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When the dead come back from the cemetery, they should return the same way, this is a rule that has been handed down, why is it bad? Rest assured, there are no problems!
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There is nothing about this, there may be different customs and habits in each region, there will be some exquisiteness, for example, there is no such saying in our hometown, go ** are the same, the funeral is basically the largest road, the distance is relatively close, and the return is basically the original road, but the customs and habits of each place are different, just respect the local customs, and you don't need to care too much about these things.
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Okay, there's nothing wrong with this, generally the dead have to go to the cemetery after passing through their own door when they go out of the funeral, as the old saying goes, this is to go home and take a last look, it's a good thing and it doesn't have any effect on the living aqui te amo.
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Ceremonally speaking, those who go out of the funeral and those who come back take the same road (that is, return the same way), according to the custom, go out to scatter paper money, and when returning, they have to throw things (some small things). Now this custom has changed, not necessarily according to this practice, sincerity is spiritual, and filial piety is enough.
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You can go home any way. The point is that it's more convenient to go that way. Don't believe superstitious claims. That's not scientific at all.
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Anyway, the older generation can't say it well, because they all go home in circles.
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It doesn't matter, people don't come back with their families when they pass away.
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The old people pay attention to the deceased on the day of the funeral and do not go home the same way.
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Which way will you go if you don't go the way you came? What if there was only one way?
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According to rural customs, it is better for the dead to return home the same way on the day of the funeral.
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"Filial piety does not look back" is a custom of the Han nationality, which means that if the filial son turns back, he will follow (die)! Not only can you not turn back at the funeral, but you can't have pockets in the clothes you wear for the deceased when you decorate the funeral! It means that the dead must never be allowed to take away any generation!
From a superstitious point of view, you can't turn back after you are buried, one is afraid that your deceased relatives will see you turn back and know that you are reluctant, and he will be uneasy. The second possibility is that when you look back, you see that you are reluctant, and some dirty things will go back with you.
Therefore, the custom in some places is to find another way home after the burial, and not to go back.
There is also a saying that after the burial of the ancestors, when everyone returns home, they cannot look back. So as not to see things that should not be seen, especially those who are weak and have supernatural constitutions, it is forbidden to look back.
It can also be understood in this way, after being buried, on the way home, the filial son cannot turn back, which means that the dead will follow back, in fact, it is also to advise the filial son to leave the cemetery as soon as possible and not to be overly sad.
There is a saying that at this time, the gates of the Yin and Yang worlds are opened, and the undead enter the underworld. But if you are close to each other.
Turning back will trigger the deceased's nostalgia for the yang world, and once this door is closed, the deceased cannot re-enter the cycle and become a wandering spirit.
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It is rumored that if you turn back, the souls of your deceased relatives will be reluctant to leave.
As a family member, it is natural to hope that the souls of relatives will leave and be reincarnated, rather than being lonely ghosts.
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It's all this rule, I'm afraid I'll bring the dead ghost home. It's all so exquisite. The customs are the same.
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Why can't you go back when you go home now, this is. There is no local custom. There is no scientific basis.
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This is purely a local custom, there is no scientific basis, and I am really helping you look forward to it.
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This is just local folklore and has no scientific basis.
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There are several reasons why you can't look back after burning paper for a dead person:
1.One way of saying is that you are afraid that your deceased relatives will see you turn back, knowing that you are reluctant, he will be uneasy, or it may be that after you look back, you will see that you are reluctant, and some dirty things will go back with you, in short, you can't let the deceased ancestors cherish you to affect the family.
2.Another theory is that after the burial of the deceased, when everyone goes home, they should not look back, so as not to see things that should not be seen, especially those who are weak and have supernatural constitutions, it is forbidden to look back, not only can not look back at the funeral, but also the clothes worn by the deceased during the funeral must not have pockets, which means that the deceased must not be allowed to take any generation with them.
Taken together, these taboos or customs reflect a unique understanding of death and funeral, as well as respect and remembrance for loved ones who have passed away.
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Many old people in small villages will say, burn paper money.
Sometimes there is some money scattered on the side of the road for those who pick up money, they will not block the way when they pick up money, they will not hinder their dead relatives from going to another world, if they turn around and see them picking up money, they will be angry. The folk say that people who are weak in eight characters look back and see some situations that they shouldn't see. It will disturb the dead or wild ghosts, so don't look back when burning paper money, so as not to cause some unnecessary trouble.
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Superstition says that when you look back when you burn paper for the dead and leave, he will not be able to do anything, and he will look for you endlessly
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Maybe I'm afraid that he won't be willing to let you go.
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In traditional Chinese culture, there have always been many myths and superstitions about the souls of the dead. Among them, the most widely circulated theory is that the soul of a person has not been reported to the underworld within 7 days after death, so the deceased will know it on the day of the funeral.
But if we look at the issue from a scientific point of view, there will be a completely different conclusion. Did the deceased know on the day of the funeral? First of all, we need to understand that death is an absolute fact.
When a person's bodily functions cease to function, his or her life ends forever. And the so-called "soul" does not exist in science. This concept is used more for religious beliefs and philosophical reflections.
Therefore, from a scientific point of view, the deceased are dead, and they can no longer feel everything in this world, no matter what time it is. Secondly, the funeral ceremony is a ceremony to bid farewell to the deceased, rest and pray for them. In traditional culture, funeral ceremonies have superstitious beliefs such as attracting the soul of the deceased to the world and purifying the bad emotions left behind by the deceased, and it is believed that the deceased will know about it on the day of the funeral.
This notion is deeply ingrained in people's hearts and minds and still exists in some places, especially for those who are deeply believers. However, in modern society, people have gradually gotten rid of the limitations of this superstition, and they have become more scientific and rational about what happens after death. Although the funeral ceremony cannot change the actual condition of the deceased, it can provide a place for the living to remember, mourn and say goodbye.
In this way, the significance of the funeral ceremony becomes even more important. In short, we might as well approach this question rationally and recognize that science has rejected the traditional notion that the soul is alive. The deceased have left this world, whether on the day of the funeral or not, they will not be able to return to the world.
Although funeral rites are still a traditional cultural activity, we should no longer rely on them to reinforce superstitious beliefs. Those who have passed away should be able to be respected and remembered in the world, while we living should face death bravely and face parting and passing with compassion and peace.
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Indeed, there is such a saying in the countryside, that after the funeral person is buried, he can't turn back when he goes back after burying himself in front of the grave, if anyone turns back the ghost of the dead person will follow him home, I don't know if it's true or not, I guess it's fake, it can't be true, if it's true, it's too effective, and he can also be asked to bring wealth to the family, so I think it may be fake, but I'm worried about the living person, the psychology of this and that kind of thought, It is certainly impossible for this to happen, if you want to die now, this is just a wish, a wish of our ancient people for a better life and for the living!
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After the burial, crossing the brazier represents the separation of yin and yang, and if you go back the same way, it is said that the soul of the deceased will follow back.
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