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Raising such a big son is gone, my heart is gloomy, but the deceased is gone, the living people have to be strong to face, but also to continue to live, mourning and change, if there is a white happy event at home, during the Spring Festival, our custom here can be pasted Spring Festival couplets, but the post is not red, festive Spring Festival couplets, but plain white Spring Festival couplets, spring is coming, the cold will slowly dissipate, and the grief will be soothed by the years! It's just that this process is more difficult, give yourself and your family a little time!
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The Spring Festival couplets originated from the north, so most areas in the north have rules or taboos for pasting Spring Festival couplets, and Beijing is no exception. Under normal circumstances, someone in the family dies, and the mourning period is no more than three years. Couplets are generally red, representing festivity, and generally the first year of the funeral is pasted with blue and yellow paper or no couplets to express the memory of the deceased.
According to traditional customs, during the mourning period, it is not allowed to take a bath, shave your head, change your clothes, or paste red couplets. However, with the progress of the times, the civilization and development of society, some traditional customs can be reformed. For example, bathing, shaving your head, changing clothes.
However, the Chinese New Year cannot be pasted with red couplets, and the folk have been continuing, which is the respect or remembrance of the deceased.
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Don't be angry that your son is dead, it's a very sad thing, I hope you mourn and change, the old people in the past had such a saying, three sides are not allowed to paste the Spring Festival couplets, but now the young people don't believe this, they still paste the Spring Festival couplets.
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First of all, I hope you can mourn and change, our custom is that if a relative in the family dies, the Spring Festival couplets will not be posted for three years, in order to comfort his soul in the sky.
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In order to show respect for children, it is best not to post Spring Festival couplets during the Spring Festival.
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I died young, a white-haired man and a black-haired man, I can't give him filial piety, that's scolding him, I didn't give me a pension, he is a junior, I am an elder,
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If your father-in-law didn't die in your house, that's fine.
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After the old man died in his own home, did his son's family post Spring Festival couplets during the Spring Festival?
Dear, hello, according to the customs of our country, no matter how old man dies in **, as a son, the Spring Festival is not pasted Spring Festival couplets, in most areas of our country, there are customs and requirements for mourning families not to stick Spring Festival couplets. However, in the actual operation process, all localities and companies are relatively broad in grasping. Generally speaking, the more common situation is that the parents die, the son's family does not post Spring Festival couplets for three years, and other families do not make strict requirements.
As the saying goes, "mourning is not auspicious" means that there is a funeral in the family, and during the mourning period, do not do festive things, including marriage, entry, banquets, singing and dancing, etc. When a parent dies, as a son, he shall be under the rule for three years. This is the ** and reason for "not sticking Spring Festival couplets for three years".
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Summary. The old man in the family died, and the younger generation generally did not stick the red couplets for three years from that year, and kept the white, green and yellow colors, the first year with white paper, the second year of green paper, the third year of yellow paper, and the fourth year of mourning before resuming the use of red paper, so the white, green and yellow couplets are commonly known as "filial piety", "filial piety" or "Ding Wei Lian". The color of the couplet is in turn related to local folklore.
The most common thing to see is red, and red represents welcome. In some places there are also white, yellow, purple, green and blue, etc. For example, in Hubei:
Yellow represents the remembrance of the deceased relatives, purple and blue represent the second year of the sacrifice of the deceased, and green represents the third year of the sacrifice of the deceased. In some places, white represents the memory of a new loved one.
After the old man died in his own home, did his son's family post Spring Festival couplets during the Spring Festival?
Hello, I will check for you that after the death of the old man in his own home, his son's family is not allowed to post Spring Festival couplets.
The old man in the family died, and the younger generation generally did not stick the red couplets for three years from that year, and kept the white, green and yellow colors, the first year with white paper, the second year of green paper, the third year of yellow paper, and the fourth year of mourning before resuming the use of red paper, so the white, green and yellow couplets are commonly known as "filial piety", "filial piety" or "Ding Wei Lian". The color of the couplet is in turn related to local folklore. The most common thing to see is red, and red represents welcome.
In some places there are also white, yellow, purple, green and blue, etc. For example, in Hubei, yellow represents the remembrance of the deceased relative, purple and blue represent the second year of the sacrifice of the deceased, and green represents the third year of the sacrifice of the deceased.
In some places, white represents the memory of a new loved one.
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There are no hard and fast rules for Chinese New Year couplets, and it is your own freedom and right to post or not.
Generally speaking, when someone in the family dies, the first year is not pasted. Because the couplet is red, which represents festivity, and is not commensurate with the sadness of the dead in the family, most people do not post couplets during the New Year, that is, the world does not stick.
If what you have passed away has passed away, the living still have to live, and they should live better, so that the children of the underground do not worry about grief, and it is also possible to paste couplets. After all, people cannot be resurrected after death, and if you are doing well and in a cheerful mood, your children will be happy if they know it underground.
Follow your own heart, which is called what Zhuangzi said, "conform to nature." "I wish you a speedy recovery from your grief.
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In your case, you should not need to post Spring Festival couplets, someone in the family has passed away, and generally do not need to post Spring Festival couplets for three years.
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There is a family, unfortunate things, Spring Festival couplets, you have to post them after three years, not a year, but ah, stop for three years and then post the Spring Festival couplets, this is ah, the old children have passed it down,.
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People who died in the family have not posted Spring Festival couplets for three years!
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