Does the daughter have to go on the day the parents erect the monument?

On the day when the parents erected the monument, it is best for all the children to show their filial piety, and I think it is more auspicious if you go, if you don't go, no one will say anything now.

This is definitely what you should go, your parents should go to erect a monument and your children should go, and the daughter who marries according to customs and habits will give her parents a red show of mourning.

On the day when the parents erected the monument, the daughter did not stipulate that she must go, but on the day when the parents erected the monument, as a daughter, as a filial child, she would get the capital of her parents.

Yes, the erection of the monument by the parents is a ritual and commemoration after their death, and it is a must to go as a daughter with a direct blood relationship.

Parents erect monuments, if there are no boys, of course girls have to go to their parents' monuments, if there are no boys, of course girls have to go, if there are boys, women don't have to go.

Does the daughter have to go on the day the parents erect the monument? According to the traditional customs of our country, on the day when the parents erect the monument, women are not allowed to be present, not only daughters are not allowed to marry daughters-in-law, but only sons and aunts can be present at the scene.

This doesn't have to be, if it's a cemetery. When the monument is erected, relatives do not need to be present.

Of course, the daughter must arrive on the day the parents erect the monument, which is the responsibility of the daughter.

If you are a girl, the girl must go on the day of the monument, because it is just a child, and if there is a boy, the girl can not go.

On the day when the parents erect the monument, the daughter and son must go, and such a big thing must go.

Does the daughter have to go on the day the parents erect the monument? On the day when the parents erect the monument, it is best for the daughter to be present at the scene.

Definitely, as a daughter, she can remember her parents, and this is the only thing.

own parents, that must go, send the last ride.

If the parents don't carry it, does the daughter have to go that day?

I think it's better to take a look.

After all, it is the parents, regardless of the son, the daughter is so big.

Don't be too feudal and superstitious, so the parents must be present on the day they leave their daughter.

That's what should be done, right?

On the day when parents erect the monument, children should go.

Are you embarrassed to ask such a thing as a daughter? Anyway, it's also a parent's business, how can you not be there? Your parents really raised you for nothing!

On the day your parents erected the monument, you should go to see how the monument is erected and whether it meets your requirements. If you don't look at it, how do you know if it's standing well or not, and whether you're satisfied or not.

Does the daughter have to go on the day the parents erect the monument? Personally, I think that at a special time like this, a daughter or son must be present, after all, it is a major event in the family.

If it is according to some previous traditions, it must not be written, because there is a certain reason for this. Erecting a monument is a very traditional culture in our country, in the past, people always thought that sons-in-law and daughters-in-law were not related by blood, so under normal circumstances, the names of sons, grandsons and daughters would be written on the monument. But not all of them are written like this, and it is up to the family to discuss and make a decision.

There are so many places in China, in fact, the customs of each place are different, for example, I am in a small county town in Hubei, almost all people in our place will write the names of their daughters-in-law and sons-in-law when they erect monuments to their parents, because this means that we are all a family, if people have a good relationship now, and then you don't write their names, what does this mean? Don't you just think of them as a family? Even if you are a generous person, you will definitely have a heart for this matter, and you will definitely feel uncomfortable.

In the past, many people would write the name of their daughter-in-law, because the daughter-in-law would be their own after marrying into this family, but the son-in-law married his daughter, so they still thought they were outsiders in their hearts. But later, with the reform and opening up, people's minds are relatively open, whether it is a son-in-law or a daughter-in-law will write their names, which means that we are a family that loves each other and will not favor one over the other.

However, with the development of society, there are some new changes, because the current divorce rate is too high, if you say that their names are written, it will be very inconvenient once divorced. There are some people who are very concerned about these things, and they will think that I have already divorced you, why is my name still on the tombstone of your parents? It's a very bad feeling, so whether or not to write a name is still decided according to the family's consultation, not just casually.

Whether it is a son or a daughter, you can erect a monument to your parents. A daughter-in-law or son-in-law can also erect a monument to her in-laws (father-in-law). It is okay for the younger generation to erect a monument for the elders.

