Can you take your feelings seriously in high school?

I think it's very good if you control it well, high school learning is very hard, the lifestyle is very simple, what's wrong with having someone as a companion, share the joys and sorrows together, study together and make progress together. But the premise is to have the ability to grasp the balance. I'm just, hehe, we're all together in college now, and the relationship is very good, and many people are anxious to find friends of the opposite sex because of loneliness in college, so I think we should cherish the feelings in high school, simple, innocent, and true.

It's better not to, just like when I was a child, the kind of dependence on my mother will disappear when I grow up.

It is necessary to focus on academics, and the rest can be talked about later.

Why not really le.

That's the truest feeling.

Because after all, it was my first emotion.

Trust your first feeling.

You said yes

You have to focus on your studies, and besides, you're just a high school student, and you can talk about the rest later, but I think you should also cherish the feelings you had in high school, simple, innocent, and true.

The feelings of high school should be relatively real.

It cannot be taken seriously, because there is no economic and material basis.

But it can be saved and waited until the time is possible.

I want to ask the upstairs, who gave you the food, clothing, and use now? Did you earn it yourself?

Feelings are not a mirage.

Of course, if two people can think about it at the same time, they will not envy the beautiful living environment in the future, and they will be willing to work hard, then it doesn't matter.

Who said that! That's not in others, it's in myself, my friend and I paid it in the first half semester of high school, and it's been handed over until now! We've had it for a year! As long as each other is sincere, material things are nothing!

Don't take it seriously, I've already tasted the bitterness, high school love is equal to death! The college entrance examination will be good-looking, I advise you, don't.

I don't think this is absolute, and it still needs to be seen for a long time.

The feelings in high school are relatively pure, and the reasons for liking each other are relatively simple, and there is nothing too much to benefit, perhaps because of the other party's personality and the other party's strengths, not because he has any favorable conditions for you. Therefore, I think that the liking of this period is the purest and most beautiful.

The likes in high school are really likes, there are no doping with various material factors, pure likes, but there are too few people who can be together in the end, and they are all in love with the person they love the most in their lives when they don't have the ability to give each other a happy life.

High school precautions include rent.

After all, high school is mainly academic, and at this time, everyone's mind is immature, many things, we will not deal with, maybe the other party really likes you, or maybe he doesn't know what liking is, so, the feelings at this time, in fact, are ignorant, and after persisting for a long time, you will know whether you really like it.

Now there are a lot of people from school uniforms to wedding dresses, so. The relationship in high school is not completely unbelievable, it depends on who you meet who is pretending to be old and fierce, and how seriously you take your relationship, these are all necessary factors to determine whether the relationship can be trusted.

Of course, the love in high school is the purest and most distractingly true.

In junior high school, I knew a little less about people, more primitive impulses, and after graduation, I had more thinking about the benefits of argumentation and reform, and I forgot the most essential things. The relationship from high school to mid-college is relatively more real and pure.

But there are exceptions to everything, especially in the era of only children, many students have a pampered and arrogant situation, and the maturity period is greatly delayed, which may not be applicable. But as a whole, most people's feelings in high school, or in their early 15-20s, are the most crystalline.

My friend and I have been in love with people in high school for 12-13 years, and it's impossible to forget, and that's all for this life.

I'm annoyed, with the truth, it's just pure love, there is not too much mixed love, I wish you happiness and a long time.

As a high school classmate. I've been in love for the rest of my heart. It's true, though.

I think the feelings in high school are the most genuine feelings in my life.

It doesn't have the ignorance of when it was a child, and it doesn't have to think about the problems of both families when it comes to college. You don't have to think about anything, it's the purest emotion. So if it were me, I would definitely express it.

is like the male protagonist and the female protagonist in "The Girl We Chased Together in Those Years", if the male protagonist is a little more bold and reads the words they wrote together on Kong Ming Lantern, then how could the female protagonist marry someone else in the end? And those of us who watch the drama should have fewer regrets.

It's not just like this in the TV series, but it's actually quite realistic. It's like waiting until the person you like finds your partner and then tells people that you once liked someone, so why bother? If you don't want to tell, you don't have to tell, and it's impossible to tell, so what's the use of telling?

Don't you try to tell, how do you know that the other person doesn't like you, how do you know that you can't possibly?

I had a table mate in high school who liked me for two years, and although I had a boyfriend at that time, he really didn't say anything to me. I was really naïve to think that he didn't have feelings for me other than friends. It wasn't until my sophomore year that he told me he would like me a lot.

Oh my god, give me a surprise. I asked him, "Why didn't you tell me you liked me when I broke up with my partner in my junior year of high school?"

I don't think you like my type, I'm afraid I won't even have to be a friend. ”

Actually, I thought that if he had told me, maybe I would have promised him, but I didn't tell him.

Sometimes we are afraid that if we find out, we are afraid that we will not even have to be friends, but the person you like so much, are you really only willing to be friends?

