Do you still have to hold on to this relationship 20

Updated on psychology 2024-06-08
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It may be a good choice to talk to her, you have to know what she really thinks, it's better than guessing alone, judging from your description, you still care about this experience, come on, good luck. The longer this kind of thing drags on, the worse it gets.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Maybe she really doesn't want to at the moment, otherwise she won't go back to find a reason. Maybe the occasional promise is not wanting you to hurt ......

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Ask for an answer, straight to the point

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What kind of difference do you talk about between persistence and non-persistence?

    Let your soul lead the way

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The most important thing is you, you feel that you are in love with her, if you are sincere, then don't have any grievances and complaints, I think it is difficult for a man to find a girl he likes, especially your feelings for her, at least you are not wishful thinking, so come on, change your mentality, it should be a test of love!

    If she didn't care about you, she would have said 88 a long time ago, so she shouldn't be that kind of girl.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You see you're shaken. If you want to chase it, you can chase your favorite. Or just find one that looks good.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Persistence or not, in fact, the answer has long been in the hearts of friends.

    I think you're wondering if you'll get the ending you want. Everyone has their own pursuits.,I think the landlord made this post just to listen to everyone's opinions.,Personally, I don't think it's necessary.。

    Love, which is an inherently uncertain thing, everyone has a different opinion. When the landlord chooses between persistence and abandonment, ask yourself whether this relationship is impulsive and whether you can have the determination to love. If the landlord hesitates or gets an uncertain answer, I advise the landlord to give up.

    If you get a yes answer. Then the landlord must be prepared for such a long time of pain.

    But I can tell the landlord here, my personal opinion. If she has been in a passive state, that is, if she does not take the initiative or rarely asks the landlord, I advise the landlord to give up, because she has no feelings for the landlord. In fact, the landlord's lover saved her, and I think the landlord also came up with this answer.

    If the landlord wants to insist, see if he can impress the other party with his sincerity, I can only wish the landlord good luck.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    She has a dispensable feeling for you, so it's better to leave her!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then divide it. <>

    I had talked about one before, also for four years, and I was going to get married, but I parted on the night of the engagement. At that time, I felt very sorry, very reluctant, very painful, very uncomfortable. But now I am glad that I am separated, because I know very well that even if I get married, I will get divorced.

    Because of many, many factors, and at the same time he didn't love me very much.

    I'm more used to being with him, he's used to my goodness, I'm used to his presence. The scariest thing in this world is habit, and the most vulnerable thing is also habit. There is no affection between us.

    He still worked after the separation, I still worked and lived, and after a while, I got used to not having him. I started to find things to do on my own, and then slowly learned to travel on my own, go to the supermarket by myself, cook by myself, read books by myself, and play with myself.

    I've been single for a year, and I've been through a lot and seen a lot through this year. I'm glad I got better and better because I got away from him, because after I left him, I met a lot of people, all kinds of people, and I slowly learned how to observe a person, how to understand a person. It's more about how to get along with these people and not let yourself be too sharp.

    If you don't want to get married, then separate as soon as possible, if you continue to settle, maybe one day you will really separate, and eventually divorce, at that time no matter what you do, there will be limitations, and you are different now, you can do anything. Whether it's going out to play, or working, or reconnecting with someone who is more suitable, it's all good. So if you really want to separate, then separate!

    Isn't there a saying that when you want to separate, the psychology has planted seeds that will slowly sprout and grow. So if separation is predestined, it's too early. If there is fate, they can still be together.

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