I often contact another girl, but my boyfriend only says that he is a good friend, what should I do?

I have the same problem as you.

It's just that I know that the girl is his ex-girlfriend.

They keep in touch a lot, but I have to pretend to be generous and don't care.

Scene... What's the use of ... He'll just think you're being cautious.

It's just that he doesn't know that he cares about these things because he loves him.

Forget it, a lot of things, it's okay to pretend to be ignorant, and one day, let them know that we are good.

I don't think it's okay to keep in touch with other girls, everyone needs a few close friends, the question is whether your man can control himself?

Maybe there's something he wants to tell you, but can't tell you?

It's wise to be friends with your enemies, so that you have 2 hands of information.

Be a wise woman.

I don't agree with what you do, first of all, no matter what your relationship is, you don't have the right to check his phone, and this matter is bad for you to peek at his phone, I think because of this, he may have a kind of defensive psychology against you, so that even if she has anything to do with that girl, he doesn't want to tell you.

It's the fox that always leaks its tail, etc.

Your own boyfriend doesn't believe it, so why are you still with him.

You should trust your boyfriend.

Hehe.........I'm doing this all the time, if it were me I should call my boyfriend to beat the ** and I have to talk to the woman. But it depends on the situation. Gotta find a reason to do it, hehe.........

Having a good feeling doesn't mean liking, and I hope you can continue to date your current boyfriend. After all, it is impulsive, but if you like it for two years, it is better to have a crush on another boy now. If you always ignore your current boyfriend and care too much about someone else's boyfriend, then you have to be impulsive and don't hurt the other person.

You put them at opposite ends of the scale, too heavy to the left and feel unfair to the right, too heavy to the right but not too heavy to the left. There are pros and cons to both, and you don't know how to choose. That's why you're struggling.

I think you really like the guy behind you, but it's not enough for two people to get along. You have to understand what is most important in a relationship. How can feelings stay fresh for a long time?

It's a science. If you continue to hesitate, you may lose both. At this point, you have to make a decision.

But you want to choose one person and go on for a long time. If you are too hasty and choose a person based on intuition, you will not be able to sort out the pros and cons of the interaction between the two and the problems that may arise in the future.

This situation will make you go back to square one and think about whether you made the right choice in the first place. It is important to clarify in advance the comprehensive situation of the two, the problems that may arise in the future, and how to deal with them. Whether in love or marriage, both parties are in a state of choice before the relationship is reached.

At this time, it is necessary to comprehensively consider the conditions between the two parties to help them analyze and judge who is suitable for them in a limited time. All the analysis content, such as personality match, attitude towards things, etc. Systematic evaluation and analysis is required.

Feel your entanglement and reluctance, you need to understand the story of the fish and the bear's paw, and know how to make trade-offs, so that you can reap the happiness you want.

At this time, you need to recognize the reality and be sure to keep a safe distance from the opposite sex, because you already have a boyfriend, so you should be loyal to this relationship.

We must change this mindset and make ourselves more single-minded, otherwise we will reap the consequences, and everyone will be responsible for their own actions.

Then break up with your boyfriend, don't delay your boyfriend anymore, it's good for each other to break up.

Let's think clearly, don't do something you regret on impulse, and hurt the people around you, it's too late to regret it later.

Since you have a boyfriend, don't have any good feelings with others, since you have a good impression of each other, you have a lot of disrespect for your boyfriend, and you should care about yourself.

That's not a normal classmate relationship, tell you that you want to accept the existence of this relationship, whether you can adapt to it, it's your business, if it's a classmate, you won't delete the chat content. You're a man yourself, and you don't know what men think.

It should be that the relationship between the two of them is not bad, although it is not the kind of situation that wants to develop further, but they can talk very well, and they don't want to break it off like this, after all, it is not easy to find a friend who can be dated, and she is afraid that you will be angry, so it will cause the current situation, you can make it clear to her, you believe her, so that she doesn't need to hide like this, it's normal to have a friend of the opposite sex, it's okay, it doesn't look like anything!

After all, I've been in contact for so long, maybe I'm reluctant, I don't want you to know what they talked about, I want you to know that she also has friends of the opposite sex, and someone loves her, which makes you feel a little crisis.

It's not right for you to be angry. You should respect your friend's choice, how he interacts with him, that is his right, and you must not interfere.

Hello! Whether she is your girlfriend or your boyfriend, in fact, everyone has their own circle of friends, this circle of friends. Including both same-sex and opposite-sex friends, your girlfriend has made it clear to you.

He has a friend of the opposite sex who shows that he puts you first. And I hope you can get along well with his friends of the opposite sex. It's also a good start for him to introduce you to his friends of the opposite sex and identify with your boyfriend.

If you're his real boyfriend, why don't you be generous enough to let him have a friend of the opposite sex of your own? In fact, doing it is a good thing for you and for him. Sometimes he also needs to be friends of the opposite sex.

Some questions that he doesn't know about, and these questions may not be easy for the kindergarten teacher to explore with you. In fact, he may be able to get to know the opposite sex better through friends of the opposite sex. It can also enhance your relationship with him, if you blindly don't let him contact with friends of the opposite sex, there will be a gap between you after a long time.

If this continues, you may eventually go your separate ways. It's not good for yourself, it's not good for others, and I hope you can accept the fact that she has friends of the opposite sex. In fact, if you think about whether you have friends of the opposite sex, you must have them, but you may not keep in touch often.

