Tangled, feelings, how to choose? 5

I think you must be very contradictory, if you are a very realistic person, you choose the one that is satisfactory to you with economic conditions. If you're a person who values feelings a lot, I don't need to say more.

But often society is very realistic, and love without economic foundation will not be blessed by others and will not be happy.

But too much emphasis on money can also lead us to lose our way, do we marry for the sake of getting married, or do we marry someone we are happy with? There is no perfect person in the world, I hope you can control your sense of direction and don't miss the one that suits you.

Choose B, if you are more realistic then choose A, if you are not realistic then choose B. After all, feelings are more important, and external conditions can be worked hard to get better, but if the person you like misses it, there will be no more.

In fact, I think that what you said can't be used as a criterion for your mate selection, because if you look at the comparison between the two people, it is obvious that there is less of your own feelings in the description of A, if two people are together without the feeling of being able to live together, then I think this kind of relationship will not be accepted by your own heart even if it will be favored by most people, after all, you always want to find someone who you really want to be with that person.

Realistically speaking, of course, it is a good choice, but feelings are never measured by these things, I think, choose one you love him, he also loves you, and it will be better to be able to make friends. Our advice is just advice, the most important thing is to see who you like in your heart!

b bar! Because he is what you really like, you have to feel your feelings, otherwise you will get tired of it no matter how good he is.

Sometimes it's not about looking for what you want, it's about finding the right one for you. Because what you want isn't necessarily right for you.

Put those conditions aside and find the one that suits you.

Choose what you love. Love you too. So choose B.

Is marriage a prerequisite? Then I'm going to choose A.

Feelings are to lie down with each other in the truest and most comfortable way, if it is suitable, it is appropriate, and if it is not suitable, it is not suitable.

1. Directly express your mentality to him, and then choose as appropriate, if it changes, don't force it.

2. If the relatives and friends of both parties are opposed or the attitude is not very good, it should be seriously considered, after all, marriage is not only a matter of two people, this is very realistic.

It still depends on the feelings of the two people.

Of course, you need to think about what it is like to find your other half, don't people often say: even if you enter the wrong industry, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man.

Over time, everything will change.

If you want to go on in a long-distance relationship, one party must be willing to pay for the other party, you compromise and go to his side, or he comes to you. Otherwise this is not mature love, if there is a quarrel with your family, I suggest that it is better to separate, he is not mature enough, and you are not mature enough.

Reluctant to part for four years? Is that to continue talking? To six years, seven years or more?

Ask him about his attitude, if he still wants to be together, he works together, loves together, and separates if he doesn't want to, no matter how long it is, it will only increase the sense of disgust, and make you less likely to meet the right person!

Girls, can't afford it!

My husband and I are also in a long-distance relationship, similar to you, but we believe in our own love, and my parents' opposition is too far away, and my husband has a bad temper, so I didn't listen to their objections and went to get the marriage certificate first, and now I don't have a good time and occasionally quarrel, if you doubt you, it's better not to get married so soon, let time prove everything! He doesn't necessarily love you the most.

In fact, you don't have to be so entangled at all, do you want to marry a husband who loves you, loves you, and spoils you? Or is it marrying a husband like your boyfriend who is now inconsiderate and doesn't take care of your feelings?

Don't wait for someone who shouldn't wait, don't hurt your heart that shouldn't be broken, you can observe him from the details, and cut through the mess quickly.

It's clear that you're in love and bitter! Living in the Twin Cities is all about it, and there's so much more you should think about... I suggest you watch the TV series Twin Cities Life, there are many problems in it, not to think about such a simple thing!

Do you have to deal with whether you will do it at your home or at his house when you get married, and what will happen to the time? Midday? At night?

The customs and habits of each place are different, and it is impossible to take care of them, and there will always be one party who is not satisfied, what should I do if I have children in the future? Which old man to bring? The old people on both sides want to bring it themselves, how do you choose?

What do you do with the New Year's holidays after you get married??? There are still a lot of questions, don't look at the way it is now, it's all good now, but it's not necessarily after marriage What's more, when you hook up with other women in front of you, and when you get married in the future, he can't see you in the two places, you can't see him, can you know what he does? Long-distance relationship, it is very romantic to fall in love, but long-distance relationship is not suitable for every pair of lovers!

Please think about what your parents will do! What do they think, but also think about your own future. If you're still struggling, take a closer look at Twin Cities Life!

It will give you the answers you want!

Finally, I will tell you one more thing: man, when chasing you, you will always be a treasure; After chasing you, he's a treasure.

What's more, I didn't treat you as a treasure when I was chasing you, so after marriage... What will happen???

First: between family affection and love, you can only choose one word, you must choose family affection, family affection is the relationship between the blood, it comes from the bones, not that it is gone, and love is relatively comparative, just a feeling, saying no is gone.

Second: your parents' thoughts have influenced you, and you say goodbye to the previous distance Beauty now experiences the real him, you feel your dissatisfaction, you feel insecure, a man who can't give you security, even if you follow him, you will be sad in the future, after all, women are very sensitive animals.

Third: I don't discriminate against long-distance relationships, I think long-distance relationships are a sick child, most of them will die young, and very few can be cured and survive healthily, that is the need for the other party's faith to support, because after all, in the past one to twenty years, the two of you live in different environments, different concepts, many different, and at the beginning of the long-distance relationship, you see just his beautiful side, or the same side of the concept, living together every day, your concept ambiguity will be greatly highlighted, In the end, it leads to a situation that cannot be reversed, which is hurtful and sad, time-consuming and labor-intensive.

If in doubt, don't continue... If it does continue, you will also quarrel, and suspicion will destroy all seemingly unbreakable relationships.

Doubt can make you very tired ...

The above is a personal opinion.

It feels like he doesn't love you that much anymore.

In fact, family and everything are secondary, the point is whether you still want to continue with him, whether you have thought about your future, or whether you are willing to go back to his hometown with him in the future, leave your parents and so on.

I'm also struggling with what to do.