When I encounter the biggest difficulties in my life, can I still be friends like this?

Since I hope to never see him, then never see him, do you still need to worry about this, everyone has everyone's difficulties, you borrow money like him, there are your difficulties, he doesn't borrow, and he also has his difficulties.

If you think he's not lending you money because he's selfish or doesn't treat you as a friend, then don't associate with him anymore.

Why bother yourself so much.

cough, how can a married man be like when he was single, you don't know the bitterness, even the daughter-in-law is not happy to come home from work a little later, let alone borrow 5,000 oceans, he wants to help you, but he also has to go back and quarrel with his daughter-in-law, right? Sometimes we need to think more about others.

Is this still called a friend? Pull it down.

I'm willing to help him, no matter what he did to me before, I think I'll repay him with virtue.

Because people prefer to be the icing on the cake, they will definitely be grateful for your help, and they will be able to lend a helping hand when you need help in the future, so it is also a very good thing to help yourself and some of your connections, so don't skimp on your help. There is no eternal smooth sailing in life, and the trough will not always exist.

There is no road in vain in life, and suffering will not disappear in a vacuum, it will only appear in different forms at a certain corner of life. Being able to endure the hardships and tribulations that others can't imagine, and even life and death, belongs to those who dare to ride the wind and waves. The madman Feng Tang has encountered a lot of adversity in his life, and for himself in adversity, Feng Tang summed up the cross motto of "look at your feet, keep moving, and don't be obedient".

Feng Tang used his life experience to teach us a compulsory lesson about reverse business. In the face of adversity, you need to calm down, learn to recharge, seize opportunities, and stand out. Don't add to your fearless fear, fear of the harm caused by adversity, and don't waste your life.

What do we need to do in the face of adversity?

Seize the moment and live the moment.

In the special year of 2022, many people themselves are in debt, and the epidemic has made it even worse. After falling into an economic crisis, he panicked and depressed all day long, and his body was full of negative energy. These weak thinking of "waiting, relying on, and demanding" will only make themselves more miserable.

At this time, we must let go of the so-called face, do not focus too much on feeling pain, but live a good life, stabilize the capital of the revolution, and strengthen the body. As the saying goes, "if you are poor, you will think, if you think, if you change, if you change, you will reach", when you are at the end of the road, you must learn to be relieved, calm down to think, reflect in time, seek change, and change is possible.

Stop losses in time and take action.

The more difficult it is, the more positive it is to attract the magnetic field of positive energy. When the consciousness is in a positive state, it attracts good things closer.

When you encounter difficulties, you must modify your bad problems in time and control your emotions, because being emotional will only hurt others and yourself. At the same time, stop complaining and learn to think carefully.

Everyone who can achieve great things will not be limited to the present, will make a good plan, identify the goal, and move forward firmly.

There is no complete failure in life, but success has not yet come. Before success comes, we must forge ahead and believe that the dawn is always after night.

Our souls are only perfect when they are tested by successes and failures, honors and bitterness.

What would a true friend do when you were in trouble? Friends are not in the lot, but in the quality. A true friend may not have pretty words, but I want you to point out your mistakes, say them sincerely, and you correct them. Hope you get better and better.

Sincerely, being a friend is not only the icing on the cake, but also a charcoal in the snow when you need help. Good friends don't have to be tired of being together every day, and something can appear in front of each other's eyes with a word.

Friends who really get along with you will not leave you when you are down, nor will they want to benefit when you have money. For you, good friends will give silently. I just hope you're getting better and better.

George Bernard Shaw, friend) warns when complacent, and summons up the courage to solve problems that arise when frustrated. John kennedy.

Making friends is just a choice to support each other, not to rely on. Don't rely too much on your friends, there are very few like-minded people who can go to the end. Therefore, don't be sad about being separated from each other one day, keep your own independent heart, and don't let yourself lose your direction.

Only inner independence can make you stronger and make good friends. John kennedy.

Treat you as a true friend, and I will help you when you have questions.

A good friend will give you a lot of feasible advice on your life path and point out certain problems according to your personality traits, abilities, etc. In this way, they can be more attentive and they will also help and support in any way.

To protect any relationship, the feelings of friends are no exception. As long as you truly love each other, you don't have to treat each other like a couple. But you must treat each other with sincerity and not take advantage of each other. In this way, the friendship between each other can be strengthened.

Don't be particularly tempted by your friend's heart, and don't doubt your friend. No relationship can stand doubt, doubt will make you doubt, lose trust in your friends, and the relationship between two people will break down. Cherish people who can be called friends in the future. Because it's really hard to get.

Personally, I think that when you are in trouble, a true friend will stand up and help you, and this is usually a real friend.

My friends will reach out and help me, because my friends are such people, they will help me, so thank them very much.

When you are in trouble, a true friend will understand and will do everything you can to help you, while others will only stay away. At this time, you must cherish your good friends.

It is said that adversity sees true love, and if you encounter difficulties in this issue, a true friend will definitely treat your difficulties as if they were his own, and will take the initiative to help you.

True friends will help you through this together. It will give you great encouragement. Take you out of the difficulties.

A true friend will lend a helping hand to you and will definitely help you when you need it.

We are not familiar with each other from the beginning to talk about nothing now, I don't regret it at the beginning, the feelings between us are deepening, in life, we should have helped each other, so that we can live better with each other, the relationship will be closer, real good friends, may be a little noisy, but when friends need help, they will not hesitate to lend a helping hand.

