What should we do if our parents break up our marriage?

Updated on society 2024-06-16
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It is very happy to be able to find the person you like in love, and I hope to be with each other every day, in my eyes, the other party is perfect, without any shortcomings, but you have to know that love is a matter of two people, but when it comes to really entering marriage, it is a matter of two families, not that you can solve it if you love each other, so what to do if you understand the marriage that your parents do not agree to, and will the person who was broken up by her parents regret it.

    1. What to do if the parents do not agree to the marriage.

    1. First of all, we must be calm about the opposition of our parents as children, because our parents look at your feelings from the perspective of people who have come from the past and use their experience to help you analyze, and when your parents feel that you are not suitable, you should think rationally about whether these points will really affect the feelings of both of you, and ask for the opinions of your parents and friends.

    2. It's not that your parents don't agree, you have to break up, many people will hate their parents very much in later life because of their parents' obstruction, but often feel that after marriage, the marriage result is not happy, and both men and women can temporarily let go. There are always some calm ways for both parties to think about these things, it's just a matter of time, don't be afraid, it's normal for everyone's marriage to face this hurdle of their parents.

    3. If your parents do not agree, you must have a certain reason for getting married, as parents they will worry about their children in married life.

    Worried that they will be wronged, so it is necessary to understand the factors of these parents' rejection, and analyze whether the marriage between the two parties will really be as the parents say, and do not act impulsively.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The marriage you choose is decided by yourself, and your parents are your guardians, and you can only exercise guardianship, not the right to decide, let alone use paternal authority to arbitrarily force you on.

    For the opposition of parents, as a child, you must be calm, because parents look at your feelings from the perspective of people who have come from the past and analyze them with their experience, we should think rationally about whether these points will really affect the feelings of both of you, and ask for the opinions of parents and friends.

    There is a certain reason for parents not to agree, and it is necessary to understand these factors of parental rejection, and analyze whether the marriage between the two parties will really be as the parents say, and do not act impulsively.

    For many people, the marriage that can be broken up by their parents also shows that both parties do not value this marriage, because they decide to let go when they encounter difficulties, and their marriage, even if they get married, will not be happy.

    There are many people who are broken up by their parents when they are married, and they will scribble to choose one who is obedient and accepts their parents' choice. If you don't have an emotional foundation, and even have a rebellious mentality, you will naturally start to have conflicts one day.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Yes, then you have to see what the reason for them is to do this, they must be for your own good, parents will not harm their children, marriage is not a family, at least it affects three generations.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    First of all, your parents are not out of bad intentions, they are in good intentions, but they may be doing bad things with good intentions.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It depends on the reason why the parents are separated, the sex is incompatible, the family is poor, and they don't like the man? Or is there a better option?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Parents breaking up their marriages and interfering with their children's marriages may constitute the crime of violently destroying the freedom of marriage. The crime of violent interference with the freedom of marriage is the act of forcibly interfering with the freedom of marriage and divorce of another person by violent means. China implements a marriage system of freedom of marriage, and prohibits arranged marriages, buying and selling marriages, and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage.

    As children, they should try their best to communicate effectively with their parents and strive for their understanding and support when it comes to marriage.

    The relevant legal basis for the association of this slippery text].

    Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China

    Article 257:Whoever violently interferes with the freedom of marriage of others is to be sentenced to up to two years imprisonment or short-term detention. Where the crime in the preceding paragraph is committed, causing the death of the victim, a sentence of between two and seven years imprisonment is to be given.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course you will regret it.

    Some couples do a very good job of secrecy at the beginning, and even parents don't know when their son has a girlfriend, or when their baby girl will definitely contain the handsome guy they love. But when the two told their parents about their relationship, they didn't expect to be strongly opposed by their parents. Some are because parents feel that the door is too far apart, and some are because parents have seen the wrong eye, but as children, they can only compromise.

    After being separated by their parents, the two had to reluctantly separate, and then participated in various blind dates with the help of their parents and well-wishers around them. No matter how good the blind date is, you can't let yourself forget the person who has been engraved in your mind, and you can only make do with the blind date. But the marriage of Improvisation Paifeng is unhappy after all, and the final outcome of the two people is already doomed.

    When I return to singleness, I will think of the person I used to be, and I will envy the individual, and regret that if I had insisted on it at that time, there would have been no such result. But there is no beginning of life again, and there is no antidote to regret, so you can only forget this regret and continue to go.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    People who are separated by their parents will regret it.

    People are realistic, no one can deny this, if you are separated by your parents, you find another lover again, and your life is very nourishing, you will hardly regret it, and you may be glad that you broke up that year. On the contrary, parents may regret it all the time, and most parents are thinking about their children's love or marriage when they break up their children's romance or marriage. Only a small number of parents break up their children's relationships because of selfishness, and if the parents think about it for themselves, then they are less likely to regret it.

    Generally speaking, men and women who were broken up by their parents in a relationship or marriage should decide whether they will regret it according to their personality. Some people are always entangled in the past, then they will regret it, no matter how well they live later. And some people who are very open-minded and optimistic basically don't regret it.

    If you just thought it was good to be together, but you were later broken up by your parents, then you generally won't regret it, after all, you don't love each other much.

    The importance of parental opinion in marriage

    It is precisely because we don't think about these things that we are very resistant to the blind date arranged at home, thinking that materializing these things is not love. But I think it's very reasonable for my parents to think about it. Parents are worried that if they do not have a good economic foundation after marriage, the marriage will be filled with quarrels over firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

    The couples whose parents fought against it did not end up doing very well. Therefore, when talking about marriage, it is best to listen to the opinions of the elderly. As the saying goes, if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you.

    Even if it's like a skin. The girl meets the boy she likes. will still fall directly into the whirlpool of love, ** regardless of the collision of two lifestyles in the future, and the future will be the relationship between the two families.

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