How old do you know what kind of object you need?

In general, a woman knows what kind of object she really needs when she is twenty-two or twenty-three.

As for men, they mature a little later, and they don't know what kind of girl they really need until they are about twenty-five years old.

Everyone has a time when they are young and ignorant, especially in the college years, everyone feels that they have really grown up, in fact, students cannot be considered truly mature until they officially enter the society.

At that time, the love I hoped for was very pure, and what two people wanted together was a feeling, and everyone didn't need to think about what kind of material needs they had to meet each other. Two people in love also don't need much material stuff to adorn themselves. As long as two people get along, it doesn't matter if it's hard.

Two people eating a bowl of instant noodles together, or two people drinking a glass of juice together, two people riding a bicycle to the suburbs to see wildflowers, two people squeezing the bus together is a kind of romance for such a simple thing as that!

In their minds, it is a happy thing for two people to go through a lifetime happily together.

And as you get older, this feeling will slowly disappear. Especially after entering the social work, people will become very realistic. It turns out that the so-called relationship between them has lost its material foundation, and it is really difficult to continue!

So at this time, everyone will re-examine their objects, plus when they really talk about marriage, their parents will definitely stand up for her to advise her future other half, and at this time there will be a lot of contradictions: the people her parents like and the people she likes are basically different, plus the dissuasion of the seven aunts and eight aunts around herSo most people will give up their original object and find a more suitable one!

The object is different from the existence of relatives and friends, we slowly grow up, we all need to find a partner, first fall in love, then get married, and finally stay together for a lifetime until the end of life.

Before you became an adult, the people you were looking for were petty fights, and you were just attracted by each other's appearances and thought each other was so beautiful! So handsome! That's cool!

Or you are moved by some behavior of the other party, the other party remembers your birthday, can comfort you when you are sick, can always accompany you when you are sad, you feel that this is love, this is love.

You don't have to think about it at a young age, you just want to live in the moment, your love is very pure, but when you are older, you will find that you used to like something about each other, but now you don't like it, and even the other party has changed some of the characteristics you like, after all, people are not the same, they are experiencing some people and things every day, and it is possible that one thing will subvert your understanding of each other. Because you are so young, you are more volatile and your feelings are more challenging.

So only when you reach a certain age, will you have a deeper understanding of love and know what kind of object you really need.

Of course, there is another reason, which has nothing to do with age, that is, your own emotional experience, the richer your emotional experience, the more you can understand yourself, what kind of object you need, how many times have you been in love, you have summed up what you really need from these love experiences, you fancy the other party's character, temperament, education or family background, appearance, etc., you can't accept what is wrong with the other party, how do you want the other party to treat you, consider comprehensively, see if the other party meets your requirements, if these are met, You're ready to start a relationship.