so.

Because of money, it's a very vulgar thing.

Because she doesn't reply to my messages.

I do exercise at home every day, roll my legs, sweat, and after more than 30 years of recovery, when school starts, she spreads liposuction to others.

Article**2 He told my secret to others and broke it without regretting it at all.

There was no trouble, but it gradually faded.

Because of time, because she lost her desire to share, because she also had other good friends, because our three views seemed to gradually begin to separate, when the former good friends slowly returned to plain, it was really uncomfortable.

Silly child, best friends don't break up, and the designation of trouble is not the best friend.

Three views, she thinks that Xiao San is right. No regrets.

Article**3: One set in front of the back, one set behind the annoyance!!

She secretly helped my nasty green tea chase my boyfriend.

I didn't break up, but because of the intersection, there were fewer and fewer intersections, and then they became untouched.

A group of three people Two people quit the group I talked in the group for a long time before I found out that I was the only one with the avatar It turned out that no one told me about the new group Later, they posted in the circle of friends that they are not old, we will never betray you Match the ** of both sides, and then praise each other Hehe.

Gradually, it became three people who were tired and quit.

Actually, it's not a big problem, it's just that each other is too stubborn. However, we all care about this friendship, when we hug our heads and cry, I know that we can't disperse, we care about each other. Reflect on your own problems and strive to be a qualified friend.

Because of different sexual orientations, friendship and love are really difficult to grasp.

didn't make a fuss, but you obviously feel that she is alienating you, and you can't find the reason, and she doesn't admit it when you ask her, so it's very tired, and it's too difficult to socialize, because I pay attention to her as a friend, and I have always been passive I took the initiative to get closer to her, but she pushed away again and again without saying anything, and she was very tired ......

I regarded her as my only and best friend, and because of her relationship, I rejected other friends, and I thought that she had experienced her, and I thought the same thing as me, and in the end, I found out that I was the only fool, and she had already had a new circle of friends, like a fish in water, and I was the only one who was still standing still.