Communicate with her well, both parties take a step back, and break up if you can't do it, there is nowhere in the world, why bother to love a flower.

It's really greasy.,It seems,Since your boyfriend hides it from you,It means that he still cares about you.,If you don't want to maintain the status quo, break up with your boyfriend.,Of course, he may be with which woman.,Or maybe he woke up and promised not to be with any woman.,But after you calm down.,Will continue to keep in touch.。 It is better for you to separate.

Dear, in the final analysis, if a boy is with other girls, there are generally two kinds:

Regardless of gender, pure friendship is purely regarded as the kind of good buddies. But apparently he is not, they are too ambiguous and too frequent.

The second is that everyone is a little interesting to each other, but this layer of paper is not pierced. Then this situation is usually caused by the avoidance of having problems with your other half.

Looking at what you just described, I think he went from 1 to 2.

How old are you?

You should be reluctant now, but you have to understand that if this man doesn't think about your feelings, what will you do in the future, so think about your future life.

There is no doubt that there is a rift in you. Go to the place where you went on your first date and talk straight and calmly.

It's time to give up, you should break up before you get two places.

If you still love it, stick to it.

I think this is the most taboo thing in a couple's relationship.

There is always a connection between a boyfriend and another girl, I think this is what everyone should be able to think of, either the boyfriend likes her, or she likes your boyfriend, in short, the relationship between these two people is definitely not as simple as friends, how can there be any innocent friendship, even if the relationship between men and women is good, they will not be in contact often, because everyone is busy with their own affairs. I have a few suggestions:

1.If it's time for you to have a good talk with your boyfriend, you should tell him that it's something you don't like, and that it makes you feel insecure and see if he's willing to make some changes for your sake. Besides, if this situation continues, there will definitely be some conflicts between you because of this girl.

So you have to settle this matter with your boyfriend as soon as possible. <>

2.If he won't give up contact with this girl for your sake and he doesn't change his mind, you can choose to break up with him, after all, this kind of thing will not end well in the long run. Everyone is very selfish in the face of love, especially girls, they are afraid of loss and have no sense of security, so they should be able to concentrate on treating a person.

3.If it's really the buddies you know between them, you also need to understand, after all, there are many girls who prefer to play with boys, you should empathize and be more considerate of your boyfriend's position.

But I think that the third situation rarely appears, after all, we can't figure out everyone's heart, and the first and second you can use as a reference. Everyone has a different point of view, and it depends on how you look at it

It also depends on the specific situation.,Sometimes it's because it's small.,Classmates or something.,These are more normal.。 Sometimes it's a different form that didn't have a relationship before, so you have to be careful.

First: It is the opposite sex who used to have a better relationship. Everyone has more or less friends of the opposite sex, and this one is harmless, as long as you don't chat every day, you can't take care of it.

I have a young girl, we are elementary school classmates, junior high school classmates, occasionally chat, during the holidays will also organize some mutual friends to go out to eat, sing, play for a while. It's all normal, she has a boyfriend and I have a girlfriend. My girlfriend is occasionally upset, so I'll be obedient.

None of this is really true. It mainly depends on whether your boyfriend likes you enough, whether he cares about you enough, if he really cares about you, similar situations, send small or something, even if he still chats, but will also take into account your feelings, reduce the number of chats or try not to let you know. I don't let you know when I say this, because he is afraid that you will be angry, not behind your back.

Second, you may have to be careful in this case. To put it bluntly, a man may make some mistakes, and this time is a test of whether the relationship between the two of you is deep enough.

If the relationship between the two of you is strong enough, then you might as well raise your grievances and even have a fight with him. If he cares about you enough, then he will know what he has done wrong, and he will correct it, the premise is that he loves you enough, just the occasional commotion, it is enough to give him enough sense of crisis, and he will change his mind. If he doesn't love you enough, or even says that he doesn't love you anymore and falls in love with someone else, then no matter how much you show your dissatisfaction and how you lose your temper, he won't care, and the better case is that he pretends not to know and can't see that you are losing your temper.

And even worse, after you lose your temper, he will call you vexatious, and even use this as an excuse to break up with you. If that's the case, I advise you to let it go.

Feelings are a matter of two people, if it is really just a normal communication, you give him a little reminder, he will pay attention to his words and deeds. If he changes his mind, then leave him, the one who splits his legs is not worthy of love.

Hope mine is helpful to you.

You can ask your boyfriend what their relationship is. And tell him that you want them to keep their distance and that if your boyfriend loves you, he will listen to your advice.

Ask your boyfriend what his relationship is with this girl, and tell him clearly that he doesn't like him like this.

If it were me, I'd get in touch with him and tell him I don't like the way you look!

You've been together for a long time? First of all, you have to analyze what type of person your boyfriend belongs to, one is that you have more friends, whether it is male or female. The second likes to be ambiguous with other women, and there is also like to always change girlfriends.

The first type: If you have known him for a long time, and you have a certain understanding of him, you can judge that this kind of general problem is not a big problem. The second type easily develops into the third type that requires you to control him below, and if he loves you, the best way is to call ** and text without replying until he finds you. The third is incurable, once a man loves sex, he can't quit gambling at all.

Break up soon...

Study your boyfriend's attitude towards him If it's a friend, forget it If it's a little wrong, don't quarrel with your boyfriend You coquettish him and tell him that you don't like them to contact and then ask your husband to change his mobile phone number and so on Pay attention Be sure to be optimistic about your husband's attitude It also depends on your level of coquettishness.