He confessed to me, but I didn t like him, and asked for a set of explanations

First of all, be resolute. Rejection is inevitably a disservice, but it should not be used to discourage you. Since it is the person who is in love with you, he is very sensitive to your words and deeds.

If your attitude of refusing love is not resolute enough, it is easy to cause misunderstanding of the other party, especially if the other party is in a situation where you love you deeply, and the thinking you adopt out of politeness or consideration will make the other party feel that you also love him, at least let him feel that there is hope, and in the end it often brings greater harm than refusing love.

Second, do your best to maintain the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party. Specifically, you may wish to first praise the other person's character and talents, and then explain why you can't accept the courtship. The reasons to be said should be reasonable, and it is best to put forward favorable aspects from the other party's point of view, so that the other party feels that the rejection is also for his (her) good; If you have to explain to others, you may want to attribute the negative cause to yourself to avoid giving the impression that you simply rejected him.

This method is especially suitable for those who are psychologically fragile and can avoid some extreme phenomena.

We are all students in the third year of high school, and we should focus on academics.

I just want to study well, and I don't want to live up to my parents' expectations of me.

I don't want to be in a relationship that affects my studies, and if you can, you're willing to wait for me, then wait until we graduate, and if you still like me at that time, I'm willing to be with you.

In a relationship, there will always be someone who is hurt, and if you don't hurt him, then he wastes your study time, so it is you who gets hurt. You just say that you like a boy with a good academic background, and if he really likes you, maybe he will study hard for you, so maybe he will help him. If he keeps pestering you, it means that his liking for you is not real, because he doesn't consider your feelings at all, and you don't have to pay attention to such hypocrisy.

If we can get into the same university, I will promise you.

Summary. Hello, glad to answer for you. You go to confess, and others reject you.

But she tells people that you like him. In fact, you don't have to worry too much about this, it's good for you. As he speaks, he will slowly develop a curiosity or liking for you.

Because when he tells others, when others often joke, they will mention you in his heart, and slowly and slowly imprint you in his heart, and after a long time, he will think about whether he also likes you?

What if you confess to someone and they don't like me?

Hello, glad to answer for you. You go to confess, and others reject you. But she tells people that you like him.

In fact, you don't have to worry too much about this, it's good for you. As he speaks, he will slowly develop a curiosity or liking for you. Because when he tells others, when others often joke, they will mention you in his heart, and slowly and slowly imprint you in his heart, and after a long time, he will think about whether he also likes you?

So when someone asks you, do you confess to him? You just say yes, I confessed, it's good for you, don't be back, boldly admit it. Zhao Bin, one day she also feels that she slowly likes you. It's possible that you're together.

Summary. It is okay not to express or tactfully refuse, and direct rejection will make the relationship too stiff and not conducive to interpersonal communication. For the opposite sex that you are not interested in, if you accept it, one day they find that you don't love them, and it will only be 2 people who will be hurt and embarrassed.

There is a person who confesses to me, I don't like him, but for some reason I can't make the relationship too stiff, I politely refuse to have someone confess to me, I don't like it.

Dear, can you elaborate on the specific situation?

Hello, you can't refuse directly, but, play with her again, the relationship is a little ambiguous now, if you don't want to continue with her, make it clear as soon as possible to avoid future harm, if you want to develop with her, get along well.

It is okay not to express or tactfully refuse, and direct rejection will make the relationship too stiff and not conducive to interpersonal communication. For the opposite sex that you are not interested in, if you accept it, one day they find that you don't love them, and it will only be 2 people who will be hurt and embarrassed.

You can tactfully tell the other person that you don't like it, don't mistake the other person. But, to put it bluntly, they are still friends. Don't make the other person too embarrassed.

Dear, is there anything else you need help with, the teacher can help you analyze and analyze.

Reasons for not believing: 1. She likes you, otherwise you say you like her, she won't believe it? If I don't like you, just say no.

2. She is deliberately avoiding you, maybe her liking for you is just ordinary unrequited love.

I didn't expect it to get to this point.

What you have to do at this time: 1. Look at her directly with serious eyes, and say that I like you again.

2. If she turns around to leave, you will tentatively say "If you leave now, I will never pester you", so that you can not only test her mind, but also know whether she will turn around and come back for you.

If you think mine is helpful to you, thank you, and if you have any troubles, you can continue to ask me.

Tell her, believe it or not, I'm going to post a circle of friends to confess to you?

Summary. If you are a woman, then you can say that, with you, I feel a sense of being protected, I want to be with you all the time, and I feel very happy and happy.

I want to confess to someone, but I don't want to say directly that I like you, I love you or something, I want to be tactful and subtle, express love in words, don't be straight.

I'm glad to be able to ask your question, if you want to express your love for others euphemistically, then you can say this, from the moment I saw you, I changed my heart with you, with your position, I began to become restless, afraid that you would be wronged by You, worried that no one happened to be there to help you when you were in trouble, I always wanted to be by your side to protect you and take care of you.

I'm a woman. If you are a female acacia liquid, then you can say that, with you, I feel a sense of being protected, I want to be with you all the time, and I feel very happy and happy.

I know it's done.

Okay, I wish you happiness.

If this person is excellent, then his smile may be too high, and he may be too contemptuous of you.

What kind of laughter? Is it a loving, warm smile, or is it just a smile? If the former, then he accepts you.

Congratulations! If it is the latter, dear sister, it is very likely that he does not want to accept you, and it is not good for him to reject you in words. There is also a possibility that he doesn't want to take a stand now, and wants to see your performance in the future before making a decision.

Some people deserve love, some people don't deserve your love, if like the one upstairs said, he is very contemptuous of you, then he is not worthy of your love!! Don't be sad.

Sometimes smiling is tactful and a rejection.

He can't bear to hurt you ...

Of course, if you confess, it's none of your business to accept it or not, at least you won't regret it; Maybe he thinks the same way you do! And if you say no, you can still be friends, it's better than unrequited love, and there are risks in doing everything. Come on!