I went back to the dormitory at noon today, and when I came back, another classmate asked me, what was wrong with her, she was crying just now! I was amazed that she hid all her pain with a calm expression! May she be well, and the pain be far away from her!

Today, my good friend encountered something, seeing her so anxious, I can't bear it, in fact, I empathize, I will definitely comfort her, but I found that my comfort can not solve the problem, or said a lot, I just hope that she can have a bearish heart, can forget these unhappiness, but also hope that she can be strong, I believe, she will be relieved by my friend for many years and even my best friend who has nothing to say.

Friends always help each other, when you take the initiative to help others, others will help you when you need it, so sometimes you don't have to be too polite, because we are familiar good friends, but sometimes we will be very polite to thank each other, in fact, this is also to enhance the friendship between each other.

Hello, at this time, the first thing to do is to show support and reassure your friends. If you know it from others, then it depends on the difficulty of the friend, if it is a small difficulty, you don't have to go out of your way to comfort him, if it is a relatively large difficulty, you should directly find a friend to explain your concern for him.

When people encounter major changes, words of comfort can seem very weak, so this is when actions can show your help. For example, directly providing financial help, or mobilizing one's own resources to help the other party. An important meaning of friends is to help each other, and when a friend is in trouble, you give generously, and he will keep it in mind.

If you can't provide material help directly, there are still many ways to support your friend, such as helping your friend deal with things that he can't take care of for a while, including housework and work. Take the initiative to help your friend solve these things so that he can concentrate on the main difficulties.

First, help him to the best of your ability. You can see where you can help him, and you don't think too much about it, feeling that you have to pay too much for helping him at this time, and you may not have the same return in the future. That's your friend, don't think so.

No matter what, if you can, you can help. If you can't help him at work, then help take care of his family, don't let him have worries, and concentrate on solving the difficulties. Of course, even if you want to help, you have to do what you can, and don't promise your friend if you can't do something, otherwise if you can't do it, you will be considered to have betrayed his trust in you.

Second, to accompany him. At this time, his spirit is the most broken, and he can't see anything on the surface, but it is very likely that he will go crazy in the next second. Then you accompany him and tell him silently, look, no matter what difficulties you encounter, there is a friend like me to accompany you, you are not alone.

Then you can be regarded as giving him the courage and confidence to continue to persevere. You don't have to say too much, I'm sure he will understand what you have to say, everything is in plain sight.

In fact, interpersonal communication is a very, very important part of our lives. Each of us needs to socialize with people in society, and at the same time, we will make some friends in our lives. Friends are an important factor in the circle of our lives.

Friends are also a big part of our lives. Friends are a relationship of happiness and hardship. Therefore, when a friend is in trouble, we should take the initiative to lend a hand.

Not to mention best friends.

I think it's very rare to have a best friend. Soulmates are hard to find! First of all, I think you should cherish this relationship with your friends very much.

Don't wait until you've lost her to realize how important this camaraderie is. Since you want to value the relationship, it is at this time when your friend is most difficult. You can't afford to ignore it.

You have to take the initiative to help him and learn about his situation.

Of course, helping a friend is not just reckless. We also need to be methodical in helping our friends. First of all, after you learned about him.

But in his difficulty, is there anything you can help? If anything, I think you should do what you can to help your friend. But if it's something you can't do.

There is no need to force it, then what you should do is to base some psychological comfort on your friend.

But we must not cross our own boundaries when we help our friends. Don't do anything that violates morality. If it is so busy, we should righteously refuse it.

And cut off the relationship with a friend. But if it's something mundane. Then we should do what we can to help others as much as possible.

If so, I'm sure your friendship will be stronger. You will be glad that you have such a wonderful friendship in the future.

Everyone yearns for Li Bai's life, "life must be happy", this is the truth, it is not false at all, we should spend every day happily. You can also contribute People live for a lifetime, live happily for a lifetime, and live for a miserable life, so why don't we do it? Someone asked me what is the way to be happy?

In fact, it is very simple, my happiness is reading, in fact, a person's life is like a poem, Ji Xianlin, a master of Chinese culture, once said: "Your successes and failures are that piece of poetry, a little bit of poetry". Some people will choose to give up a happy life because of their failure, in fact, success and failure are a result, success, harvest flowers and applause; Failure, a few lessons from a period of experience, and then start all over again, thinking like this, happiness will grow with me.

When I am immersed in the sea of books, there will be a rich fragrance with me, "there is poetry and books in my belly". Over time, there have been tremendous changes in language, writing, and even gestures. As the saying goes, "exhale like an orchid".

Happiness grows with me, I have always had a person's journey with me in my formative years, which records some joyful things, so when I am upset, I can also smile brightly. You can also contribute to my mother, who told me, saying, "People, should not be based on money, but based on happiness", yes, money is something outside the body, and our happiness is also a priceless treasure.

Optimistic people invented submarines, pessimistic people invented lifebuoys, which of the two completely different lives would you want? Of course, people will invariably choose to live optimistically. Happiness is a treasure, and God gives us mouths, not to complain, but to make us laugh.

We have such good conditions, of course, we must make good use of them, and we can't let them go to waste! Happiness gives us a yearning for the future life and ignites our fighting spirit. Let's set sail and rush to the blue sky!

Happiness allows me to grow up in a poetic golden wheat field. Happiness will accompany me to the Avenue of Stars!