Summary. Good evening kiss, I'm Xiaodu, I'm happy to answer for you. Of course, a daughter can erect a monument to her parents, but in ancient times, when a daughter got married, she was no longer in her mother's family, so she had no right to erect a tombstone for her parents, and this could be handled by relatives like nephews.

Now, with the exception of a very small number of closed villages, where every village is owned by a family, there will be no other problems.

Good evening kiss, I'm Xiaodu, I'm happy to answer for you. Of course, a daughter can erect a monument to her parents, but in ancient times, when a daughter got married, she was no longer in her mother's family, so she had no right to erect a tombstone for her parents, and this could be handled by relatives like nephews. Now, except for a very small number of closed villages, and every village is a family, there will be no other problems.

If a daughter covers the grave and erects a monument to her deceased parents, it will be a filial piety with immeasurable merit. If Lichang is from the burial of the old man to the grave and the erection of the monument, it is the unmarried daughter who will be in charge of the affairs and management, and this girl will completely replace the boy with ideas! In the future, this girl will be terrible, and she will do a big thing!

So daughters can erect monuments to their parents.

The particulars of erecting a monument for parents include: the selection of the day the monument is erected, the orientation, and the texture and color of the monument.

1. Selection of the day of the monument

In terms of feng shui day selection, there are two time periods in a year when there is no need to choose a day, one of which is to add soil to the grave, erect monuments, plant trees and other yin house matters before and after the Qingming Festival, which is why people focus on all yin house matters to deal with during the Qingming Festival.

2. Facing

This operation is very professional, and it is necessary to accurately locate it with a compass according to the direction of the flowing water, the direction of the terrain, the direction of the pit and pond, etc.

3. The texture and color of the tablet

The material stele is the best, and it is resistant to weathering. The color of the stele should be black or gray, black and gray have a sense of dignified, and the color is a cold color, yin, and it is also suitable for the use of yin house, and can not use bright colors. Among them, according to the Bagua Palace position in the direction (front) of the stele, it is appropriate to be gray to the south and not black, and black to the east and southeast rather than gray.

The best time to erect a monument

Regarding the time of erecting the monument, there are two periods of time in a year that do not have to choose a day, one is the Qingming Festival, and the other is the winter solstice, the Qingming Festival is the traditional Chinese tomb sacrifice ancestral auspicious day, before and after the Qingming Festival, all the yin house matters such as adding soil to the tomb, erecting the monument, planting trees, etc., are not taboo, which is also the reason why people focus on all the yin house matters to deal with on the Qingming Festival.

Of course, the monument of the Qingming Festival should not be too far away from the Qingming Festival, and should be within half a month of the week before the Qingming Festival and the next half of the week. If you want to erect a monument at other times, you must choose an auspicious day of the zodiac, and do not clash with the deceased person who erected the monument, so as to prevent bringing disadvantages to your relatives and burying future troubles. Acceptance.

Summary. Hello, I'm glad for your question, if according to the customs and habits handed down in our country, daughters do not erect monuments to their parents.

Hello, I'm glad for your question, if according to the customs and habits handed down in our country, daughters do not erect monuments to their parents.

It is the son who erects a monument to his parents.

But now there is a problem, our country has been in place since the 90s, the one-child system.

Therefore, many families have one child and no boys, so with the development of the times, in families without men, daughters can also erect monuments to their parents.

Because in the past, the reason why men erected monuments to their parents was that the feudal ideology was at work, and the daughters were married, not their own family branches, but with the development of the times, each family has a child, so daughters can also erect monuments to their parents and answer.

Summary. Hello Qinqin is happy to answer for you, can a daughter erect a monument to her parents: completely yes, what era is it now, and it is still important to pay attention to patriarchy, and there is a difference between children and daughters?

They are all children born to a mother, and daughters have the same rights and obligations as sons, and if you look at this, the family will be more harmonious and happy, and the family will be more prosperous.

Hello Qinqin is very happy to answer for you, can a daughter erect a monument to her parents: It's completely okay, what is the era of the service group now, and it still pays attention to patriarchy, and there is a difference between sons and daughters? It is a mother who gave birth to Tongyou's children, and daughters have the same rights and obligations as sons.

