I m a sophomore, and I feel like two of the other two people in the dormitory have a better relation

Most of the feelings can't stand the comparison, can't stand too detailed comparison, if you always compare who loves deeply, who loves less, who is more intimate, you may make yourself more and more sad, more and more feel that others owe you, or things shouldn't work like this, but many times things happen like this.

So we don't need to make too many interpretations, maybe some of the comments they sent at that time were more down-to-earth and resonated with them more, so the comments that they replied to have not yet replied to your comments, and according to what you said, they were also replied to in time on other software.

This also shows that your relationship is still relatively stable. Since they are friends, then friends should also be considerate of each other, care for each other, if you really feel very uncomfortable, and he said in some relaxed tone, explaining that he hopes to get more replies or interactions, that is also okay.

It's just that we can't often bring it up, because we often ask the other party, then the party who is asking will also feel very irritable, and sometimes we also need to reflect on whether our behavior is not very good in some places, so that the other party is very sad and disgusted, so at this time, both parties have to make some adjustments.

You're still a sophomore, and it's a critical time for your studies, and you can't let something disrupt your progress. The other two people are also your friends, they are not other people, they just have a good relationship. That's a good thing.

Short circle of friends.

This is a very good step, so since it is expressed, what does the other party do? And what you do is what you need to pay attention to later, maybe the other party also needs time to realize what she did not do perfectly, you also need time to realize what you said at the time, why didn't the other party reply to you, and the other person who replied?

Maybe there must be a lot of details in it, so you can also think carefully about the details in it, and then you also need to make some good norms for your personality and behavior. Maybe your friendship can be taken to a better level.

Don't worry. It's normal for this to happen, and it's normal for others to play and don't need to be surprised.

You can fit in with them, or you can find a good friend on your own and have a normal relationship with them.

Don't care too much about other people's lives, don't force yourself if you can't get in, and keep learning to make yourself better.

Our dormitory is somewhat similar to yours, but we are three students in a four-person dormitory, and one of my classmates and I are the first.

In fact, it is not difficult to have a good relationship with your roommates, but at the same time, it is ...... to have a good relationship with your classmatesIt's better to have a good relationship with your friends in the class.

Because the evening is usually with roommates (well, in the case of singleness), there are many times when classmates go out to play and get together, you may not know, girls are easy to not know the dynamics of the class, boys play ball or something is easy to forget, and the relationship estrangement is generated little by little.

Therefore, it is recommended to pay attention to the main attention to building a good relationship with the good friends in the class, and often do activities together, if you really want to be active in the whole class, make good use of the class group in the freshman and sophomore years.

By the way, in fact, if you want a good relationship in this situation, the most important thing is to take the initiative.

Summary. It is better to have a relationship with someone in the dormitory, and there is no need to be sad, there are not many friends like boyfriends and girlfriends, and there are many people who have a good relationship with her, which also means that such friends are correct, and there is no need to be sad because someone has a better relationship with her.

The girls who play with me, there are three people in their dormitory, and they have a better relationship with the people in her dormitory, and I feel a little unbalanced in my heart, so sad and so sad.

It is better to have a relationship with someone in the dormitory, and there is no need to be sad, there are not many friends like boyfriends and girlfriends, and there are many people who have a good relationship with her, which also means that such friends are correct, and there is no need to be sad because someone has a better relationship with her.

It's hard to say anything in our dormitory.,One has an object.,Basically, they're looking for a partner.,And then that one I don't like very much.,The remaining three people usually walk together.,Sometimes I really don't want to get involved.。

I feel like I'm a failure and I'm lonely.

That's when you pick yourself out on your own, but you can actually try to send them to them.

Blend in with them. Loneliness needs to leave her by herself, and the first step in selling is to play with the people around you, not to pick.

Interpersonal relationships are so complicated, I treat others sincerely, why don't I have true friends, I'm tired.

How can you think she's not really treating you?

We usually walk together from Monday to Friday, and then on the weekend she goes with the two people in the dormitory, even if they go to eat together, they never tell me, I feel that I am not respected but I don't know how to say, since it is a friend relationship, why does she have to tell you when she eats with other friends, your requirements are beyond the scope of friends, friends are not the only ones, not like boyfriends and girlfriends.

The more friends the merrier, the more the merrier, and the only one.

You're right, the more friends the merrier, not the only one.

You have to try to open up your social circle by yourself, and a big factor in your problem is that you have few friends, and if this friend is not there, there will be no one to accompany you, so you don't know what to do when you are lonely.

Actually, there is no problem with your relationship.

It's just that you're thinking too much.

Yes, yes. Live well, and slowly have more friends.

Don't think too much, people are tired and tired, they are good, and they are blind and sad.

Summary. Good afternoon, I think you'd better choose the second dormitory, there is a girl in the second dormitory who is more sticky to you, although she is sticky to you, but what can you say to her, everyone has their own space, she can't stick to you all the time, she also has her own space.

There is a dormitory where there are only two people living now, they have lived in a year and have a good relationship with their grandchildren, and there is a dormitory where there are three people living now, one of whom is more sticky to me, but I don't like others too sticky to me, because I also want to have my own space, but I am also afraid of loneliness, I am afraid that if I choose the first dormitory, when the three of us sit in a row in class, I will feel uncomfortable watching her Shenkai think the two of them talking, which dormitory should I choose? I want to be able to sit with my roommate in class and go to the cafeteria together (I'm a girl).

