About long distance relationships About the distance between the two cities

Oh, it's only 1 hour's drive between you to cut off the relationship, then I'm really speechless, or you don't have deep feelings, or you are too sensible, an hour's drive, I don't think it's a drive, like many foreign couples in Beipiao or Shanghai and Guangzhou, the two families must be far apart, you are only an hour's drive, this distance is really not a problem, I think you still haven't thought about sacrificing some of your interests for each other, or not sure whether it's worth making such a sacrifice for each other, For example, to work and live in each other's place, on the other hand, I generally think that working in Chengdu is better than Deyang, or there are more opportunities, but he refuses to work in Chengdu for you, in fact, he also made a simple choice between his career and you, this choice may be intentional, maybe helpless, you might as well think about this reason, maybe you have made a good decision when you separated, but people always don't give up when you can't get it, hehe.

I don't believe in long-distance relationships, only when you are involved in each other's lives will there be that kind of lasting sweetness, not to mention that you are not married now, and you can break up at any time. It's better not to continue, although I know it's hard, but ......

Long-distance relationships are very painful.,I don't recommend long-distance relationships.,If each other's love is firm enough.,A year and 2 years can pass soon.,It's best for 2 people to be together.。。

I'm also worried about this, there is a boy in Shanghai who has always been reluctant to give up on his roommate, but my roommate is in Zhengzhou, and they all say that distance is not a problem, but I think distance will really dilute the feelings between lovers, if she agrees to him, maybe they will never be possible in the future.

Your question is also very depressing, but since you can be sure that you love him, and he loves himself, why not give yourself a chance.

It's just an hour.

If you don't meet, there will be more distance, and beauty may be.

Your situation is similar to mine, but mine is more complicated, and I want to know what to do, hey! Oh, my God!

Anyway, don't live together, an hour is good, my boyfriend and I are Chinese diagonals, I'm even more helpless, he comes to see you a week, you go to see him a week, it's good.

Distance is what separates two people who like each other. A long-distance relationship won't lead to anything. Either you pay to find him, or you give up and let go. Choose one of these two, doomed.

You can talk to him about this and see what he says.

Oh my God, I'm also from Deyang, my girlfriend is also in Chengdu, I didn't expect someone to have the same problem with me ten years ago, so it's been ten years, how are you, I also encountered the same problem with the younger generation.

If two people have different life trajectories, they will come into contact with and face different people and things, especially in first- and second-tier cities, and there are too many people and circles that they can come into contact with in their spare time. Gradually, the trials and frustrations that long-distance couples need to endure are also increasing. Because in addition to the test of time and distance, the worldview, outlook on life, and values of two people will gradually move away from each other, becoming two parallel lines, and moving forward at different growth speeds and development directions, which will lead to the handling of many things, and the ideas and practices of the two people will collide and become unbalanced, and they will slowly become people of two worlds.

Don't allow yourself to give unwillingly, or have a premonition that you will regret it in the future. Paying for love should be wholehearted or even imperceptible, and the sense of giving will make you feel that the other party owes you, youth, career, and feelings, once it becomes a bargaining chip, love will become a transaction, and when you can't get anything in return, you will collapse.

Whether your family agrees with you to live with him in a different place, and whether you are willing to leave your friends, leave your family, and go to live with him in a city.

How confident you are in yourself.

If you go to a different city, will you be able to adapt to the new life and new environment? And can you find a job you love, and can you rebuild your network in a new environment?

If you have determined that each other is the only one, that you can leave your family and friends and live with him for him, and that you have the confidence to solve all the problems encountered in the life of two people, then you can consider running to him and gambling for love!

Even if you encounter any difficulties, you will face them yourself! Over time, the dependence on the other half will not be so great! It is quite possible to get used to a person!

Both men and women sometimes need support and understanding. The effect will be better together.

Also, separated from the two places, how can you ensure that your boyfriend and girlfriend have no suitors? Even if we trust each other, won't accidents happen?

Therefore, it is better not to be in a different place in love!