Extended information: Now our country's family planning policy of "one couple, one child" has been in place for decades. There are many families with "only daughters" and "two daughters". Moreover, the first batch of family planning practitioners have already been implemented.

Sixth, seventh rent is ten years old. There are a few heads of hidden people who have gone to the grave, and the great. Some people are growing old irresistibly.

Daughters can't erect monuments for their fathers" prejudice, must. Eliminate. "The daughter erected a monument for her father" with"Men erect monuments for their fathers" - should not be discriminated against by society.

Hello, very happy to solve the problem for you. If his parents are alive, if his son dies, he can erect a monument to him, and the key is whether his parents are willing to erect a monument to their son! Because we know that the relationship between parents and sons and the depth of feelings depends on the things before and after the son's death, if you say that your son has done a lot of good things before his birth, and he is also very filial to his parents, when the son dies, his parents will definitely give you a monument, but if this son is a bad person who does all kinds of evil before his death, I believe that his father and mother are not willing to erect a monument to him!

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Summary. Hello dear! Glad to answer for you :

Parents can erect a monument for their deceased son, and parents can erect a tablet for their son, which according to traditional Chinese writing, should be the position of the deceased male ooo, or the spiritual seat of the deceased male ooo. It is better to write it this way, in line with the auspicious number of the minor ecliptic. If you want to conform to the ecliptic, just remove one word.

In addition, the number of words on the tombstone should also be specified to meet the auspicious number, and the specific tablet is about the same, and the back position is replaced by the tomb or the good-sounding one. Just change the spiritual position to a good city. If you don't understand, you can ask again, I hope mine can help you, I wish you a happy life, good health, and all the best!

Hello dear! I am glad to answer for you: parents can erect a monument for their deceased sonParents can erect a tablet for their son According to the traditional Chinese way of writing, it should be demolished is the position of the deceased male ooo, or the spiritual seat of the deceased male ooo.

It is better to write it this way, in line with the auspicious number of the minor ecliptic. If you want to conform to the ecliptic, just remove one word. In addition, the number of words should be specified in line with the auspicious number, and the specific tablet is about the same, and the back position is replaced by the tomb or the good-sounding point.

Just change the spiritual position to a good city. If you don't understand, you can ask again, I hope mine can help you, I wish you a happy life, good health, and all the best!

We are happy to serve you: write the text in the middle part of the tombstone, the text is more common to start with the son and the daughter, if you use ancient Chinese, the unicorn is more common, if there are more children, you can stand according to the order of the eldest and youngest, for example, the tomb of the eldest son, the tomb of the third son. In the body of the text, it should be noted that it must comply with the "synonosis" rule.

In the inscription writing, there are strict requirements for the number of words, and people must follow the law of the cycle of "birth, old age, sickness and death" to find the location of the two words of life and old, corresponding to the same number of words, 1, 2, 6, 7, 11, 12, 16, 17 ......, but because the age of the children does not exceed the parents, the number of words can only be born, not old, so it can only be 6, 11, 16, 21 ......and so on, but the children do not have so many prefixes and suffixes to write, so the vast majority of the children's tombs are ruined and the text of the old monument is six-character, also known as the six-character tablet. Date of birth and death: The date of birth and death of the child's tombstone, whether horizontal or vertical, is in the lower right corner facing the direction of the tombstone, and in terms of text engraving, if it is not more than 12 years old, the date of death should be written on September 8, 2002.

If you are not more than 50 years old, you need to write a difference earlier, for example, died early on September 8, 2002. In terms of time, it is also necessary to comply with the rules of conjunction, and the insufficient and excess parts can be added to the lunar calendar time, the sexagenary year, the season, etc., to make up for 6, 11, 16, 21 ......Numbers, for example, in the paragraph we just wrote, can be written like this: "Died early on September 8, 2002, the day of the month of the month of the year of the first month". It must be remembered here that parents erect monuments for their children, not about the people who erected them.