Good afternoon, I think you'd better choose the second mausoleum to send a dormitory, the second dormitory has a girl who is more sticky to you, although she sticks to you, but what can you say to her, everyone has their own faint space to disturb the hall, she can't stick to you all the time, she also has her own space.

The first dormitory, the first dormitory because of the two people, they may usually play with the stool Hui better, but also more familiar, you are from outside, may not be familiar with you, you are not good at you, you are also very uncomfortable there.

I think you can choose whichever dormitory you are comfortable with, and you can choose according to your inner feelings.

Okay, thank you, teacher.

Summary. Many people have this kind of thinking, and they can't see that people who play well with others also play well.

There are three people in the dormitory, generally walking together to do things, one of them has a good relationship with me, and the other one has played well before, but Huai Zao is slow since I found out that he especially wants to play with another person, often intentionally or unintentionally grabbing the topic of the rock, as soon as I speak, he blocks my words, and keeps pulling another person to chat, every time.

Many people have this kind of thinking, and they can't see that people who play well with others also play well.

So how to deal with this kind of thing, now I really have prejudice in my heart, as soon as I see that he licks the look is really not a 20-year-old boy to do it, I feel disgusted, angry, he used to have the best relationship with me in his freshman year, and he met my current good friend in his sophomore year, and began to ignore intentionally or unintentionally that I may want to monopolize him, Bi Jishan is a good person, which makes me feel betrayed, especially the last time I thought the book was thrown into the dormitory, he said to my good friend Let's go, don't wait for him, I really don't feel worth it, Now Ichibana is very angry when I see him licking like that.

I feel that Zai Yeyan is, you had a good relationship at the beginning, and then he met someone else and he read the royal and talked to others, and deliberately pretended to be a good talk in front of you, is that so, which of the two of you is the first to play with the other, yes, I feel betrayed and unworthy, at the beginning I took him like a brother, and I met this good friend in the sophomore dormitory.

My good friend and I had a good conversation at the beginning of the slide, and we had similar personalities, but I had been thinking about how this friend felt in my freshman year, and I hadn't done anything to snub him, and he did it to me instead.

Maybe at first he felt uncomfortable when you talked to others, so he rushed to go.

But why is he messing with me? I have a clear conscience and have never snubbed him with royal trembling, and at the beginning even I treated him much better than my current good friend, more, because I have known each other for a year, and on the bright side, I have not said anything about this kind of thing, why should he do this stupid failure??

Because before you were two people, now you are three people, and suddenly a person appears, and he thinks you have been robbed.

In fact, he has always had a more general attitude towards me, and he is like a dog licking to my good friend.

The last question, how should I deal with this kind of friendship, I guess that he is more angry now, how to deal with his relationship in the future, and how to deal with this kind of problem when it is too late.

There is another kind of person, that is, the kind of person who forgets his righteousness, who did not play with him at the beginning, he must be good with you, and now someone is playing with him, and he doesn't want to play with you, you can go to make other friends, and play well with others, so you won't think about it.

What's there, the remaining two people can play with the two of you. What's this, it's not four people isolated one. If you don't have roommate in college, don't force it, if you don't get along, you won't get along, and you just live together.

There's no need, it's not necessary, what kind of powerful person do you really think of your roommate? Maybe you haven't worked hard yet, so is it necessary to forcibly integrate, it is best to be able to integrate It is nothing more than a different way to conspire with each other, there is nothing to say, others do not accept you Then it is useless how you integrate, it is better to be yourself and improve yourself to be a valuable person.

Slowly get used to it, or the remaining two people play together, I think you can not play with them, spend your time and energy on your studies, and your academic performance ranks first in the department, so that they are impressed, and they are touched to have a roommate like you!

Sometimes it's not the right occasion for people to talk about each other. But even if you can't play together, don't make a fuss, after all, you can't look up and see what you look down, it's good to be able to coexist peacefully

Just do your best, there is no need to add it hard, you will not be happy if you enter, it is better to be alone, you should rest and rest, you should study, there is no need to waste time on this kind of unworthy things.

You don't have to join in, if you really can't play together. It's good to think of it as an ordinary roommate.,You don't have to be friends.,You can find your own fun.,Don't force yourself too much!

If you bloom, butterflies will come. Stick to what you think is right. When it comes to going to school, academic performance is the most important, and there is no need to get together in order to form a gang.

If you can't get in, don't be wronged and melt in, these two people can also form their own small circle, and everyone can respect each other as guests, after all, it is impossible for a person to make everyone around him like him.

The remaining two have to be well treated, and they will blend together after a long time.

It's okay. But it's really not good to have a small group.

Not conducive to unity.

If you can't get in, don't force it

I think it has nothing to do with what zodiac sign you are, people who value feelings are often more sensitive, and other people's indifference to you may just be your own guess, you must learn to be open-minded, usually chat with your roommates, and be more tactful. I feel that it is also necessary to improve your psychological quality, you can talk to a psychology teacher, read some inspirational books, and take your time. In fact, the more you think about those things, the more uncomfortable it becomes.

Well, have a nice time with your roommates!!

As the saying goes, wear someone else's shoes and let someone else find it!

You are who you are, you are unique, and you don't have to change yourself according to other people's preferences or care about other people's attitudes.

Live your own character, your own personality, your own charisma.

Maybe they're just trying to target you?Maybe you're too straightforward? Although you think it's nothing, but in the eyes of others, it has changed its taste? I guess you shouldn't pay too much attention to it, just let it be