Why can t people see their brothers and sisters before they die?

Maybe it's because the customs are different in each place.

We don't have that in that place.

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It is human nature to meet your loved ones before you die. Not being able to see your brothers and sisters will leave you with lifelong regrets, so why bother?

No one knows when they will die, so they can't see their brothers and sisters before they die, but in reality, they can't see each other!

It's all superstition.,Don't see it before you die.,See you after death.,Is it a dream?。。

There is no such statement.

It is generally our basic tradition to see our family members one last time before we pass away.

Doesn't this mean that before a person dies, his brothers and sisters cannot visit him. If the relationship between siblings is good, you should go and see it, otherwise you will feel uneasy.

Don't listen to those people who don't talk nonsense, as long as you have the opportunity to see the end, you can't see that you have a ghost in your heart.

There shouldn't be such a statement, I don't know where you are, anyway, we don't have this kind of statement here.

1.Family dignity: In some cultures, the body should be physically intact and dignified after the death of a family member, so siblings should not see each other at the end of their lives.

This perception is mainly motivated by respect for the family and clan, as well as the avoidance of unnecessary pain and embarrassment in the face of death.

2.Religious provisions: Some religions stipulate that the relationship between unmarried siblings should be pure, so avoid seeing each other at the end of their lives to avoid inappropriate affection.

3.Avoid pain: Seeing each other before the death of a loved one can increase the pain and anxiety of each other, so avoiding seeing each other can reduce the emotional burden.

It is important to note that these are just some of the possible causes, and different cultural and social backgrounds may have different explanations. In addition, this statement is not universally applicable to all cultures and regions, and it may vary depending on personal beliefs and family traditions.

I haven't heard of this kind of saying, brother and sister love is deep, it's normal to want to see each other when they die, what is brotherhood, understand, there is nothing better than this, let them see the last side, don't regret it later.

If this statement is not really correct, you should recite the Buddha well and persuade you to live in the Western Elysium, only in this way can you get benefits, and you will not be a brother and sister in vain, if you can persuade you to be reborn in the Elysium, then your merit is also immeasurable.

I believe that siblings are no longer the closest relatives other than their parents, and they will have their own small families. In addition, the life trajectories and interests of the siblings are different, and the hearts will be scattered. But as long as the parents are still there, then in the original family, the brothers and sisters are still a family.

Regarding the affairs of the original family, the family will still get together to discuss and contribute together.

After the parents leave, no matter how good the relationship between siblings is, it is inevitable that they will be more estranged than before.

With the departure of his parents, his role in the original family will gradually fade, and the role of husband or wife, father or mother will become more and more profound.

In short, siblings are subordinate to their parents, and the small family is the first in line of intimacy.

So, in general, after the parents are gone, the siblings will be more distant than before.

And those brothers and sisters who simply don't associate with each other are nothing more than three reasons, which are very realistic:

1: Quitting the original family and living your own life.

It is undeniable that the family of origin is important to a person, and without the family of origin there is no place for a person to come from.

However, people always need to learn to walk independently, to build a new family, to manage their own lives, and to build a good original family for their children, which is the inevitable law of social development.

If the parents are still there, then even if they are 60 years old, they will always be the children of their parents, and when their parents are gone, they will no longer be children, at this time, they will withdraw from this role, return to their own small family, and do a good job as parents and husband and wife.

When a person withdraws from the original family, he can truly experience the feeling of being a parent, and can better manage his own small family and live his own life.

In real life, some people put their siblings in front of their wives and children, but they are actually unwilling to withdraw from the role of the original family.

Such people often do not manage their lives well.

thought that he had kept his real home, but he didn't know that he was only moved by himself, not only his brothers and sisters couldn't take care of him, but even his wife and children were very disappointed in him.

Such a person seems to be very capable and able to take charge of himself, but in fact, he still has a great dependence on the original family psychologically, and is unwilling and resists to run his life with an independent attitude.

In a way, it's an act of escapism and irresponsibility to yourself.

A person who can't even be responsible for his own team, how can he manage his own life well, and a person who can't manage his own life well, will not only be disgusted by his brothers and sisters, but also his wife and children don't want to be affected.

2: I experienced the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and I was disheartened.

Giving is not cherished, gratitude, but excessive.

In this world, there are interests in any relationship, and everyone has human weaknesses.

But some people ignore this, relying on blood ties to decide whether or not to trust a person.

Brothers and sisters should trust and support each other unconditionally.

As everyone knows, people will have selfish intentions, and brothers and sisters are no exception.

There are still obligations and responsibilities between you and your parents and children.

In many families, siblings are very harmonious when their parents are alive, and they go back and forth during the holidays, and they often keep in touch. But when the parents leave, this may be a different story.

Some siblings become less intimate and more distant.

Why is this happening? The reason behind it is too realistic and a little sad.

1. Parents are cohesive in their feelings, and when they are with their parents, their brothers and sisters have to come back to visit their parents, so they will always get together, and there will be exchanges when they meet.

If the parents leave, the connection can be alienated as a result. Parents are here, home is there, parents are not there, and the family is scattered, which is very realistic.

2. It is not excluded that some families hide some contradictions, and the parents can help mediate when they are alive, but one day when the parents die, conflicts will break out, such as when it comes to the distribution of family property, and children are prone to disagreements.

And some parents are eccentric when they are young, although they are not put out on the surface, but the unfavored children will always have pimples in their hearts, and when their parents die, the relationship between relatives is also cold, and some even die of old age and do not get along.

3. The parents are no longer alive, the children are also married, and some have grandchildren, because they have to take care of their own small families, many of them will live with their children, so it is not easy for everyone to get together.

4. Due to geographical reasons, brothers and sisters are distributed in different places, although the traffic has become convenient now, but the age has also become older, many people have inconvenient legs and feet, it is not easy to go out of a long way, it is often a red and white happy event in the family, and everyone can get together to see each other.

Like these reasons are very realistic, people pay the most attention to family affection, but the parents are no longer alive, and family affection often can't withstand reality.