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Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them. When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you. There is no reason to like someone, and it is worth paying without regrets, as long as you can be with the person you love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish ....... Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful.

The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best. In this world, everyone has someone they want to seek, and if they miss it, they won't come back. If you fall in love, don't give up easily.

It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

The person who really loves you, from the time you pursue perfection in him, he can't refuse you from the beginning, this person will be willing to give you the opportunity to pursue perfection, at least, it will maintain polite communication with you, you send him message content, it will reply, you do him play, it will squeeze the time to accompany you.

Even if he really has something to do and doesn't have time to spend with you, he will make it clear to you and give you some compensation, and you can know in your feelings for you that this person is allowing you to enter its life.

On the other hand, when you are in a relationship with the opposite sex, the other party explicitly rejects you, or deliberately avoids you, and is not willing to talk to you at all, and is unwilling to give you a good opportunity to integrate into his life.

That is to say, the other party clearly told you that he doesn't want to have a relationship with you, at this time, you are a little reluctant and can't forget, what can you do? Forget it! "Four steps to the limbs, there will be grass", within the four seas, there is always your lifelong partner.

In the relationship, the person you like has been embarrassing you to do things that test your bottom line, which makes you live a good life very painful, how to make the other party not test your bottom line again and again?

In other words, the other party does not respect people's conduct, does not value the "kindness" of love, and always does not respect and cherish you; has repeatedly tested your bottom line and made you miserable.

At this time, let's let it go. At this time, why not learn and train to "pick up the song of the phoenix" and sing, 'Love Xi love, what is the decline of love?' The past cannot be admonished, but the coming can still be chased!

That's it! That's it! Today's obsessive and infatuated lovers are gone!

In a relationship, if the other party has any specialty, it is good at doing things that harm you, so there is no need to indulge in this bad relationship, if you want to open a little, no matter how reluctant you are, don't get "Stockholm syndrome", don't be stubborn.

In this world, what you can't stop is not only the sun rising in the west, but also that you can't stop your lover from empathizing and giving up.

If true love can really sing and cry, let the river flow backwards, and let the unrighteous people come again, Dou Nu will not cry to death at the door of the negative heart.

The clouds are scattered in the blue sky, and the sun rises in the east of China and sets in the west at night. "Some love, after all, has a beginning and no end, how can you take the unkind? Although "good and evil will be rewarded in the end, and the way of heaven is good for reincarnation", the old cause and effect relationship has a circulatory system, and it is difficult for people who are unrighteous to have no good conclusions; However, for you who are obsessed with this relationship, don't care what the result is for him, just stay away from him immediately.

This is indeed the case, you must learn to let go, too persistent will only hurt yourself.

I think it's like this, no matter how reluctant you are, you have to let yourself learn to let go of the hand of the Divination Hall, don't hide to entangle each other, don't let yourself be particularly persistent, and love yourself a little more.

I think it's like this, no matter what, if two people are not very suitable, you must choose to break up, you have to divert your attention, and don't always be careless or confused.

Whether you let go or not has little to do with whether you love or not, love itself is just a feeling. But whether to let go or not is the result of reality measurement.

Although love is a pure feeling, maintaining a love and managing a love requires a realistic cost.

Maintaining and operating a love requires close contact, practical care, emotional intelligence to take care of each other's emotions and resolve some small conflicts, and material things to create a reassuring coexistence environment.

And you can't put care into practice in a different place (no matter how hot online love is, it's really not as good as pouring water and a hug for your lover with your own hands), plus you are young and impulsive, emotional intelligence is not enough to resolve the conflict, and the material conditions are probably not completely independent. Isn't that enough of a reason to let go?

No matter how fierce the long-distance love is, in the end you will only marry someone who accompanies you day and night to give you love, and he will only marry the person who snuggles up to him every day.

Maybe you will say that you can solve the problem of distance in the future. How long is that time later? Aside from distance, how long does it take for impulsivity problems to be resolved?

Is emotional intelligence enough to resolve conflicts? Are the material conditions enough to be independent? All of the above are necessary conditions for the long-term maintenance of love.

To sum up, you have empty feelings of love, but you can't come up with an effective way to maintain love for a long time. What's the point of consuming it if you don't let go? You don't have companionship, maybe as long as you have a feeling of love, you don't think anything else is important, and you don't need it.

But men need it! Men want real companionship more than women, men want a partner with stable emotions and high emotional intelligence to make him feel at ease, and men want to support a real home with a car, a house and a stable income.

If it continues to be empty, the actual needs of men cannot be realized, and maybe even the feeling of love at the beginning will be consumed