He made me lose all my pride, self esteem, and freedom

I can call you sister, right?

You're older than me, and you may think I don't have that qualification, but I have to say that it's really up to you.

I like to be alone.

Four years. It's not me that he likes.

I had a fight with my mom and dad because of him.

My friends advised me to forget about him.

How easy is it to say?

Sister, if he doesn't care about you, no matter how reluctant you are, it's just in vain.

So why reluctantly?

Forgot to put. I know it's hard.

But that's all you can do.

Bury love deeply. That way it doesn't hurt so much.

I don't know when I started, I have entered such a realm, I feel that commitment needs a premise, even if I work hard to achieve, it is worth it if I need the other party to synchronize, I am afraid that I am too serious about what I am not sure of, and I will become the biggest fool in the world. Subconsciously, I wish I had a person who is synchronized with me, I don't say what will happen to me for a long, long time, but I want to have a love that will still exist in each other's hearts for a long, long time, but I don't want to be realistic one day and even stop dreaming.

I think that a love between the hearts of each other, it needs to be created by both parties with feelings, with the heart to feel, and with action to confess. And, it needs care, understanding, and support from both sides. I hope he can bear the joys and sorrows of life with me.

When I'm happy, he can be happy with me. When I was disappointed, he encouraged me to keep going. When I'm tired, I wish I could lie in his arms with my head and fall asleep like a baby.

When I couldn't help crying, I wanted him to be able to hold me and feel the body and mind flutter as a man sobbed.

After a breakup, I forgot the countless tears, joys and worries I had paid before. I began to consciously turn myself into an adult, and I already felt that time was so hurried, that everything was gradually flattening, and that the lake of my heart was rippling with a little bit, and after a long time, it disappeared completely. In fact, once compared with time, things seem so vague and fragile.

The things that happen may be the arrangements of fate in the dark. Looking at the past ** compared with the present, I have really changed, and the shadow of the past is forever forgotten in that era, leaving only green memories. Maybe it's not all love, maybe it's because it's time for me to grow up.

After experiencing emotional grinding, what is lost is only the price paid for maturity. After that, my life and emotions were full of sunshine, and although I stayed in the dark for a long time, I believed that the sunshine would bloom like a flower.

Don't, you think you're stupid when you look back later

Without delaying yourself in the case, you can continue. If you pay so much, it's not worth it to put all your future into it. After all, you still have to rely on yourself in life.

In a few years, you will find that the ones you say you don't care about actually care. You don't care now because you're too young and you have capital. If you were 28, you wouldn't say that.

I don't think you need to love him anymore, you love him like that, regardless of life and death, but in exchange for your own sadness, it's better to break up, so that your own mood is better.

18 years old, it's too early, since you're not happy, why continue, your family treats you like this, you won't be happy even if you get married, it's better to give up earlier. Give yourself a chance to come back to your country.

I was more infatuated than you when I was 18.

Now look back.

That's it, haha.

It's true. Don't take it too seriously.

There's still a long way to go.

It's so long again, hey, children know what love is! You should be more mature and then talk about love, you are still young, you should learn more knowledge and life skills or something, and in another five years, you will look back at your current love!

Lovely naïve indeed...

There is too little experience. Too little to see. Too little is known.

Unrealistic.

We sometimes feel that our self-esteem has been hurt and that others have touched on the vulnerable areas of our hearts and lost face. In modern society, many times, we are working hard to maintain our arrogance and save face, and most of the pressure on our bodies is "dead to save face". We suffer from gains and losses, restlessness, and even over-defense, exhausting ourselves physically and mentally.

We are constantly dressing ourselves up with wealth, status, and power, but we are increasingly unable to satisfy this proud self-esteem.

Blind pride does not help us build a strong fortress, what we need to return to lead is humility.

There is a cloud in the Book of Changes: "A humble gentleman, humble to self-shepherd." To be humble is to be able to bow your head and admit your pride.

A humble life is a noble life.