Therefore, while it is still too late, there should be no regrets.

In high school, we don't exist anymore, because we have all grown up at that time, and we should learn to be responsible for our own feelings and our own lives.

The reason why I don't dare to find out the feelings in high school is because I am afraid that my parents and teachers will know, and they are all for their children and students, because feelings do affect learning too much. After all, after reading books for so many years, going to high school means that you have to take the university entrance examination as the main line, not to mention that many parents want their sons to become dragons and daughters to become phoenixes, and going to college is the way for their hopes to come true. So you can't feel distracted at all.

It's true that it's really easy to be distracted when falling in love, and it's the same for both boys and girls, and girls are more affected. Most boys will enhance their self-confidence after falling in love, so that they will make more progress in their studies. But not girls, most girls are easily influenced by love.

For example, I thought that a female classmate in high school was an example, because she fell in love with her boyfriend, which caused her to lose concentration in class, and she was always distracted to think about the problems she encountered emotionally, so she fell off the list during the college entrance examination. It is conceivable that while love brings sweet happiness, it will also sacrifice a lot of things.

Although love is very beautiful, we must be aware of its two sides, to enjoy the happiness it brings, but also to avoid the disadvantages it brings, not everyone can meet the person they like, we must also learn to be responsible for ourselves, responsible for our parents.

When I was in high school, I didn't want to be a class cadre, but at that time there was a quota for outstanding class cadres at the municipal level, and the teacher forced me to be the deputy class leader, but I didn't care about anything in the class, and all the good things were mine, so that other people were envious, and I was also a big foodie, but when I was in high school, I didn't know what I had to do, and every morning I could find a bunch of food on my desk, and the food was different every morning.

When I was in high school, I didn't think about it so much, just give it to me to eat, and it was like this for two months, and one night I felt that it was very bad to always eat like this, so I wrote a note and left it on my desk, and wrote on the note, thank you very much for your snacks for two months, I feel good with your snacks, you write me a note tomorrow so that I know who it is, I thought he would write me a note, but the note never came, and then there were no snacks.

High school may be the purest period in many people's hearts, having the purest and most true feelings, not contaminated with too much worldliness and beginning to think about the future, everyone has an experience similar to open love or secret love, which may be vigorous or obscure, and they don't even realize it. We are always thinking about whether we should say it out loud in high school love, and whether pure love can still maintain the initial heartbeat when it reaches college or society, and if there is no love, it will come to an end.

My advice on high school feelings is not to say it, and if you don't have expectations, you won't be disappointed. Someone once said to me: I know you like so-and-so, if you don't dare to say it, let it be the best memory.

Later, I still didn't have the courage to say it, and it and he became my best emotional memory at that time. It is precisely because I have no expectations for this relationship, and I am not disappointed in the end, just as an experience that can be remembered for a lifetime.

Let's talk about a good friend of mine, the three-year junior high school relationship ended because of the birth to high school, and the three-year high school relationship ended in separation because after the college arrived. In addition, I have seen many examples, that is, the classmates around me, the couples who were favored and not favored in high school, most of them went their separate ways after college, and there are very few who have persevered until now, let alone after graduating from college.

Because I have seen too many examples of being together and separating, I think that high school love is too fragile, and high school students should focus more on their studies, and have a better future to create better opportunities to be together in the future.

Don't find out the feelings in high school, let him bury it in his heart is also a sweet memory. Let's talk about getting admitted to university.

I feel that it is also a good thing to be picky, because if you are picky, you will have a number in your heart, which will make you happier, otherwise you may regret it for the rest of your life.

In fact, it's normal to fall in love in high school The question is how do you look at it First of all, I don't think you should deliberately pursue, don't go to stalking, although women are afraid of soft grinding and hard bubbles, secondly, don't be able to avoid Some things are really precious, but they are also fleeting, if the two are happy, if the time is ripe and appropriate, you must seize the opportunity and cherish it.

As far as yours is concerned, first make sure that you really "love" her (although you will find out that it may not be love after a few years of Li Yin), and then go and see if she likes you too. Don't confess it first, hide it until you already know it well (it is recommended to bury it next to the second year of high school for the next semester), maybe you don't need to confess at that time, just hold her hand at the right time. But everything must be done on the premise of ensuring that the study of both parties is not disturbed, and there must be no excesses.

In the first year of high school, I still focused on studying.

I'm a junior this year, and in terms of personal experience, I think I should have a relationship in high school, not bothering the ants just for early practice, but also because I had it at that time, although it didn't last long, but that kind of warmth is still there. And, to this day, I haven't found that feeling on this college campus again.

Even, it doesn't matter if you succeed or not, because that's a good memory for you in the future.

But you must grasp the degree Don't think that this ruins yourself and ruins her, learning is the most important thing. It's the same when you go to college.

I think you are special because your parents are teachers in this school, and your relationship will have a bad impact on their work.

Take care of it yourself.

Yes. But you have to really like each other. That's it.